Why is sayibg I should forgive?

[Fzrz6455]

My mom for abusing me growing up? She never liked ne and still doesn't

[DataOrganizer27]

Forgive for yourself, not for her. And if you guys don't get along then I suggest maybe cutting ties if you want to go that route and she doesn't seem to keen on fixing the relationship.

Forgiveness is a huge part of healing, but we do it for ourselves, not for them.

[Emanon25]

She’s still your mom, try your best to be her friend, hopefully she’ll change her manners

[Fzrz6455]

No she abused tot he point of gaslightibg to the point of me taking meds

[Emanon25]

Don’t give much attention when she starts gaslightibg.