What turns you off when you've just started texting with someone? (Page 2)

[petitedollbabee]

When guys beg/pester me for nudes when we’ve barely started talking, or make really misogynistic jokes/comments. Yuck.

[cookiecrusher]

Send him a dick pic, works every time 😗

[CallmeTheKnight]

1. If she's short with her words or is boring to talk to.
2. Talks about sex immediately
3. Never replies or hits me up when they just want attention
4. Blows up my phone
5. Is disrespectful or has an attitude
6. Uses profanity a lot

[iamjustaman]

Respect for my time is key, as I give it to others. There is much to do if you are a contributing member of society, and we can't always be available at a person's beck and call. This is something good to be direct about in the beginning so that you can avoid the annoying 30 calls and texts.

[cosmicallyinclined]

i hate when they can’t hold an intriguing conversation or never try to get to know me.. also a fatal mistake is trying to be too sexual or flirty too early.

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

Some girl wanted to meet and go out, she had one son and she was a little older than me she just pushed all these things on me, at the time I was battling lot of mental illnesses so that didn't work out

[Anonymous]

For me it's when i'm texting someone for like 2 days thinking they are one of the nicest people I have ever met and then the next day beg for nudes. It's not just a turn off, you generally suck if you do that.

[Anonymous]

I also hate the desperate texts. I also don’t like when guys immediately bring themselves down when first texting, or talk about their deep life problems. I’m already a therapist friend, I don’t want to be some guy’s therapist girlfriend.

[Ghostluck]

Trust me when I say, the very last thing you want to do is try and psychoanalyze your potential boyfriends.

[HighValue]

If I find out they have liberal/democrat morals, I lose interest because I know we are totally incompatible.

[Commander_Red]

Someone who needs to text me every little detail. For example "eating lunch", "running", "going to work." Like that's great for you but I didn't ask! I don't care. Please stop spamming my phone!

[one1wild00]

Gals that immediately start hounding me for money or to buy them things. let things go as they will. if I like you and am getting interested then I will tend to ask if you need help or get things for you on my own. Don't push it, that's an immediate turn off. The other things that are turn offs are blowing up my phone especially if you know its a time when I can't message. and ghosting.

[Emerald55346]

Girl agree with you 100% it’s a sign of a man with no self control or awareness

[Charlottexo1]

When they constantly text back and you don't reply and they ask why you haven't replied after 5 minutes

[exitseven]

Texting was not a thing when I was single but I think if somebody did not pay any attention to me I would not like it.

[humanearth]

Texting is a major turn off.

I rather they call me with their own VOICE.

[dudeinohio]

I prefer someone to immediately orvat least, within a few minutes, to respond to my texts. A slow rexter means I'm not a high enough priority.

[Alyssa_11]

I don’t see why it turns you off if someone texts you immediately? I hate texting altogether but it ignited my anxiety literally but I’d rather text someone and have a full on conversation right there and then than wait hours or days.

[Tinana]

When people text are you single instantly after i send a picture like I understand it’s important to know but it just turns me off like we could just text as friends firstly

[shaysh87]

That doesn’t seem like a high quality guy to me. Typically if a guy had to message random strangers to get a date , it usually means he’s desperate and lacks game in real life,

[Cowboy6666]

short replies like meh, okay, ok etc.
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[fuukit]

incorrect spelling of basic words (not everything needs to be proper all of the time) I just have a hard time taking you seriously if you spell like a third grader.