People might get mad at me for this one, but I think women confuse lust for love more. (Not that there aren't men that do this too) there are A LOT of men who will have sex with any woman who let's him have sex with her. He doesn't care what she looks like and will have no problem never contacting her again. Women seem less desperate and have higher standards. Women lusting over men is a direct result of women only sleeping with the type of man that she could see herself being in a relationship with.
Fuck if people get mad at the truth, because I believe you're💯 right...
I do believe men lust more though. But men understand it isn't love.
Again, I would agree with that
From brief conversations and from reading your opinions, we seem to agree on a lot of things 😎
Is that a good thing🤔🤣🤣🤣 just kidding lolol "great minds think alike"😊
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You need to ask this? Ha ha. I think you know the answer.
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Actually, upon further reflection, I would like to revise my answer. Men mistake their own lust for love far more often than women are fooled by their own lust. But women often mistake the lust of men for a declaration of love, thus causing themselves great heart ache. So, I would say it is about even. Both genders more or less equally misinterpret the lust of men to be feelings of love.
I would agree with that lol
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Men definitely. Women are often misguided, because most women only sleep with a handful of men (womanizers). Typical men often fall in love over sex. I dated a gorgeous girl in high school. We dated junior and senior year. She was the first woman I had good sex with (marathon sex the summer between junior and senior year).
she would booty call me all the time. She broke up with me and told me I meant nothing to her. I asked her to satay away. 72 hours later she was fucking me again, calling me every day,…
she did not care about me or my mental health, but I loved her. After the breakup half of her friends tried to fuck me. Girls would knock on my window, then imply they wanted sex (I did about 75-80%). Those same girls would ignore me in the hallways at school.
even today, I can get women to sleep with me, but I cannot get a girlfriend. I am 44. No women within ten years of my age will talk to me, but 22-year-olds will fuck me. They will not return calls or texts, but then they show up for booty calls. They are embarrassed to be seen with me, but they will fuck me. Even after I got divorced, so many of my ex-wife’s friends tried to fuck me. I felt dirty.
women claim they want relationships, but I do not see it. I think it is immoral to sleep with someone then ignore him. It hurts. The worst is when they do not acknowledge you in public, then call and show up for sex.
I am not going to lie, I may have engaged in similar behavior as a young man, but I never ghosted anyone. This never happened when I was young. I simply do not understand why young women would want a fat old man to sleep with, and why older women will not tolerate me at all.
I think women do. I'm not sure they even know what love is, but they think infatuation is love. They believe in love at first sight. Here on GAG, I see girls talking about being in love with guys they correspond with on-line but have never met. Or just because a guy fucks them, they think he loves them. They'll even continue to declare their love for guys who cheat or abuse them.
Guys can mistake infatuation for love, too. But I think it happens more often to women. They have wanted story book endings since they were little girls.
I agree completely
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Even with love you have to have lust unless to me means there is some form of love passion desire to me lust means taking the best of everything and allowing her to feel it making it all about her so you can take her to a place she's never been before I mean intensity where your whole body is just tingling because that's the vibe that you get off of her that you're giving to her it's an in-control out of control state of commitment in a roundabout way
I knew two girls that every time they would see me they would say hi mr. Lust and I never knew what that meant until Monday one of them said it out loud
LUST
LOVE
U
STEVE
TICE
And I still don't know what it means LOL but whatever it is it's hot and I need some right now please lol
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I think it might possibly be more prominent in women. It's the types who fixate on one person long before they even dated them or really got to know them that tend to fantasize so deeply about someone they barely know. You know, people who hunt with a sniper rifle. Guys only do that when they're desperate and can't get dates in my experience. Women who are perfectly capable of getting dates seem to do far more often in my limited experience. They single out one guy.
I figure it's a biological thing. Reproductive costs are almost entirely imposed on the woman in our primitive evolutionary contexts. So it probably makes more sense for a woman to fixate on one man to bear her children than for a man to fixate on one woman to bear his unless he's desperate.
On the flip side, I think there are more desperate guys than girls. So that might balance things out a bit. But that's the difference as I see it: when a guy crushes so hard on one girl and fantasizes about her without barely talking to her, having never dated her, it's because he has no other options usually. When a girl does that, she might have lots of options, but still fixates and infatuates regardless.
