This past weekend, after he sent me a message saying, "Hey beautiful, I've been super busy, how are you?" He shortly blocked me afterwards. I had replied back to that saying I was good, and sent him a comic of a girl hugging a guy. We often send each other comics, songs, and jokes. And sent each other messages daily. He'd message me morning and night and I always replied back. I can't think of what I may have done wrong. I did post a pic of a beer on insta stating, "Screw it, I'm going out. What a shit week." But, I went out with my co-workers. He could have simply asked me.
I''m so upset over this because I really, really like him. I don't know if this is the end of it, or if he'll come around and unblock me. We've had some great chats on a daily basis ranging from jokes to deep, meaningful convoes about us and life. We never said this was an official relationship, but we often spoke sweetly to each other with words like, "beautiful, love, love ya, etc." He even said that he was falling for me. I said that we needed time, but I was also feeling him too. We tried the dirty chat thing, but I said I wasn't comfortable sending nudes, and he said he'd never pressure me. I'm not sure where things went wrong here. Did he just grow tired of me, and this was a farce?
Any advise is appreciated.
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Idrk for sure why he blocked you. It could be he's not interested in you anymore or he's not ready to see you. Regardless of his reason, what he did is wrong. He didn't communicate with you and just chose to take the easy way out. Don't bother wasting your time with people who aren't going to respect you and your feelings.
Ty for your response. What’s odd is he said he’d let me know if he didn’t want to pursue anything b/c I asked him to let me know if things weren’t going well, so we can figure it out. He’s like I like you, babe and I see us in a relationship! He also told me he was falling for me, and boom just blocked me on all platforms. I’m here like was this all a lie. It’s been 1 month of us communicating via text. We’ve not seen each other bc it’s long distance.
That's really a shame. Some people are really weird. He's not worth it. You deserve someone better.
Sighs, thanks. I wonder if he’d unblock and reach out not saying that changes anything bc this really sucks.