No because people who have kids are likely selfish people, they have kids for their own entertainment but don't think about whether the kid wants to be born or not.. most do not but they don't care about that, they have them anyway... Same for people with small houses who have pets and don't care about their boredom and lack of freedom... Very selfish
Sure. I'd date her but I wouldn't consider marrying. I don't want kids around and I wouldn't want to take on financial responsibility for raising them.
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No.. Don't get me wrong, there is nothing wrong with single moms.. Or dating them.. I don't want the drama.. Especially if she is the type to alienate the father.. Women like that hate the father more than they love their kids. I also don't want the kids to come to like me, only for me to disappear, don't want to cause that kind of trauma.
I would andi have. as long as thing between her and her ex are pretty smooth, then no problem. If there is a lot of drama between them, constant fighting, court battles then no. I just don't need all of that drama.
I have before it makes me like them more tbh seeing how good they are as a father. BUT it ended badly as he was still sleeping with his baby mama. So no. I wouldn’t again.
Totally I would hope to have at least on kid of my own though As long as that doesn't bother her and I get along with both her and he kids then I'm totally fine with it
Only if that person was truly someone I felt like I could never find again and they were worth it. That's highly unlikely tho so I'm gonna say no otherwise.
Yes. Did start to date one before, didn't work out. Now that I have kids, if I were single I would definitely be open to it, especially as I don't want anymore
It was the one of the best things i ever did. We’re a great match and we both have kids. We put each other first and don’t undermine each other when disciplining the kids.
Depends what is the other person bringing to the relationship that would cover their part. If it's that person is looking for a easy way out of responsibility and find a well adjusted person for personal gain. Move on.
Yes. Moms with daugters most certainly. Especially the openminded ones who taught their of age daughters sex is to be enjoyed, including with mommy and her boyfriend/fuck buddy.
If the woman had lost her husband through illness or an accident I'd consider it, but if she is a single mother through not using birth control then I would not consider at all.
@DermalPunch I did not say that, If the single mother had never married but had children then she never considered birth control, as a man I have always used a condom & spermicide, I take my responsibilities seriously, so I know that I have no children out there in the world.
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No because people who have kids are likely selfish people, they have kids for their own entertainment but don't think about whether the kid wants to be born or not.. most do not but they don't care about that, they have them anyway... Same for people with small houses who have pets and don't care about their boredom and lack of freedom... Very selfish
I'd never have kids because id feel so guilty if they grow up wishing they was Aborted, I actually care about other people than myself
Sure. I'd date her but I wouldn't consider marrying. I don't want kids around and I wouldn't want to take on financial responsibility for raising them.
No.. Don't get me wrong, there is nothing wrong with single moms.. Or dating them.. I don't want the drama.. Especially if she is the type to alienate the father.. Women like that hate the father more than they love their kids. I also don't want the kids to come to like me, only for me to disappear, don't want to cause that kind of trauma.
I would andi have.
as long as thing between her and her ex are pretty smooth, then no problem.
If there is a lot of drama between them, constant fighting, court battles then no.
I just don't need all of that drama.
I have before it makes me like them more tbh seeing how good they are as a father. BUT it ended badly as he was still sleeping with his baby mama. So no. I wouldn’t again.
Totally
I would hope to have at least on kid of my own though
As long as that doesn't bother her and I get along with both her and he kids then I'm totally fine with it
Only if that person was truly someone I felt like I could never find again and they were worth it. That's highly unlikely tho so I'm gonna say no otherwise.
maybe i do if i'm very sincere love him, but i had to be brave to getting along with his kids.
bcs, a relationship without blessing it means won't last forever.
Yes. Did start to date one before, didn't work out.
Now that I have kids, if I were single I would definitely be open to it, especially as I don't want anymore
Of course, yes. I think the man I'd date would havwe either no childrne, or children as adults now, not living at home.
It was the one of the best things i ever did. We’re a great match and we both have kids. We put each other first and don’t undermine each other when disciplining the kids.
Depends what is the other person bringing to the relationship that would cover their part. If it's that person is looking for a easy way out of responsibility and find a well adjusted person for personal gain. Move on.
Right now? Probably not, in a few years? I honestly don't know
No, I am not that desperate, she bring too much baggage with her.
personally i wouldn't. but if I were a single mom with kids, i would date a single dad with kids.
Never. I'm not trying to change the diapers of some other man's kids.
Nope.
I don't like kids, and it's messy anyways.
Not really my thing but it’s possible just high likely
Yes.
Moms with daugters most certainly.
Especially the openminded ones who taught their of age daughters sex is to be enjoyed, including with mommy and her boyfriend/fuck buddy.
This is a joke right?
@Kaytiee no. You are probably transgender to be so uptight about sex
No I just don't believe in grooming children for when they come of age to engage with sexual acts with their parent, it's fked up.
@Kaytiee mom raising her daughter smartly is... well, good grooming, yes. They both get a groom.
If the woman had lost her husband through illness or an accident I'd consider it,
but if she is a single mother through not using birth control then I would not consider at all.
I totally hear that
So she used birth control with her dead husband then?
@DermalPunch I did not say that, If the single mother had never married but had children then she never considered birth control, as a man I have always used a condom & spermicide, I take my responsibilities seriously, so I know that I have no children out there in the world.