How can I deal with this toxic relationship (a bit long)?

[Backstage_]

I have met someone online two months ago and we've been in distance relationship for two months and met each other in real life for three times but we have many problems and I have realised that we're going to the ultra toxic relationship. Even at the very beginning of our date, her ex-bf emerged and then intervented our relationship and said me offensive words and he had possessed a lot of nude pics of her but I didn't care him then I threatened him to go for prosecutive actions then he evemtually dropped us.. However, the main problem is that she never treats me excitedly and always say me that we're unclear and if we breakup with each other I wouldn't get regretful with you.. Is she afraid of her ex boyfriend or something? She likes my love and close interest over her but she never herself struggle for me as far as I can see.. I met up with her sister last week but she didn't like my close interest to her.. I have currently unemployed and I was unable to pay her sister's expenditures and she got angry with me and gossiped my girlfriend behind me.. Again we have been offended once more.. Our relationship is getting a bit deteriorated and intoxicated.. How can I deal with all these? I really help your needs coz I am truly perplexed :'( :'(

Do I hurry up for something and should I give a time for her?
Or breakup with her?

[Emiliamazing]

A few other points to ponder aside from the excellent advice you have received from the other ladies: how long was she with the ex-boyfriend that interrupted one of your early dates. If she is not partaking in long relationships and it’s just dating around, that could be a sign that she’s just not ready for a long-term relationship at this point or maybe ever. The bottom line is, if you’re not enjoying how things are going right now, it’s fairly certain that they will only get more complicated should you invest more time and energy into this dating endeavor

[TransAm85]

If her ex is still getting involved, she may still have feelings for him and you are just the rebound. She's basically using you to make him jealous. That's not good. You need to find someone who will dedicate their time and energy to the prosperity of a successful relationship. Not dwelling on the past.

[Backstage_]

You are absolutely true. She said thst she had definitely finished the relationship six months ago before the beginning but she contacted.. I don't know what's she doing

[TransAm85]

Do u really care for this girl? Maybe give her some space and see what happens.

[Backstage_]

I am not sure but seems like she loves me but I am feeling a bit confused about all these situation..

[Cutea]

she may be unsure herself. She may have experienced some first experienced with him or overcome difficult time with her ex. They may be only attached to those experiences but this is putting her in an unclear situation where she don't even know and may want to see reason to choose, because now she doesn't know herself

[random_girl95]

Seems like you were having problems from the beginning. If you feel like your relationship is getting toxic then it's better to break up.

[Backstage_]

Our date has begun very problematic but I gave a chance for her. But she never seems like excited, loved-seeming, compassionate and caring to myself. I am so confused and a bit doubtful whether she really loves me or not.

[random_girl95]

It's simple. If you love her much just take your time away from her, it may help her too, to realize what she feels about your relationship. If you tired of the situation just break up with her.

[Backstage_]

It's great and all in all what do you think about thia situation?

[random_girl95]

If I was in your position I would break up.

[Backstage_]

Do you think that she loves me?
Why might she be unclear and too reluctant?

[random_girl95]

I am not in her head. I couldn't know.

[Backstage_]

According all of this situation I explained in details?

[random_girl95]

Still you can never know. I believe you should discuss it with her.

[Backstage_]

I did it before but never worked

[random_girl95]

So just let go of her. Simple.

[Emiliamazing]

Agreeing with this perspective for sure. You should never be this stressed out in the early cycles of dating. You are going to work yourself into a tizzy and it may make other parts of your life spiral downward.

[kahouuu]

I say drop her and invest ur time somewhere else!!