Agree!
By the way, I'm never speaking of all men and all women, and I don't even know if what I'm saying is really right. It's just my personal bias and experience based on very limited data.
It's a very counter-intuitive thing as I see it because even though it seems far more common for women to be insecure, most guys seem happy with "a girl" with whom they're happy enough. But I think far more women want "the guy". It should be us with all the insecurities -- I think -- because far more women in my experience want "the guy", and not just "a guy". But I think both sexes are equally guilty of mistaking infatuation/lust for love. It's just a matter of who is more inclined that way as I see it.
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I think I got this backyards I'm my head, but I'm not sure. I would say many men think they're in love when really what they've mistaken for love is the lust that they have for a woman. I think It's more so men that struggle with differentiating the difference between their perception of what love is when in reality they're full of lust. I may be wrong, but I think that sometimes after a while It's a woman who can tell the difference and not a man. Many relationships I believe end for this reason. Women want to feel loved and they're able to tell if a man truly loves them rather than one that revolves around a man full of lust for them.
(Sorry for the wordy response. I was trying to sort out in my head how to best hoe to put into words the answer that I was trying to convey).
Overall, I think men know that lust is just that... a desire to satisfy their horniness. Women often treat a man paying attention to them as love, when all the man really wants is to get in her pants.
Plus... women aren't satisfied unless there's love in a relationship, whereas men can handle a relationship where love is not a given.
I agree
Girls think that guys will love them if they can overcome the physical barrier given time. Lust is loving someone else's body or the sex, but nothing else. It's like the Saving Abel song "The Sex is Good". Some lines are "I'm not in love but the sex is good" "Not much for talk but you're hot as hell" "I hate sleeping alone". A girl can see the guy whi exhibits these traits as being in love while the guy is with her because she is hot and a good lay.
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I don't really think you can pick either gender really but from my experience men become more obsessed and start to believe they really like a girl when they don't even know her they just like the way she looks. Sometimes I have men who approach me and I'll be friendly and nice and they all sudden think I'm the one when in reality if they got to know me they'd realise I'm definitely not for them.
They are sometimes closely related, but I'm a guy and I feel like I know the difference but from what I've seen or heard, women tend to confuse it. Don't know if it is true, but I've seen women here saying that they hooked up with a guy hoping a relationship would evolve
Yeah, I think women confuse it more.. think sex is a way to get or keep a man, and wind up with men that were just in it for the sex
True, but still I wonder how all the trashy guys are able to get laid, well they know to talk
Lies, but eventually the lies no longer work, Peter out, well if the woman's smart anyways.. And not all women smarten up to it fast enough
I feel like men can tell if they’re in lust or in love. They’ll either wife the girl or not 😂
I think it’s hard for women based off of my own experiences as well as my friends.
Yeah I think women confuse men lusting after them, or wanting sex as men loving them
I think men definitely experience lust more than women do, but we definitely confuse lust or infatuation for love more than men do.
That would be my thought as well
Yay 🎊🎉 Great minds think alike, I guess. 😁
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Lying much? Reality is something else...
www.irishexaminer.com/lifestyle/arid-30881753.html
www.google.com/.../...makes-want-partner-more.html
www.theatlantic.com/.../
www.google.com/.../men-not-more-visual-or-easily-aroused-than-women-research-shows
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medium.com/.../women-are-every-bit-as-visual-as-men-d2adaadcc2f3
@Asad1ONE1 First, ascribing deceit to a 19yo woman’s opinion is pretty spineless, and really gross! regarding your links:
The 1st one (Irish examiner) is a book review where the subheading is “ WOMEN are monogamous, men are not. This is our heterosexual script, dating back 10,000 years, which tells us that when it comes to relationships, we are either swans or rabbits. Women are swans, mating for life, showing less interest in sex as time passes (“not tonight dear”). Men are rabbits.” SO WHAT? Obviously women cheat, nobody said they didn’t?
The 2nd one is from the daily mail, a TABLOID, I won’t even justify its existence by commenting.
