Guy I like has dated gorgeous girls who don’t wear makeup. Does this mean he doesn't like girls who look like this?

[Anonymous]

types of girls he’s dated:

Would he like girls like this?

He prefers girls with no makeup compared to the last 2

Doesn’t mean he wouldn’t prefer girls who look like the last 2 photos

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Just for the record i never said the top 2 girls don’t wear makeup but that’s beside the point of this question lol

[glennos89]

honestly... a little bit of make up is okay for me but I'm attracted to girls who use minimal make up.

Girls always think that man are attracted to girls who totally masked themselves with makeup ad look perfect but the opposite is true!

I wanne give woman some real handy advise...

if you wanne attract a man for the purpose of true love... minimize the amount of make-up you wear. Less is more!

if you just wanne get layed every now and then... Then present yourself in the most perfect way as possible and use all the make up you need for it

😉

[Asker]

Why would you suggest makeup if you want to get laid?

[glennos89]

with makeup you can present yourself in the most perfect way. It's perfect for one nightstands but definitely not if you actually wanna build a relationship with that person. Guy don't wanna be with a girls, that looks perfect and pretty at night but look totally different in the morning without makeup 🙈

Personally I find it very scary when girls wear to much makeup because I always doubt wether she looks really like herself on that moment or that she looks totally different then she normally does

it's terrifying for guys to know and see how makeup totally transforms a ugly woman into a pretty one 🥶

I wish girls would try to be more naturally beautifull and happy with who they are and how they look then try to make this fake version of themselves trying to be beautifull

But sadly these days it's the other way arround 🙈

[Anonymous]

You are overthinking this. Yes guys are visual but not completely visual to the point of worrying about make up vs. no make up.

I would concentrate on the following:

1) be realistic. Is he very attractive vs yourself? Not to be mean but I’ve seen obese women have wildly unrealistic crushes on very handsome men. Sure the feeling itself is natural. But don’t daydream about something that can’t happen

2) if you are dateable than focus on staying in shape, dressing well, being optimistic and being friendly to him. Smile at him and start innocent conversations.

3). nothing wrong with asking him to get coffee or something. He will get the hint.

4). Determine what you want from him. Sounds like he’s could be a player. If you do start dating him and don’t want that than speak up early. However if you are okay with a fling than speak up about that too.

[Emilyis]

I don't wear much makeup and my husband knew that when we were dating in the 9th grade. He told me when we were dating then that he didn't care to date girls with a lot of make up because if he was ever to sleep with one of them, when the go to bed at night. He may not wake up in the morning staring at the same face that he went to bed with. THAT made perfect sense to me. I have been married to him for 8 years and plan to keep him for a lot longer.

[Asker]

This is irrelevant so you don’t have to answer but why did he bring up sleeping with girls when you guys were in 9th grade

[Emilyis]

HAHAHA, I thought about that when I wrote it but went ahead and hit submit anyway. Maybe my wording wasn't right but I'm sure you get the jest. we have known each other since the 4th grade. We knew each others most secrets like forever. He moved 300 miles away that year and I met him in college again 5 years later and dated and married. Fyi I was a virgin on my wedding night and I can promise you it was his first time too. I also took the little bit of makeup off before I got into bed so that he would wake up with the same face that he went to bed with. Either way we both were happy. So for him to say something to me in the ninth grade was nothing to me as I had told him things along that same line but not exactly. He had always known I was a virgin and was going to be until my wedding night. That was the trust that I had in him and him in me. Some of my best girlfriends didn't know secrets that he knew. Sometimes you just have to have that special friend and I married mine. Hope this helps.

[zeitgeist057]

So sweet and cute

[Lust-Vampire]

The asker didn't understand the connection and the point of personal experience.

Your story is very relevant but the thing is sone people don't understand it if you are not literally answering the question directly they won't get the anecdotes

[Squaresquirrel]

No, it only means he is able to look beyond make up and clothes.

[DaveJord]

You do realize that all the girls photo'd here have make up on right?

But yes guys like girls who do not wear make up or only wear as little as possible (like the first two), this does not mean that they do not like women with make up... but too much make up is a turn off for some guys.

[TheSpaceGnome]

Doubtful.

If thats what he dated, that's likely what he prefers.

It would depend on why they didn't work out, but looks usually is never the reason for a breakup, it's only ever the reason people don't date someone in the first place.

Breakups are almost always personality/lifestyle conflicts.

[Asker]

No I’m asking he’s dated girls like the first 2. Would he date girls who wear more makeup like the girls in the last 2 pics

[TheSpaceGnome]

No way to know without asking him, but in general, beauty that can't be washed off is prefered by most.

