Men obviously can recognize lust so they will not confuse lust with love. But when the lust is slowly changing to love, this is a state of time that men will always get confused. They didn't know that they are already falling in love. They thought it was only the lust, not love. How can lust can be love? If we start with lust, it should stay the same at the end. Oh, how poor they are.
I voted A because for me they are the same. I cannot lust after someone unless I love her at some level. So maybe, I'm the one who is confused? :-) Also since I'm a man! :grinning:
We them men . love we take it serious we not just fall in it like it is a swimming pool. It instead has to fall on in us unlike women who come with love always @Brainsbeforebeauty
But if they fall, isn't that love? I think women confuse lust, a man wanting sex with them as them loving them, and while there's some men that won't have sex unless they really love the woman, there's plenty of men that want just sex, and will lie or say whatever to achieve that
I know, but there's plenty of men that do, and most will pretend to love or pretend to want a relationship, and there's lots of women that fall for it...
True sponge and these aren't men because real men do no use a woman just for sex, a woman is a lot more than sex, she is the happiness and joy if she's a good devoted wife 😊
I know, I know lol days was being slow and got lazy lol but this was about who does it "more," and while I agree both can, I personally feel women confuse a man lusting after her as love more, think sex is a way to get/keep a man, when real love is so much more than just sex
I tend to think that girls fall in love with a guys mind long before the Cock Size but it is essentially true Lmao
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Isn't there always some gender divide here? How many players are men and how many are women? Friends with benefits seems to be popular these days, with no love, just lust. I think love has gone out the window.
@Asad1ONE1 I'm not a troll, nor am I trying to divide the sexes.. This post was actually posted after I answered a post where the female started she posted sexually explicit stuff for her ex even though he's in another relationship now and when asked why she would do that, she claimed they still live each other. Yet if her ex loves her, why is he with another woman and not her? Oh I'm sure he "loves" the sex videos lol Just trying to wake women up to the fact that just because a man wants sex doesn't mean he loves you... Love is about more than just sex or lust. While I agree those things are important in a relationship, there's way more to it than just that
Let me let you in on a little secret sister: there is no such thing as "sex" without "emotion". Speaking of emotions, there are all kinds. Lust, love, both, none, etc.
Many people (men and women alike) can have sex without love. This is not limited to men. Not even "more" men. But "emotions" are always there, love or not.
Reckless and sociopathic women are just as common as reckless and sociopathic men, which is to say both are rare.
It's not worth fear mongering over, as it will do more damage than good to auto assume every guy or girl wants casual sex.
The fact that you typed: "Just trying to wake women up to the fact that just because a man wants sex doesn't mean he loves you..." basically confirms @asad1one1 suspicion that it's a post to attempt to divide the sexes.
@Asad1ONE1 I think you're confusing the question.. It wasn't about who lusts more, it was who confuses that lust as love more? And I personally think women confuse a man lusting after them as a man loving them, when you yourself just stated people have sex without love.. That's the point, just because someone has sex with you, doesn't mean they love you
No one confuses lust for love, lust is a form of love.
What holds together a relationship is lust and attachment, and if you only love the body, that may not be enough for attachment.
Personality is way more effective at creating attachment, because it increases the level of rarity a person has, and the level of enjoyment the person has to offer. Which, in turn, decreases the odds of finding it again.
When you find that sort of match, and then form deeper bonds through shared experiences, that reinforces the attachment even more, making even a twin of your SO that you have no shared experiences with, much less desirable than your SO.
But a sociopath does not form attachments, because they don't enjoy experiences emotionally, and a reckless person does things before thinking, so the issue you are warning about stems from that, not from being lustful, and it's equally uncommon in both sexes.
@Brainsbeforebeauty Yes I noticed that. There is no such thing as "confusing" this. You feel what you feel. And that's not gender specific. You're overanalyzing.
Because of this, it's easy to spot a sociopath, they have no passions in life, no dedicated hobbies that they have talents in and gush over. They typically fit male or female stereotypes and have very basic personalities.
They spend their free time just relaxing and being lazy instead of doing enjoyable activities, and they usually enjoy alcohol, certain drugs, or other downers. They usually find challenges annoying, they are driven by ego, they adhere to social stereoptypes as if its the norm, and usually get mad or offended if they are wrong about something.
I'm sorry. Is your question about the "feelings" of lust/love for your partner? Or is it about the "perception" of your partner's love/lust for you?