The 3rd from The Atlantic, titled “ Turns Out Women Have Really, Really Strong Sex Drives: Can Men Handle It?” So? WTF does this have to do with lust? When in my last relationship of two years, We often had sex multiple times a day, mostly because I wanted it. (He may have wanted the first go-round, but I definitely wanted the second, third, and fourth!) sex drive is not the same as lust. when you are in love.
The 4th Relates to: Men Aren't 'More Visual' Or More Easily Turned On Than Women Are, Study Finds again, WTF does this have to do with Lust Vs infatuation? Answer, NOTHING! Did you go to college? Because it seems your idea of research is pulling up as many headlines as possible that sound vaguely similar to the subject at hand, regardless of whether or not they are irrelevant, in the hope that nobody LOOKS! #5 & #6 we’re about women being “visual” which, again… NOT the subject being discussed for which I proffered my OPINION.
@Asad1ONE1 Yes you dipshit! That is what this site is for. Here are just SOME of the questions that are active and answerable right now:
How do you and your S/O resolve conflict? (Better get your sources out for this one)
How often would you say you have desert? (what if I say 1x wk, & you have a source that 2x wk is best)
Have you ever tried Duck, would you? (You better Google that one, get at least 5 sources)
Do you have a good poker face? ( Asad, you better have proof for this important question)
What’s your favorite “go to” sandwich fixings? (Again, at LEAST 7 sources please)
Describe the best date you ever had? (We’ll need proof from your date)
When was the last time you masturbated? (This one you can lie and say never)
WHERE a THE HELL did you think you were answering questions for? Did you think this was some prestigious Washington DC “Think Tank”? That we debate international monetary policy here? This is the place for “masturbation” “why did my boyfriend” “what’s your favorite sandwich topping” and MORE “masturbation” questions, you fool! And you think THIS is the hill to metaphorically die on intellectually?
Jesus, I sit in college all day, and home/work in the evenings reading Jung, Freud, Erickson, Maslow, Skinner et al. I come here (as do MOST mentally healthy people) FOR the silly questions that require zero thought. I give my opinion as does everyone else. And THAT is when, just like a bloated corpse, the crazy floats to the surface to make sure everyone knows who they are!
@CrazyGirl2 I haven't researched, but I definitely do think the former is because men are visual creatures and testosterone plays its part too. Obviously, decent men wouldn't lust after other women in a relationship.
@Asad1ONE1 one more insult to anyone on my post, and your replies will be removed... Learn how to discuss or disagree like an adult not immature resorting to name calling, that's pretty childish wouldn't you say?
Funny thing is, you were reluctant to notice "dipshit" @CrazyGirl2 mentioned. But only focusing on my reply. I wonder why.
@na2398 Hey sweetie, how are you it’s been a while. That was absolutely hilarious about you not researching it! Seriously I definitely needed that laugh. Thank you so much 🙏🏼. But yeah, I mean who would think otherwise? Every first date I’ve ever gone on since I’ve been in college, the guy wanted to “come in for a night cap” whereas I had absolutely no interest in capping off his night with anything other than a kiss on the cheek, and my sincerest thanks for a lovely evening. Because as MUCH as may have been infatuated with the guy, I don’t feel the type of lust that men do… and that’s actually according to the men. And I think it’s a good thing, it offers balance. I may WANT to do “more” than a kiss on the cheek, but my experience has taught me that men want a LOT more than some kissing on the couch (thus their constant wandering hands, despite me saying NO, a lot MORE than once)! Thanks for chiming in, your timing could not have been better.
@CrazyGirl2 Hey there, sweets. 😊 I've been fine and you? 😊 Bahaha I'm glad you chuckled. 😂😂😆 I have this knack for making people laugh in the most serious of situations 😆😆 Well, those guys are immature. From whatever you said, it's evident they have very little to offer other than sex. They fail to understand that relationships are way more than that. A NO means NO! Disrespectful of them. I'm sure you'll have better experiences, sweets. 😊 Lots of positivity ❤️
@Asad1ONE1 maybe I didn't read all the thread🤔 people do have a life outside of GAG, but yours was more recent, and you doing it on more than one thread 🤷🏼♀️ maybe that's why
Beauty, thus guy is driving me crazy, he’s not a follower of mine, but RN he’s harassing me on at least three other questions, potentially four! If I list is a little, in sorry hun. But seriously this guy feels like a red hot poker in my moist lady bits! But you know how I feel about blocking people, I despise it, because they can still say whatever they want, only I cannot see it, just a banner “this was poster by someone you blocked, or someone who has blocked you”.
