People might get mad at me for this one, but I think women confuse lust for love more. (Not that there aren't men that do this too) there are A LOT of men who will have sex with any woman who let's him have sex with her. He doesn't care what she looks like and will have no problem never contacting her again. Women seem less desperate and have higher standards. Women lusting over men is a direct result of women only sleeping with the type of man that she could see herself being in a relationship with.
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Men definitely. Women are often misguided, because most women only sleep with a handful of men (womanizers). Typical men often fall in love over sex. I dated a gorgeous girl in high school. We dated junior and senior year. She was the first woman I had good sex with (marathon sex the summer between junior and senior year).
she would booty call me all the time. She broke up with me and told me I meant nothing to her. I asked her to satay away. 72 hours later she was fucking me again, calling me every day,…
she did not care about me or my mental health, but I loved her. After the breakup half of her friends tried to fuck me. Girls would knock on my window, then imply they wanted sex (I did about 75-80%). Those same girls would ignore me in the hallways at school.
even today, I can get women to sleep with me, but I cannot get a girlfriend. I am 44. No women within ten years of my age will talk to me, but 22-year-olds will fuck me. They will not return calls or texts, but then they show up for booty calls. They are embarrassed to be seen with me, but they will fuck me. Even after I got divorced, so many of my ex-wife’s friends tried to fuck me. I felt dirty.
women claim they want relationships, but I do not see it. I think it is immoral to sleep with someone then ignore him. It hurts. The worst is when they do not acknowledge you in public, then call and show up for sex.
I am not going to lie, I may have engaged in similar behavior as a young man, but I never ghosted anyone. This never happened when I was young. I simply do not understand why young women would want a fat old man to sleep with, and why older women will not tolerate me at all.
I think women do. I'm not sure they even know what love is, but they think infatuation is love. They believe in love at first sight. Here on GAG, I see girls talking about being in love with guys they correspond with on-line but have never met. Or just because a guy fucks them, they think he loves them. They'll even continue to declare their love for guys who cheat or abuse them.
Guys can mistake infatuation for love, too. But I think it happens more often to women. They have wanted story book endings since they were little girls.
Even with love you have to have lust unless to me means there is some form of love passion desire to me lust means taking the best of everything and allowing her to feel it making it all about her so you can take her to a place she's never been before I mean intensity where your whole body is just tingling because that's the vibe that you get off of her that you're giving to her it's an in-control out of control state of commitment in a roundabout way
I knew two girls that every time they would see me they would say hi mr. Lust and I never knew what that meant until Monday one of them said it out loud
LUST
LOVE
U
STEVE
TICE
And I still don't know what it means LOL but whatever it is it's hot and I need some right now please lol
I think it might possibly be more prominent in women. It's the types who fixate on one person long before they even dated them or really got to know them that tend to fantasize so deeply about someone they barely know. You know, people who hunt with a sniper rifle. Guys only do that when they're desperate and can't get dates in my experience. Women who are perfectly capable of getting dates seem to do far more often in my limited experience. They single out one guy.
I figure it's a biological thing. Reproductive costs are almost entirely imposed on the woman in our primitive evolutionary contexts. So it probably makes more sense for a woman to fixate on one man to bear her children than for a man to fixate on one woman to bear his unless he's desperate.
I think I got this backyards I'm my head, but I'm not sure. I would say many men think they're in love when really what they've mistaken for love is the lust that they have for a woman. I think It's more so men that struggle with differentiating the difference between their perception of what love is when in reality they're full of lust. I may be wrong, but I think that sometimes after a while It's a woman who can tell the difference and not a man. Many relationships I believe end for this reason. Women want to feel loved and they're able to tell if a man truly loves them rather than one that revolves around a man full of lust for them.
(Sorry for the wordy response. I was trying to sort out in my head how to best hoe to put into words the answer that I was trying to convey).
Overall, I think men know that lust is just that... a desire to satisfy their horniness. Women often treat a man paying attention to them as love, when all the man really wants is to get in her pants.
Plus... women aren't satisfied unless there's love in a relationship, whereas men can handle a relationship where love is not a given.
Girls think that guys will love them if they can overcome the physical barrier given time. Lust is loving someone else's body or the sex, but nothing else. It's like the Saving Abel song "The Sex is Good". Some lines are "I'm not in love but the sex is good" "Not much for talk but you're hot as hell" "I hate sleeping alone". A girl can see the guy whi exhibits these traits as being in love while the guy is with her because she is hot and a good lay.
I don't really think you can pick either gender really but from my experience men become more obsessed and start to believe they really like a girl when they don't even know her they just like the way she looks. Sometimes I have men who approach me and I'll be friendly and nice and they all sudden think I'm the one when in reality if they got to know me they'd realise I'm definitely not for them.
They are sometimes closely related, but I'm a guy and I feel like I know the difference but from what I've seen or heard, women tend to confuse it. Don't know if it is true, but I've seen women here saying that they hooked up with a guy hoping a relationship would evolve
I feel like men can tell if they’re in lust or in love. They’ll either wife the girl or not 😂
I think it’s hard for women based off of my own experiences as well as my friends.
I think men definitely experience lust more than women do, but we definitely confuse lust or infatuation for love more than men do.
Men can fall for a cashier that just gave them a smile and tells them to have a nice day 🤷♂️. Or even worse! A waitress at some joint 🤣.
I think women confuse lust for love (more often than men do) and men confuse love for lust (more often than women do).
My dudes in comments are trippin...
We both do, I think basically it's 50-50 and you should put "both" option, haha :D
By looking at the poll so far, even the men agree with us... lol
Another great question Ms BBB!
You’ve had some great male replies here. Love the honesty. I too thought it would lean more heavily to woman, but then thinking on it.. woman are more defensive and less gullible these days. Men are the same. Just as often confused. Poor things.
I think it's equal. Men are more motivated by sex, and women motivated by relationships more. Women can confuse a man wanting to sleep with her as romantic attraction more. And men can confuse his lustful desires more for love (as I have, sometimes).
I would say without a doubt that men lust more, but that it's possible that women mistake that lust for love.
I agree with you but I’d be curious to hear a counter argument
I think in the beginning women do, and in the end men do
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