If "feelings" are definitely not gender specific, then neither should the "perception". Otherwise you're trying to imply that certain women are hypocritical. Lol
@thespacegnome yeah no it's not, and noone else saw it that way whatsoever, and you've seen enough of my posts to know that's bs.. nowhere did I say all men do this, but if all a guy wants from you is sex, that's NOT love... If a guy already has a girlfriend but is trying to have sex with you, that's NOT love... Funny, so the posts bashing/trashing all women, don't see you or this user, jumping on THOSE posts that really are trying to divide the sexes.. one of the reasons I sometimes do polls versus a question is to show how similar men and women vote, showing we really do want the same things sometimes, or do think the same way, irregardless of gender. You can keep throwing those false accusations out there, don't make it true🤷🏼♀️
@thespacegnome oh and you're defending a person who's now harassing a user that replied to this post on other posts. Not having the same views as someone doesn't justify harassing someone
Yes he's defending me. He knows many women are manipulative liars. And you have the nerve to believe the girl that is accusing me of "said" harrasment. She's just upset at my counterarguments.
I'm in love with lust, but it's the other way around too ☺️ (The adrenaline is just overwhelming) Try to keep the two apart and find an adequate description for feelings like these, as opposed to definitions
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Men lust over women & women mistake that lust for love.
I agree...
I think both sexes do it. Who does it more? I don’t have a clue.
I personally think women do, the women that think sex is a way to get/keep a man and the man is only in it for the sex
@Brainsbeforebeauty that’s probably a reasonable assumption.
Men obviously can recognize lust so they will not confuse lust with love. But when the lust is slowly changing to love, this is a state of time that men will always get confused. They didn't know that they are already falling in love. They thought it was only the lust, not love. How can lust can be love? If we start with lust, it should stay the same at the end. Oh, how poor they are.
I voted A because for me they are the same. I cannot lust after someone unless I love her at some level. So maybe, I'm the one who is confused? :-)
Also since I'm a man!
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🤣 I think women confuse lust and love more...
@Brainsbeforebeauty disagree, there's an awful lot of romantic and confused men out there
We them men
. love we take it serious we not just fall in it like it is a swimming pool. It instead has to fall on in us unlike women who come with love always @Brainsbeforebeauty
And that's why I think it's women that confuse lust with love more than men do
It's both honestly I think the feelings are mutual.
I personally think it's women that mistake men lusting after them or wanting sex as loving them more than men do
Yeah I thought that too but as time goes on it seems to be like that on both sides. I don't know could just be my biased personal experience.
I'm sure many fitness & Instagram models can answer this no problem. LOL
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I chose men because they fall fast even without thinking!
But if they fall, isn't that love? I think women confuse lust, a man wanting sex with them as them loving them, and while there's some men that won't have sex unless they really love the woman, there's plenty of men that want just sex, and will lie or say whatever to achieve that
That's true and that's what i meant, a man who truly falls for a woman and really loves her, won't be for sex only...
Personally i can never imgaine myself with a woman just for sex...
I know, but there's plenty of men that do, and most will pretend to love or pretend to want a relationship, and there's lots of women that fall for it...
True sponge and these aren't men because real men do no use a woman just for sex, a woman is a lot more than sex, she is the happiness and joy if she's a good devoted wife 😊
Should be, I agree
You needed a third option for both genders that confuse them.
I know, I know lol days was being slow and got lazy lol but this was about who does it "more," and while I agree both can, I personally feel women confuse a man lusting after her as love more, think sex is a way to get/keep a man, when real love is so much more than just sex
*data not days🤦🏼♀️
Definitely girls. Our lust is all-encompassing and usually involves a degree of care.
If women didn’t do it more then men would never have sex
Ha, right!!
Love and lust don't have much logic behind them. Both men and women make mistakes equally in this field.
Both. Inexperienced people definitely are the ones who do such a thing
I think "women" confuse men lusting after THEM to be love more than anything else! I don't think men even think about it that much.
I dont believe it has anything to do with gender. I think it goes both ways.
I tend to think that girls fall in love with a guys mind long before the Cock Size but it is essentially true Lmao
Isn't there always some gender divide here? How many players are men and how many are women? Friends with benefits seems to be popular these days, with no love, just lust. I think love has gone out the window.
Both do. We also romanticise it, such as ‘love at first sight’
The question is flawed.
