What can I do until I meet the right guy?

[Jendcheuebc]

I’m not currently dating, have by choice been single for 3 years working on myself, but I want to gain more confidence to go out there.

[wa1t1ngFuture]

prepare everything about relationships or learn about men, how to behave with men, how to be a good woman... one example is learning to cook, learning how to behave with parents (because you also have to be nice in front of her parents)...

Thanks..

[Jendcheuebc]

I’m already all those things.

[wa1t1ngFuture]

looking for the most handsome and most difficult guy... for you to ask out on a date (as long as you are confident and brave) and if it works lol it's really cool 😂😂 (joking).

I remember two female youtubers (Lara and Dani) they often to prank men.. one example: randomly asking a man's number, sleeping in the library on a man's body, staring at a man's face right in front of a man's face and many more videos that they make can motivate many women to start to be brave and believe self.

now it's changed not only guys who come come to the women first


... but women can also...

I wonder how many men's numbers is have gotten from men lol

[wa1t1ngFuture]

I see the two of them might have managed to have hundreds of male numbers

[ChocolatePink]

People nowadays tries meeting other people online. It is a valid option that helps all kinds of people; it's not the choice of the hermits and losers only.
Virtual dating can help you safely get to know somebody partially. You can solve your biggest doubts and worries and then have full control on the next step, meeting irl.

Do not think I talk about virtual dating as "virtual love". There's nothing more sad that falling in love with somebody you don't actually know.

[Biancam13]

Maybe just go out with your friends, meet loads of cool people, flirt around with whoever you find attractive. Also, take up some hobbies and interests you really find interesting/enjoy. Those hobbies are where you’ll meet people you have things in common with!

[Jendcheuebc]

I have a lot going for me in terms of career and hobbies. I just feel like no matter what I do I am not successful and it stresses me out. Even when I let go of the fear. I’m not sure what to do.

[DataOrganizer27]

It's really simple. Just do things you love. Take all that time you would be looking for or dating someone and do things you enjoy. Hobbies, working on you, whatever. Happiness is confidence - even when it doesn't feel like it.

[Jendcheuebc]

I’ve been doing this for years. I just have really bad luck I guess :/

[DataOrganizer27]

Well, maybe it's time to start conversations with people you find interesting then? It's ok to be nervous, but taking the plunge is a huge step forward. Guys are clueless anymore and a lot are too afraid of rejection.

[jennifer_bloom]

Be kind and let everyone know your single - a guy will appear if you do that