*This guy*
@CrazyGirl2 I understand how you feel. I'll read his replies after lunch. Can handle this for you. :) Guys do fail to understand a woman's perspective many times. It's easier for me coz I am emotional. :)
@na2398 Yeah, I’ll try to find where he’s replied to me, so you can read @asad1one1’s abuse! Obvs it’s more difficult as he doesn’t “follow me” And his account is private, but I’ll go through my extensive notifications to find where he replied. Under no circumstances whatsoever do I want. people ganging up on him, that would undoubtedly be considered “targeted harassment” and we’d both lose our accounts, and he would get to stay. You are free to do as you wish, but just speak in generalities, never use my name though just his treatment of women in general. That’s my passion project anyway! Thanks hun, you realize you were one of my first followers…. There were a few before you, but you where a instant adopter of Laura!
@CrazyGirl2 My motive ain't to bash him, rather make him understand how he could bring up debates without being disrespectful. And yes, I am glad we connected. 😊 Been a pleasure to know you.
@na2398 Well there is certainly no rule in the TOS regarding that. So go for it, if you feel it will help him. I want him to get help, not JUST admonition. Thanks baby.
@CrazyGirl2 No rule. True that. Went for the soft explanation first up. You're welcome. 😊 The so-called facts he's presented have a plethora of flaws 😅Nevertheless, if anyone's tryna harass you, I'm here to help ya out.
@na2398 Oh he’s not just trying, to harass me, he is succeeding splendidly!
@CrazyGirl2 I'll handle him. Don't worry. 😊 I wanna see how he reacts to the soft explanation. I have other ways if he doesn't. 😊 Don't worry, hun :) Got this for ya. You know what I love the most about ya? Honesty, being bold and savage. 😊
@na2398 I’ll DM you the Deets
@CrazyGirl2 Sure thing. :)
@CrazyGirl2 I texted ya 😊
@CrazyGirl2 if that user is harassing you, you should report it to GAG...
And send links to the posts where he's harassing you...
Thank you Beauty I will. As I told NA, due to the sheer volume of posts o make, its a daunting task, but when I get some time, I will. Although ever since you admonished him, he has not appeared on my notifications… Hopefully he blocked me, or decided to just finally leave me alone. Bullies are usually like that, as soon as they realize people have your back, they slink off back to under whatever bridge the troll crawled out from under! But seriously, thank you! @Brainsbeforebeauty and you too @na2398 .
She actually has the nerve to say that men are inclined to be more lustful and less emotional than women. I'm sure she knows that isn't true. Sometimes I think, why am I even bothering wasting my time with women like her, when my thorough research and girlfriend has proven her wrong? Lol. Oh... maybe I was bored 😴.
@Asad1ONE1 Dude SERIOUSLY, LEAVE ME ALONE! Stop trolling post after post after post. This time three in a row, last time four in a row, just leave me alone! You even admit to trolling when you write “ sometimes I wonder why bother with girls like her… Then I realize oh I was bored!“ @asad1one1 seriously LEAVE ME ALONE!
Do you understand "nurture"? Just because certain men don't show deeper feelings doesn't mean they're any less emotional. Just because certain women don't show as much lust doesn't mean they're any less sexual. I'm religious, believe in God, and even books such as the Bible and Quran prove that sexuality and emotionality isn't gender specific.
My girlfriend is proof of that.
Long before I met her, I've always known that men and women are equally lustful and emotional. She even told me to beware of women who lie about women being less sexual as a means to manipulate and sham men. I asked her how common do you think those women are. She replied, I don't know exactly, but I'm definitely not one of them. I'm so thankful to have met her.
Also, go search 🔍 "my girlfriend/wife keeps checking out other guys". And the results are rampant.
www.google.com/search
Men can fall for a cashier that just gave them a smile and tells them to have a nice day 🤷♂️. Or even worse! A waitress at some joint 🤣.
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I think women confuse lust for love (more often than men do) and men confuse love for lust (more often than women do).
Yes, I agree here 💯
My dudes in comments are trippin...
