Instant attraction vs taking time to get to know the person to date. Am I getting transformed (See description)?

[kinggeorge007]

I have never got attracted to anyone instantly except for one moment. But it didn't go ahead as I've only seen her on public transport. And it was only one time as well. In the past, in all the other cases, I needed more time. This instant attraction thing I mentioned was rather new to me. (this incident I mentioned was just two days ago actually). What do you think? Am I'm getting changed?

[jennifer_bloom]

I think there may have been two or four times where I was instantly attracted to a stranger, that’s infatuation and not care, my friend in uni was gorgeous and smart and said she did not care about looks at all because she knew many who married for looks that were trapped in unhappy marriages, just like I choose security over riches cause my family is full of materialistic people with money and status who treat human beings like worthless animals, I would rather die then marry a guy who verbally abused me the way my dad did but I do think a want a guy that is intelligent enough to solve problems I can’t solve on my own.

[DizzyDesii]

Even when im instantly attracted to someone, i still take the time to get to know them. All have showed their true colors within the first 2 weeks to 3 months