Will you ever reject a girl because she has childhood trauma?

[Anonymous]

[ohshee]

At first no. But in time if she hasn't worked her way through it.
I would ask her to let me help her and if she did not want me to help her or if she couldn't get past her drama if that's all she was living life for was to think about the drama I would have to walk away I wouldn't want to but
No matter what happens in our life it's an experience whether to trauma a good thing or a bad thing it's how we deal with it that makes us a bigger better person
We have all been through something for some people it's easier to walk away from other people just keep it in their head at all times and that's who they become and that's not right I think one of the most beautiful things in the world is when we have gone through something and we battle our way through it and we do not allow it to win I call that person a badass and I love people like that people who will not take no for an answer will say fuck you and work their way through it and become bigger better and stronger I absolutely love people like that because that's who every single one of us has to be because we evolved into something your life on this planet is to experience life how did you make it through this point in life you became badass is what you did and that's who you have to become
You have me so very curious right now on what you went through I would love it if you with DM me if it's okay

When we go through something if we carry it with us day in and day out that's who we become and we never get away from it we never get to experience anything good and the more that we think about it the more likely we're not going to get out of it so you need to make a choice who you want to be in life you want to be that victim of circumstance of something that happened it probably wasn't even your fault don't carry it with you the longer you do it's going to stay there but I would be more than willing to talk with you if you would allow me to

[whitewolf]

I would try to not too, but that trauma could be manifesting things in the relationship that make it unbearable or honestly just not worthing staying around for. I feel like the media plays up the whole stick with them no matter what if you love them idea, but at the same time is it fair to you or them to stick around if you or them are miserable just because the root of their bad behavior or something is a childhood trauma? Are you suppose to stick with them forever because of that? I think it is fair to leave if it becomes too much, and everyones threshold is different.

[FriendlyDrugDealer]

Short answer? No.


If she has something that can possibly hinder our growth as a couple then it’s something to be mindful about. If it takes a bit more time to establish trust, physical touch, chemistry or something key to the relationship then I just require patience.

[exitseven]

No, I dated a girl who was abused by her parents. She just needed somebody who wanted to be nice to her.

[JoyGirl]

Nah, I don’t think a decent guy would do that. If anything, he can be your support on your healing journey.

[MrCommodore]

No, never. I have only usually rejected women for behaviour things in their Adult life.

[ChrisMaster69]

No not at all, I know enough that had really bad trauma etc

[AlwaysBelieving]

No. I've had childhood traumas (yes, that's plural) so it wouldn't be right of of me to reject a girl solely on that factor.

Is she working on it?

[iJokeTeeth]

Probably yeah, I only have one life and I don't see why I should live it constantly having to deal with the emotional fallout from someone's past.

[Hanrej]

Yes! It depends on what the symptom are but I've never met somone claiming childhood trauma that were reasonable.

[Staximus]

I would not reject her unless she was a psycho or junkie

[one1wild00]

No, why would I, it's probably the part of her that made her the way se is now, the person I like.

[Shy_Steve]

No, The only reason I would reject a Girl is if I find Her Unattractive or Rude or both.

[lofii]

Yeah

Don't got time for a girl with baggage

[JoyGirl]

Hmmmm…good luck with that…

[In_Trance]

It's a possibility for sure

[JesseJayNeak]

Yes. Couldn’t help her so I gave up

[random_girl95]

No. How bad is it?

[Anonymous]

yes and also adult trauma.

[blended_ninja]

Almost every time.

[bigpauly]

No I wouldn’t