Girl admits she did hard drugs (Molly) 2 years ago. She says she’s changed since then, became more mature. Is it a red flag for potential marriage?

[Askitanyway]

you’re talking to a girl with the intent of getting to know her for potential marriage. She admits to have done molly 2 years ago. She says she’s not the same person anymore, she better now.

Would you take her word for it, or be more cautious?

Yes, It’s a red flag

No, it isn’t a red flag

None of the above

[sunflower00]

I mean, most people try drugs at some point in life. I wouldn’t find it a huge concern unless she used to be an addict or something. Either way, just see how things go. It’s definitely possible to change.

[Luggit]

I wouldn't be too quick to marry. I would give this one a good 5 years of just going steady. If she stays clean the whole time, then it could be something to consider.

[slatyb]

MDMA? That's not a "hard drug". It was legal for a while with few serious consequences. in my opinion it should still be legal.

[zagor]

No, not if she's still in her 20's - a lot of people try things in their teens or twenties that don't necessarily define their lives.

[EnglishEuropean]

I wouldn't call MDMA a hard drug. It seemed like everyone used it back in the 1990s. If she was actually on hard drugs that would be a red flag, yes.