We both do, I think basically it's 50-50 and you should put "both" option, haha :D
I was going to, but my data running slow and I was being lazy lolol
But I personally think women confuse it more.. Just because a man lusts after you or wants sex, don't mean he loves you, but I think so many women think it does it think sex is a way to get/keep a man, but there's so much more to love than just sex
By looking at the poll so far, even the men agree with us... lol
Another great question Ms BBB!
Really? CuzI personally think women do. Just because a man wants you physically, or wants sex doesn't mean he loves you, yet so many women fall for it.. I just answered a post where the chick states she posts sexual content for her ex, even though he is dating someone else and when asked why she'd do that, she said because she loves him and he loves her, but if he's with someone else, and not her? Yeah that's not love, he's just lusting after her... Anyone can say the words, but it's the actions that really matter
Agree, that the 'players' are like that... but if have let a guy in for his first treat, he's in love! ... at least that's my take :)
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'So Far' was 4 days ago silly :)
You’ve had some great male replies here. Love the honesty. I too thought it would lean more heavily to woman, but then thinking on it.. woman are more defensive and less gullible these days. Men are the same. Just as often confused. Poor things.
I think it's equal. Men are more motivated by sex, and women motivated by relationships more. Women can confuse a man wanting to sleep with her as romantic attraction more. And men can confuse his lustful desires more for love (as I have, sometimes).
I would say without a doubt that men lust more, but that it's possible that women mistake that lust for love.
That's what I think as well
I agree with you but I’d be curious to hear a counter argument
Well, we'll have to see if there's any lolol
Kay lol
I think in the beginning women do, and in the end men do
Hmmm 🤔 maybe
Men lust over women & women mistake that lust for love.
I agree...
I think both sexes do it. Who does it more? I don’t have a clue.
I personally think women do, the women that think sex is a way to get/keep a man and the man is only in it for the sex
@Brainsbeforebeauty that’s probably a reasonable assumption.
Men obviously can recognize lust so they will not confuse lust with love. But when the lust is slowly changing to love, this is a state of time that men will always get confused. They didn't know that they are already falling in love. They thought it was only the lust, not love. How can lust can be love? If we start with lust, it should stay the same at the end. Oh, how poor they are.
I voted A because for me they are the same. I cannot lust after someone unless I love her at some level. So maybe, I'm the one who is confused? :-)
Also since I'm a man!
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🤣 I think women confuse lust and love more...
@Brainsbeforebeauty disagree, there's an awful lot of romantic and confused men out there
We them men
. love we take it serious we not just fall in it like it is a swimming pool. It instead has to fall on in us unlike women who come with love always @Brainsbeforebeauty
And that's why I think it's women that confuse lust with love more than men do
It's both honestly I think the feelings are mutual.
I personally think it's women that mistake men lusting after them or wanting sex as loving them more than men do
I'm sure many fitness & Instagram models can answer this no problem. LOL
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I chose men because they fall fast even without thinking!
But if they fall, isn't that love? I think women confuse lust, a man wanting sex with them as them loving them, and while there's some men that won't have sex unless they really love the woman, there's plenty of men that want just sex, and will lie or say whatever to achieve that
That's true and that's what i meant, a man who truly falls for a woman and really loves her, won't be for sex only...
Personally i can never imgaine myself with a woman just for sex...
I know, but there's plenty of men that do, and most will pretend to love or pretend to want a relationship, and there's lots of women that fall for it...
True sponge and these aren't men because real men do no use a woman just for sex, a woman is a lot more than sex, she is the happiness and joy if she's a good devoted wife 😊
Should be, I agree
You needed a third option for both genders that confuse them.
I know, I know lol days was being slow and got lazy lol but this was about who does it "more," and while I agree both can, I personally feel women confuse a man lusting after her as love more, think sex is a way to get/keep a man, when real love is so much more than just sex
*data not days🤦🏼♀️
Definitely girls. Our lust is all-encompassing and usually involves a degree of care.
If women didn’t do it more then men would never have sex
Ha, right!!
I think "women" confuse men lusting after THEM to be love more than anything else! I don't think men even think about it that much.
Love and lust don't have much logic behind them. Both men and women make mistakes equally in this field.
Both. Inexperienced people definitely are the ones who do such a thing
The question is flawed.
