For people you've gone on first dates and/or first hookups with, how many have been completely terrible people?

[Anonymous]

I'm not talking about people who aren't compatible with you.
I'm wondering how many have actually been noticeably really morally awful.
If you have 3 or less experiences, then please answer A.

Not enough firsts to answer

None have been terrible

1-19%

20-49%

50-74%

75-99%

100%

A total of 43 votes were cast: 16 girls and 27 guys. See detailed results

[MCheetah]

I have two different answers for this:

For those who have been incompatible with me, but not outright bad people:
90%, in my experience. I've only ever dated ten women, so you do the math.

For those who have been complete pieces of sh*t?
20%, I'd say.

[Jamie05rhs]

I'll just comment on the best date I had. (The others didn't really make an impression on me, so they aren't worth mentioning.) She wasn't a bad person, but I did feel like she prioritized sex over more important things. So that's why our relationship didn't work out.

[Leshen]

Honestly, none of my dates were completely terrible people. They just weren't the best people either. For most of them we just weren't compatible.

I wouldn't ever go back to a single one either. They all taught me what to look out for in men.

[WhitneySnow]

I voted A cause I haven’t actually dated that many people

[trumpets310]

Not many completely terrible people in my opinion - I've been with one, but I think most bad people are just a bit selfish or have some problems but also have good qualities

[boobliker]

had some bad dates like always waiting to do every thing get in the car get out of the car took her about 6 minutes then going in for food she had to wait for someone to come out first almost 10 minutes it was pissing me right off but back to hers after and coffe and sex in under ten so we never went on any more dates she came to mine or i went over to hers it lasted 2 years

[exitseven]

I had a blind date that was horrendous but she was not morally reprehensible just not my type.

[zagor]

Some have been a waste of time and sometimes money, but nothing too bad.

[Anonymous]

I don't think any woman I've went out with has been COMPLETELY terrible.
I try to remember each woman I go out with at their core will always be a woman.

[Anonymous]

I've never dated a truly awful person. Of course, I've usually known at least SOMETHING about the girl first.

[bamesjond0069]

Most really were total shit.

[Asker]

Oh dang. You're an outlier according to this poll. What made them terrible and why do you think you have such a bad judgment of character?

[bamesjond0069]

I have excellent judge of character actually. Im saying the average girl you grab out of life... random lottery 10 women and all 10 are likely undateable.

They were terrible because its like who in their right fucking mind would settle down with someone offering such a retarded proposition. Girls want to get married with nothing to offer and/or they are just huge sluts. Or they are just gross like fat asf or have kids. If you subtract fats, single moms, sluts from the population that is women there's like 3 women left walking around any given city. Good luck finding them and then fingers crossed y'all actually have chemistry and things in common.

[Asker]

3 women in any city? 😂 You have a terrible judgment of character. I'm not saying most women are amazing but there aren't that many who are as terrible as you make it sound and most people here agree with me. Why do you go on dates with girls who are fat asf or have kids anyway? You should figure that out first

[bamesjond0069]

Well i dont go out with fat girls. And i start talking to a girl at the store or someplace how would i know if she had kids? Or is a slut? Or just crazy? Most women are sluts. Thats the one that i never know for sure until i test them. Im very hot so sometimes a girl could not sleep around but then i see if she's willing to have sex with me right away and many many do. So she might not be a slut to everyone else but to me she shows her true colors.

[Asker]

Interesting. So I'm just wondering, what's your definition of a slut and what would they have to change for you to not consider them total shit?

[bamesjond0069]

A woman with morals who wouldn't sleep with anyone they just met. What man in their right mind would marry someone who just sleeps with a random person?

[Asker]

Oh. But what woman in their right mind would marry a man who sleeps with a random person?
Does this mean you're a low quality man as well?

[bamesjond0069]

What does that matter? Whether I'm low quality or not doesn't change the fact that most women are undateable based on this. Its just a red herring. And id assume im not low quality since i have a girlfriend who i consider dateable. Its harder to find a girl worth my time than it is to have a girl accept me for a romantic relationship.

[Asker]

Well in theory, low quality belongs to low quality so no one in particularly is getting a retarded proposition like you said.

I'm genuinely surprised you think you have a high quality girlfriend since you made it sound like there are no good girls and you have committed to one. This means she's taking the retarded proposition. She has the bad judgment of character for committing to a guy who sleeps with random girls.
I'm not arguing that most girls are not sluts by the way. I'm just say that your logic is off. I see what you're trying to convey though

[bamesjond0069]

She isn't trying to force a retarded proposition. She isn't a slut AND she's also ok with me not marrying her. So thats why im with her and not any of the other girls who chase me around trying to date me.