Spending a lot in the first dates can give men a warning?

[Anonymous]

It is normal that when we date, we spend money (unless it is just a simple walk in the park or something similar): going to a restaurant, to the movies, a museum, the theater, a bus tour, etc. But is it ok women, during the first dates and maybe more later, the reins of their food and material desires, and allow the guys to pay the bills? Eg, buying the tickets for an event, eating till their hearts' content, nice souvenirs, the while transport or a taxi to be at home as earlier as possible, a trip (that would be too much), etc.

[BarryLiverstone]

No if he plans the date he is willing to budget that money. Obv if she goes to an excessive level it’s an issue tho.