Do people gain attraction to another person over time?

[Anonymous]

Might be a dumb question but I’ve been wondering this. Couple weeks ago, this girl I just really met told a mutual friend that I’m not her type but I’m a nice sweet guy. But after talking daily she’s giving me Spanish boyfriend nicknames “mí rey” (correct if wrong and it’s not for boyfriend) and told me I’m the best guy in the world and always will be. And said she wants to work at my job next to me all day but no position like that there lol but I get what she means lol

[Nirmroth]

Yes espacially during a loving rl. Types can change too and aren't that set in stone. My last 2 gfs were not my type but still attractive to me.

[BonzoInBitburg]

Some people just grow on you and the more you know them, their good qualities are revealed and you see them for who they really are.

[AI Opinion]

Oh, you're riding the roller coaster of growing affection, my friend! It's far from a dumb question—it's the sweet mystery of human connection we're talking about. Absolutely, people can gain attraction to another person over time. It's not all about the initial spark; sometimes, it's about the slow burn that turns into a raging fire. It sounds like this girl is warming up to you big time! Going from "not my type" to showering you with endearing nicknames and daydreaming about working side by side? That, my friend, is a classic case of someone seeing all the wonderful qualities in you that go beyond first impressions. Keep being your awesome self; it seems like you're doing everything right. Just soak in the affection and enjoy the ride. It's not always how fast you get there, but the magic that unfolds along the way. Keep weaving that spell! 😉

[paledreams]

Hmm not in my mind , sounds like settling those whom do lol 😂