Girl from gym was driving me nuts and not sure what to do about it?

[Anonymous]

have been seeing her there since i re joined last fall , she's just the type of person combined with her body/looks that be appealing to a lot of guys.

never really been able to get over my attraction towards her , not really able to think through this logically as i was too into her at this point.

felt she was ok with the attention but not really sure what she wants , never really seen her outside the gym although we do live in the same small city

[Anonymous]

How I've managed to come up with this answer, an answer to a question that isn't even asked, is beyond me. I don't see one thing written as a question, or even a question mark in the wild spiel

Find a man at the gym and ask if you can hold his balls for a couple of minutes, because in your mid 30"s to mid 40's, you don't seem to have a pair of your own to grab to ASK her.

Sheesh! 🙄

[Asker]

it started out as me noticing her at the gym , then covid got crazy around dec/jan and gym closed for a couple weeks so i didn't see her for a while. i have tried to talk to her once at the gym , don't really talk to a lot of people there one girl who works there and another girl i knew from a restaurant. i admit i'm not mr social when there

[Dojaphat456]

Why can't you just talk to her? Or move on... dont go at the same time

[Asker]

its weird she had been there a lot when i went there late last year around Nov/Dec then i didn't see much of her until this week i saw her once , it just like drove me nuts on various levels , i have tried to talk to her once but it was a brief attempt and she's not clear with me , acts like she likes the attention when i notice her

[Dojaphat456]

Then go talk to her

[Asker]

i know less than ideal that i didn't get a good chance to talk to her last year , the gym wasn't open for parts of Jan due to covid also.

[Dojaphat456]

Talk to her my guy!!!

[scott04sa22]

Just be yourself