Am I the asshole for ghosting the guy who likes me?

[Anonymous]

I met this guy on dating site and he seems very into me. Its just I think he's boring so I ghosted him.

[Anonymous]

Kinda. But you're not the first. Certainly won't be the last. Guys that use dating apps just come to EXPECT it. He'll get over it. Just remember what comes around, goes around. And don't complain when a guy ghosts you.

[Anonymous]

Matthew 7:12

In everything, therefore, treat people the same way you want them to treat you, for this is the Law and the Prophets.

[WhatTheHeckkkk]

Yes.
I think you could’ve just told him that you were uninterested. Lack of communication won’t get you anywhere.

[DaveJord]

Yeah, your an asshole... I mean if you interest at least given a date, or not connect with him to begin with. Its hard to sound amusing or fun in text, and the ones that do are not very genuine honestly.

[Phoenix-gb]

For ghosting, yes. You're entitled to not like someone because you think they're boring, but at least tell them you're not interested.

[JSmuve]

Yes, random anonymous broad, you are indeed the asshole.

^ Random anonymous broad on the internet

[pepperhicks]

He will get over it. Dating apps are a numbers game. He has other women to chat with.

[SphynxUK]

Couldn’t you have told him first that’s it’s just not happening for you?
It’s not hard, is it!

[SnakeBoop]

Yup. Unless abusive there's never a reason to ghost

[UniquelyBasic]

Thats extremely disrespectful as you wouldn't want someone to ghost you. Just tell him you're not interested.

[Jamie05rhs]

Kind of, yeah. Being boring is not really a great reason to cut someone. He could have been your soulmate lol, and you never even met him. 🤷

[Asker]

Soulmates doesn't exist lol

[Jamie05rhs]

Okay. Lol. We'll agree to disagree on that one.

[fonduegirl]

Maybe not soulmate, he might be a compatible partner to you and u missed that.

[fonduegirl]

PS. James, soulmates do exist. In the minds of fourteen year old girls with nothing better to do than to paint their nails and go out shopping.

[Jamie05rhs]

Thanks, @anon1903. :)

[Jamie05rhs]

And lol @anon1903; very funny.

[fonduegirl]

You should tell him he doesn't interest you. Straight up.

[Waldoe]

Do you feel like you might have misjudged him? or judged him too quickly? Go with your Gut Instincts...

[noohair]

You could be honest and just say there is no Chemistry. Assho! e, yes, you qualify.

[OddBeMe]

I think women have extra leeway in ghosting because of male obsessions

[TallAnon]

Might as well just mention that and then stop replying.

[Anonymous]

Say no or tell him he's boring. Ghosting doesn't give an answer so you are wasting their time and encouraging stalker creeps

[FilmGuy93]

Sounds like a pretty asshol-ish thing to do, yeah.

[cookiecrusher]

Never ghost. Tell them you loser 😗

[JesseJayNeak]

Yes. And a big one too

[Sophia001]

Me too

[Cowboy6666]

You too what?

[skyeee_]

hush dumb troller

[Fuentes]

I ghost all the time