In my opinion, pic 1 and 3 are better the looking out of the 4, but I'm able to, in my head, remove the makeup on 3. Most guys hate makeup since it's a form of deception, even if they like how it looks, but exceptions exist.

Also typically things like facial structure and body shape matter, things like lip color, blush, or mascara do not. I've never seen a guy gush over women's makeup jobs.

[megabamse]

It means he don't want to be surprised about what the lady looks like without makeup, also prefer if makeup she has natural makeup, and no "fake" lips and nose type of makeup (if that made sense to say). It also means a girl that is confident enough to not have makeup on take less time to get out, dares to have some fun whit out worrying about what her makeup looks like.

[bamesjond0069]

My girlfriend is quite attractive and wears no makeup. I love that about her. My last long term friends with benefits wore makeup all the time and i hated it. I think makeup is for rare occasions when you're trying to present as sexualized. Thats it. The first girl in the pics looks a lot like one of my exgfs. Ahhhh.

[bamesjond0069]

Yeah the first two appear to have lighter makeup and more natural styled but definitely prefer them over the other two.

[Kaneki05]

Pretty sure they are all wearing make up lmao. So that guy lies. If he means less over the top make up then sure and I doubt he would date someone with but feelings and attraction are subjective to what one wants at the time. So maybe but who knows.

[spartan55]

I'll say for millionth time IT DOES NOT MATTER. Guys rarely have 'types'. On the off chance they do it doesn't mean that they wouldn't date other 'types'.

[Kaytiee]

All the girls with no makeup you listed, are all wearing makeup.

[LemonsAsks]

no makeup is just preference.
he might not even care what you do with your body.
but with most men im sure if you ask him out hell say yes.

[ElvenMr]

Maybe he prefers less noticeable make up on girls. And girls whos face are more kind/nice.
The bottom two girls look like they could care less about you. The top two are capable of human emotions lol

[slatyb]

I'm married to a gorgeous woman who wears very little makeup. I don't find that picture attractive.

[Creampiekarl420]

Right? What are they Ronald McDonalds bastard love children all that mess on their faces I don't know what heck they look like they have more coats than Burlington

[sheikalana]

I cannot answer for him but the type of makeup you posted is actually very elegant and subtle so I guess he would.

[ShadezMcgee]

... they ARE wearing makeup. It's probably a preference for women that aren't wearing as much.

[jshm2]

He's just lying to you to make you feel bad about wearing makeup.

[Intothevoid666]

Every one of these girls is wearing makeup I’m pretty sure just saying. I notice that girls always think I prefer traits that the girl I am currently talking to has and that’s just not true.

[Creampiekarl420]

First off those girls are all very very very slightly above average I can’t stress the slightness enough

[Asker]

Which one?

[Creampiekarl420]

The first one the fourth one the second one and the third one

[zeitgeist057]

I call BS. If they are so close to average, then that means they are less attractive than around half the women in these photos:

And



Maybe it’s just me, but if you can point out 50 women in those two photos (just random photos of average women), that you think are more attractive, I’ll believe you.

Otherwise, I think you’re setting the standard of what “average” means higher than actual average.

[Creampiekarl420]

@zeitgeist057 Dude these bitches are below average 😂 travel my guy you’ll see some truly beautiful women I’m talking solid 8s no makeup just waking up

[zeitgeist057]

I’ve been to dozens of countries. My point is exactly this, I could travel for days and see hundreds of people, not a single one as attractive as one of these four. By the definition of “average”, I should see at least half the people as equally or more attractive for your statement to be accurate.

You still haven’t pointed out which fiftty you prefer out of the photos of over 110 women, so I’m still not convinced.

[Creampiekarl420]

@zeitgeist057 Dude your smarter than makeup and good lighting these are slightly above average women they’re average among average do you watch one punch? These bitches are class B heroes they’re at the top of class B but still class B I call bs on your travels because you’ve never seen nines and dimes if you think these bitches are anything better than average

[zeitgeist057]

Obviously you haven’t traveled much, or only in some touristy areas if you think the world is covered in above average women. I don’t doubt it, as I’ve spent more years abroad than you have been able to drive. Also, unaware of what the word average literally means.