You need both for a healthy relationship, and romantic love is just lust + mental compatibility.
Also souls don't exist.
Probably a troll question. Attempting to divide the sexes lol
@Asad1ONE1 Dunno why anyone would bother when it won't work.
@Asad1ONE1 I'm not a troll, nor am I trying to divide the sexes.. This post was actually posted after I answered a post where the female started she posted sexually explicit stuff for her ex even though he's in another relationship now and when asked why she would do that, she claimed they still live each other. Yet if her ex loves her, why is he with another woman and not her? Oh I'm sure he "loves" the sex videos lol Just trying to wake women up to the fact that just because a man wants sex doesn't mean he loves you... Love is about more than just sex or lust. While I agree those things are important in a relationship, there's way more to it than just that
Yes. These stupid mind games and over-analyzing.
Let me let you in on a little secret sister: there is no such thing as "sex" without "emotion". Speaking of emotions, there are all kinds. Lust, love, both, none, etc.
Many people (men and women alike) can have sex without love. This is not limited to men. Not even "more" men. But "emotions" are always there, love or not.
Reckless and sociopathic women are just as common as reckless and sociopathic men, which is to say both are rare.
It's not worth fear mongering over, as it will do more damage than good to auto assume every guy or girl wants casual sex.
The fact that you typed: "Just trying to wake women up to the fact that just because a man wants sex doesn't mean he loves you..." basically confirms @asad1one1 suspicion that it's a post to attempt to divide the sexes.
@Asad1ONE1 I think you're confusing the question.. It wasn't about who lusts more, it was who confuses that lust as love more? And I personally think women confuse a man lusting after them as a man loving them, when you yourself just stated people have sex without love.. That's the point, just because someone has sex with you, doesn't mean they love you
No one confuses lust for love, lust is a form of love.
What holds together a relationship is lust and attachment, and if you only love the body, that may not be enough for attachment.
Personality is way more effective at creating attachment, because it increases the level of rarity a person has, and the level of enjoyment the person has to offer. Which, in turn, decreases the odds of finding it again.
When you find that sort of match, and then form deeper bonds through shared experiences, that reinforces the attachment even more, making even a twin of your SO that you have no shared experiences with, much less desirable than your SO.
But a sociopath does not form attachments, because they don't enjoy experiences emotionally, and a reckless person does things before thinking, so the issue you are warning about stems from that, not from being lustful, and it's equally uncommon in both sexes.
@Brainsbeforebeauty Yes I noticed that. There is no such thing as "confusing" this. You feel what you feel. And that's not gender specific. You're overanalyzing.
Because of this, it's easy to spot a sociopath, they have no passions in life, no dedicated hobbies that they have talents in and gush over. They typically fit male or female stereotypes and have very basic personalities.
They spend their free time just relaxing and being lazy instead of doing enjoyable activities, and they usually enjoy alcohol, certain drugs, or other downers. They usually find challenges annoying, they are driven by ego, they adhere to social stereoptypes as if its the norm, and usually get mad or offended if they are wrong about something.
I'm sorry. Is your question about the "feelings" of lust/love for your partner? Or is it about the "perception" of your partner's love/lust for you?
If "feelings" are definitely not gender specific, then neither should the "perception". Otherwise you're trying to imply that certain women are hypocritical. Lol
@thespacegnome yeah no it's not, and noone else saw it that way whatsoever, and you've seen enough of my posts to know that's bs.. nowhere did I say all men do this, but if all a guy wants from you is sex, that's NOT love... If a guy already has a girlfriend but is trying to have sex with you, that's NOT love... Funny, so the posts bashing/trashing all women, don't see you or this user, jumping on THOSE posts that really are trying to divide the sexes.. one of the reasons I sometimes do polls versus a question is to show how similar men and women vote, showing we really do want the same things sometimes, or do think the same way, irregardless of gender. You can keep throwing those false accusations out there, don't make it true🤷🏼♀️
@thespacegnome oh and you're defending a person who's now harassing a user that replied to this post on other posts. Not having the same views as someone doesn't justify harassing someone
Yes he's defending me. He knows many women are manipulative liars. And you have the nerve to believe the girl that is accusing me of "said" harrasment. She's just upset at my counterarguments.
I'm in love with lust, but it's the other way around too ☺️
(The adrenaline is just overwhelming)
Try to keep the two apart and find an adequate description for feelings like these, as opposed to definitions