I feel like I can't catch a break anywhere I go?

[Better_off_here]

I have for a long time been trying to get women to like me, and to make friends in person and online i know that you can not trust anyone online yet the fool in me keeps trying and i wish i just did not want to keep this desire in me to want to meet people all over the world.
i am shy and i am too nice i now but i feel like the world wants me to be alone and to not be happy at all. i feel i am never gonna be able to find anyone who loves me for real and not use me and makes me feel awful inside too. i am tired of being let down by people and i am just not sure what to do. i feel like i try but then i fail and i then become so depressed that i hate everyone too much.
i am not sure what to do and how to feel better and, how to find real genuine friends to meet and talk to.

[Smoke-n-Growls]

Ok, buddy. Being "nice" isn't a personality, nor is it enough to attract a partner.

It's literally the bare minimum.

Develop yourself. Make your life interesting. Focus on your hobbies and what makes you genuinely happy.

Being a "nice guy" isn't the sell you think it is. It's, again, literally the bare minimum.

Get a real personality and some actual progress in your life.

[jennifer_bloom]

Virtue attracts virtue, be a virtuous man and find a virtuous woman through church or wherever you meet people.