I ghosted this guy and now everyone is stalking me?

[lovelycara]

I stopped contact with this guy and now all of his friends and his ex-girlfriend are stalking me.\

What does this mean?

What should I do?

[Cynicaldreamer]

That is exactly why you don't ghost people!
You made the poor guy feel bad and is confused why you stopped talking to him. So now his concerned friends want to know who the person is that hurt him!

Good. As it should be. I mean no disrespect to you, but it sounds like his friends are concerned about him and are basically investigating you. That's what good friends do.

You can block them, ignore them, but I doubt they're going to hurt or bother you. The best thing to do is to pm or let the guy know why you stopped talking to him- like you should have in the FIRST PLACE, and apologize for misleading him or hurting his feelings.

Or not; it's your choice. He probably realizes you ghosted him and his friends are just angry at you, and will be for a while. They will move on eventually.

[lovelycara]

he was playing with my emotions, that's why i ghosted him.

[Cynicaldreamer]

Oh see, that's different- so he's an ass?
Okay, I see your point and I don't blame you really. Anytime someone plays with your emotions or wastes your time, I don't consider them worth apologizing to.

If any of his friends ask you or confront you on why you ghosted him? Tell them! He's probably telling them a different story where you're the bad person for leaving him, meaning no matter what you say, they probably won't believe you. Meaning don't stress over it.

While I don't approve of ghosting people, if they're treating you like crap or you know there's no potential future there, it's okay to let go.

[Don-_-Don]

The only thing I can think of is that they don't like the fact that ypu ghosted him and now they're trying to figure out why.

This is why you don't ghost people, no one likes that.

[Anonymous]

It means you did the right thing cutting contact and you should make sure you block all these other crazy mother fuckers too.

If it gets worse put in a complaint to the police.

[Anonymous]

Stop ghosting people.

[lovelycara]

are these people a threat now?