You need both for a healthy relationship, and romantic love is just lust + mental compatibility.
Also souls don't exist.
@Asad1ONE1 Dunno why anyone would bother when it won't work.
@Asad1ONE1 I'm not a troll, nor am I trying to divide the sexes.. This post was actually posted after I answered a post where the female started she posted sexually explicit stuff for her ex even though he's in another relationship now and when asked why she would do that, she claimed they still live each other. Yet if her ex loves her, why is he with another woman and not her? Oh I'm sure he "loves" the sex videos lol Just trying to wake women up to the fact that just because a man wants sex doesn't mean he loves you... Love is about more than just sex or lust. While I agree those things are important in a relationship, there's way more to it than just that
Reckless and sociopathic women are just as common as reckless and sociopathic men, which is to say both are rare.
It's not worth fear mongering over, as it will do more damage than good to auto assume every guy or girl wants casual sex.
The fact that you typed: "Just trying to wake women up to the fact that just because a man wants sex doesn't mean he loves you..." basically confirms @asad1one1 suspicion that it's a post to attempt to divide the sexes.
@Asad1ONE1 I think you're confusing the question.. It wasn't about who lusts more, it was who confuses that lust as love more? And I personally think women confuse a man lusting after them as a man loving them, when you yourself just stated people have sex without love.. That's the point, just because someone has sex with you, doesn't mean they love you
No one confuses lust for love, lust is a form of love.
What holds together a relationship is lust and attachment, and if you only love the body, that may not be enough for attachment.
Personality is way more effective at creating attachment, because it increases the level of rarity a person has, and the level of enjoyment the person has to offer. Which, in turn, decreases the odds of finding it again.
When you find that sort of match, and then form deeper bonds through shared experiences, that reinforces the attachment even more, making even a twin of your SO that you have no shared experiences with, much less desirable than your SO.
But a sociopath does not form attachments, because they don't enjoy experiences emotionally, and a reckless person does things before thinking, so the issue you are warning about stems from that, not from being lustful, and it's equally uncommon in both sexes.
@Brainsbeforebeauty Yes I noticed that. There is no such thing as "confusing" this. You feel what you feel. And that's not gender specific. You're overanalyzing.
Because of this, it's easy to spot a sociopath, they have no passions in life, no dedicated hobbies that they have talents in and gush over. They typically fit male or female stereotypes and have very basic personalities.
They spend their free time just relaxing and being lazy instead of doing enjoyable activities, and they usually enjoy alcohol, certain drugs, or other downers. They usually find challenges annoying, they are driven by ego, they adhere to social stereoptypes as if its the norm, and usually get mad or offended if they are wrong about something.
I'm sorry. Is your question about the "feelings" of lust/love for your partner? Or is it about the "perception" of your partner's love/lust for you?
If "feelings" are definitely not gender specific, then neither should the "perception". Otherwise you're trying to imply that certain women are hypocritical. Lol
@thespacegnome yeah no it's not, and noone else saw it that way whatsoever, and you've seen enough of my posts to know that's bs.. nowhere did I say all men do this, but if all a guy wants from you is sex, that's NOT love... If a guy already has a girlfriend but is trying to have sex with you, that's NOT love... Funny, so the posts bashing/trashing all women, don't see you or this user, jumping on THOSE posts that really are trying to divide the sexes.. one of the reasons I sometimes do polls versus a question is to show how similar men and women vote, showing we really do want the same things sometimes, or do think the same way, irregardless of gender. You can keep throwing those false accusations out there, don't make it true🤷🏼♀️
@thespacegnome oh and you're defending a person who's now harassing a user that replied to this post on other posts. Not having the same views as someone doesn't justify harassing someone
I tend to think that girls fall in love with a guys mind long before the Cock Size but it is essentially true Lmao
Isn't there always some gender divide here? How many players are men and how many are women? Friends with benefits seems to be popular these days, with no love, just lust. I think love has gone out the window.
Both do. We also romanticise it, such as ‘love at first sight’
I dont believe it has anything to do with gender. I think it goes both ways.