[Creampiekarl420]

@zeitgeist057 😂😂😂 apparently not

[Creampiekarl420]

@zeitgeist057 because you’ve never seen one 😂

[Creampiekarl420]

@zeitgeist057 beautiful women are a dime a dozen these basic bitches will never be in a miss universe a Victoria secret or any type of international model I honestly feel sorry for you average isn’t bad it’s just far from the best

[zeitgeist057]

Wherever you are, stay there as long as you can. Out here on Earth it’s covered in a large percentage obese people, with skin problems, dental issues, poverty stricken malnourished people, and other ailments causing very few of them to be anywhere close to what I would call perfect “10”. So enjoy it.

[Creampiekarl420]

@zeitgeist057 tell me everywhere you’ve traveled I mean cities not countries all of them right now because that’s not true at all

[zeitgeist057]

No way, the list is too long. Even just listing countries would be a PITA, I had to have pages added to my passport multiple times to accommodate all my visas and stamps.

Here’s just a couple though: Pucallpa, Peru. Lisboa, Portugal. Rio de Janiero, Brazil. The island of Uligan in Maldives. Bocas del Toro, Panama. Manila, Phillipines. New York, USA. Los Angeles, USA. Lubbock, USA. Hermosillo, Mexico. Kingston, Jamaica. Dublin, Ireland. Tel Aviv, Israel.

How about you tell me a half a dozen or more places you’ve been, where these so called “dimes and 9s” are so prevalent?

[zeitgeist057]

I’d also like to see some photos of women you think are 10s

[Creampiekarl420]

@zeitgeist057 what tf were you doing in Brazil and the Philippines that you never saw any beautiful women were you blind or gay?

[zeitgeist057]

You seem confused. Did I say there are no beautiful women anywhere, and that I've never seen a beautiful woman ever?

Still waiting on you to answer a single question of mine.

[Creampiekarl420]

@zeitgeist057 Earth it’s covered in a large percentage obese people, with skin problems, dental issues, poverty stricken malnourished people, and other ailments causing very few of them to be anywhere close to what I would call perfect “10”. So enjoy it.

[zeitgeist057]

yep. "very few" does not = 0.

When I walk down the average street, in your average city, on an average day, I might walk past about 300 people. Of those, I might see a half a dozen that I would rate as an 8 or 9. 6 out of 300 = 2%. And usually no 10s. I would say I see a 10 a couple times a year, or maybe not at all. There are over 7,000,000,000,000 people on this planet. At 2%, at least by my standards, that's millions of beautiful women. Far from none. Yet still few, relatively speaking.

The original topic was the girls in the photos. Who you state are very very can't stress enough how slightly above average (as in, might as well just say they are average, with how slightly it is). Maybe it's just a matter of taste, but I think they are all in the 7-9 range, and returning to the 300 average people example, they might be the 4 that I saw that day. I would not lump them with the rest (well, maybe #2, depending on the day) of the people that I found no attraction to.

Funny thing is, I get the feeling my standards are a little higher than yours. I think a lot of Filipina women have weird facial features that are unsettling, like overbites, underbites, oddly sized ears, or just weird little facial features that are out of balance. Not that ALL of them do, there are definitely some cute Filipinas. Just not your average. Brazil definitely has a higher percentage, I had a smoking hot Brazilian girlfriend when I lived there.

[Asker]

@zeitgeist057 it’s clear he thinks fashion models are the most attractive which is funny cause I don’t even think vs models are that attractive especially the ones now

[Asker]

@zeitgeist057 but also I think your ideal of attractive is very much euro centric based on your comment about Filipinos so I wouldn’t say it’s fair that he has “lower standards” just because you don’t find asain people attractive. That can come off racist

[zeitgeist057]

I find Brazilians attractive but not all Filipinas, that makes me "eurocentric"? Seems like you're quick to jump to some unfounded conclusions. I find about the same percentage of Filipinas attractive as I do white girls, which is not many. Also, I'm Japanese and Guamanian, and have no issues with any Asian people. Just because I don't want to have sex with most people doesn't make me racist.

[Asker]

@zeitgeist057 yes becuase the girls in the photos are all attractive according to you and they all possess Eurocentric beauty features. And many Brazilians do as well even though they most are Latina. You did say that you don’t find most Filipino attractive and most of them do not conform to Eurocentric beauty standards

[AlwaysBelieving]

The first two pics, the girls have makeup.

I'm pretty sure he's meaning "the more natural look." Could just be me though.

[Subarugirl]

Everyone of these pictures is a woman with make up on...

[annabananna]

I find that guys are cool with makeup if it looks natural

[TrillXHippy]

Don’t nobody knows what that means but the guy that you like so ask him yourself

[Paul09]

I agree with him. Makeup just changes you're like, to not look like yourself. I'd like the real you. The confident and approves of her nature looks.