Guys how long will you take to have kids after marriage?

[Anonymous]

I want kids ASAP

I want to delay

I will adapt

No, I don't want to raise an orphan child

Updates

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I want to have kids ASAP or I will discuss it with my future wife. I have high sex drive, I want to enjoy sex life even after having kids. I will marry another woman if I don't get enough sex and if she refuses to conceive kids.

[WhatTheHeckkkk]

It’s something I want to figure out first with my boyfriend when the time comes. Things change in life and plans may not work out, so we will see.


However, I always wanted to have kids “ASAP,” but that timeline is blurry, that could range from 1 month after being married or 2 years after being married.


It all depends on if we are settled. I want my career started and be in a stable home before I have children. Hopefully, those two will happen before marriage. I would prefer if I had my first kid before the age of 30.

[EmmaMary]

@WhatTheHeckkkk

You have certainly got all your thoughts and expectations completely right, and please do not deviate from them.

You still have so much time on your hands to enjoy and have fun with your life, before settling down for the future.

I wish you everything that you may wish for. ❤

[WhatTheHeckkkk]

Thank you so much ❤️

[EmmaMary]

We had our first one fourteen months after getting married, and I'm currently ten weeks pregnant with our second one.

Before we even got married we had decided and agreed that neither of us wanted to be "old parents".

[WhatTheHeckkkk]

Congrats on your pregnancy! I don’t remember if I congratulated you before lol😁❤️

[EmmaMary]

@WhatTheHeckkkk

Hi, I do believe you might have, but please do carry on doing so. lol... Thank you so very much again though. ❤

[WhatTheHeckkkk]

Will do, every time I see you around, Ill try and congratulate you😂❤️

[EmmaMary]

Thank you for the MHGirl.

[matchrestore]

My wife and I were married 5 years before we had kids. By that time we had a house with a yard and room for a kid, good stable jobs with health insurance, and felt confident we could raise a child.

[zagor]

My grandfather used to say, "The first one can come anytime, the rest take nine months".

That was back when pre-marital sex was frowned upon. At least by those who didn't have it.

[Anonymous]

I got pregnant when I was engaged, so it didn't take me very long. haha