I'm in love with lust, but it's the other way around too ☺️
(The adrenaline is just overwhelming)
Try to keep the two apart and find an adequate description for feelings like these, as opposed to definitions
No idea to be honest but it's more common to see an unattractive old man who has wealth with an attractive partner than vice versa so that's something to throw into the discussion lol
Women, men usually detach sex from emotion
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Both men and women do. Men seek lust for sex and women seek lust for attention and power.
The question wasn't about who seeks it, it was who mistakes the two more? As in just because someone lusts after you or wants sex with you doesn't mean they "love you"
Women. Even though men do it too. Women do it more and it’s accepted when they do
I agree with the first part, the second I don't. I think it's more acceptable for a man to lead a woman on, lie to get sex... Let a woman think he loves her or wants to be with her, when all he wanted was sex... And if you don't believe that, just look at my last post about if men really believe women "want" to be lied to, and how many guys replied they lie to women cuz that's the only way to get sex from them...
As well as all the men that would justify those lies, by saying "men aren't meant to be monagomous, it's not in their nature"🙄
I think it is pretty even between the two sexes
👍👍I personally think women confuse lust with love more
The majority of men here are incels while women here are nymphomaniacs. Hence, the poll results.
Definitely men confuse love and lust because men are incapable of loving a woman…. whatever they feel, it’s just lust and once the novelty of being with that woman wears off, the feelings go away
I disagree men are incapable of loving a woman... I know my husband loved me, and I know he remained faithful to me for 20 years... And my friends that got killed by a drunk driver, I know he loved his wife for over twenty years.. I could name many more examples... And I don't think some men confuse lust with love, I think they more pretend/lie and say it's love when they know it's not cuz they know that's the only way to get some women to have sex with them
Your perspective is garbage, lol.
Women w/o a doubt. By nature of the act women feel as if they are giving something up whereas men are conquering.. Personally I could have lost for a ton of women but I couldn't imagine loving just 1
Men for sure lust more 🥰🥰🥰😜😜😜😋😋😋 LMFAO
@Brainsbeforebeauty Trust me I play around out of having fun but deep down I love a girl or woman for her great personality and I love to hear her laugh, see her smile, etc.
That's good ,👍
men do this all the time.
Really? I think women do. Just because a man is lusting after you or wants sex from you, don't mean he loves you, but so many women fall for it anyways, think sex is a way to get/keep a man
i would say men. but that usually won't last till after the first sex with that person.
Women, by far. Specially in parasocial contexts.
I agree
"BTS!!!"
[BONK!]
"Go to horny jail!"
Sorry, today the cuomo sexuals are all obsessing over zelensky.
Journalist: "Zelensky, you have so many body guards, it must be terrifying all that attention from russia... It's for the russians, right? Right?"
Well, to be honest, that stuff can be properly channeled.
Get those russian radical feminists, daughter's of russian oligarchs to finally off putin, maybe?
I don't understand your question. It depends on the person.
No one people just lie to themselves and keep lying till they live in deceit
I think both equally. I don't think one sex is more prone then the other.
I say it's us men because women are absolutely freaking confusing and no offense
What? I can't lustfully love?
🤣🤣🤣 you can have lust for someone you love, definitely... But just lust doesn't equate to love
You can love to lust after someone lol, that don't mean you "love" them
As a man I kinda think men confuse lust for love … now I’m confused lol!!🤔
I think women think men love them, when sometimes they're just lusting after them
Wait are you saying you're a man? Or calling me a man? Lolol I'm definitely female lol
That's okay lolol had a couple whiskey's in me🤣🤣 but still knew I was a female lololol
Having another whiskey moment now🥃 cheers🙂
Does that mean you drinking beer again🤔 gonna have to catch up if you've had less than 3, cuz I'm on my third lolol
Yep lolol at least I'm a productive drinker, making garlic parmesan breaded chicken legs with roasted garlic mashed potatoes, and have the rest of the chicken legs marinating to cook tomorrow, although made a spicy marinade and my system don't handle hot/spicy well lolol
Wait you drank and you gotta work tonight? I drank but don't gotta work again till Tuesday lol
Ah okay, week go sleep it off lol
*well not week 🤦🏼♀️
👍 night
There a thin line between love ans lust that has night and day differents. Men mostly do becase men are visual. Women love more than men.
Both. Both are human, humans all sin.
Probably women.
That's what I think
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