The guy that my sister likes actually wants me. what do I do?

Badgirltings

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FunkyMonkee Follow
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I don't it's you that has to worry about that. If he wants to change horses in med-race, that's up to him. At THAT point, it's up to you to decide if you want to take him on as your boyfriend and possibly hurt your sister or tell him to start barking up another tree because you don't want to create a rift between you and your sister.

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- Badgirltings
  
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  Well he didn’t “change horses” because he dose not even know she likes him he told me about how he felt about me
  
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- FunkyMonkee
  
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  Okay, well then, you've got nothing to worry about! He's free and you're sister's not involved! Got get him, tiger!
  
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- Badgirltings
  
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  Lol 😂
  
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RuthlessAggression Follow
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Well the best thing to do would just be to have both of you leave him. That way you two aren't going at each others throats over ONE guy but we don't live in a perfect world now, do we?

Does he know she likes him?

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You dont want your choices to make for good drama.
Talk to your sister lt her know this guy is hitting on you. Tell her what's up ask her what she would like to do.

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- Badgirltings
  
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  Okay thank you 😊
  
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i've had this back and forth with my sister, just ask her, sometimes it's no big deal

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- Badgirltings
  
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  Yes I will definitely talk to her about it
  
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Sounds like a plot for a bad anime or rom com. I'd steer clear of him. Even if she 'got over it', there's still going to be a lot of lingering resentment.

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You run and somehow you need proof he's picking up on you or trying to just to show your sister that he's not the right guy for her

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Tell him to take a hike.

Your sister is more important than he will ever be!

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I would tell the sister and make sure there isn't going to be bad blood between the two of you.

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- Badgirltings
  
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  Yes!!
  
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Talk to your sis, see if she wants you to divert him to her by telling him. another option given all three of you are up for it is you sisters share him.

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let her know and then if you don't want him let her know that too so she can get rid of him...

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- Badgirltings
  
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  Lol The problem is I do want him but I don’t want her feeling sad about it but I don't know I’ll figuring something out
  
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Alcoholic_Wannabe Follow
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Date him if you want.
Who gives a fuck what your family thinks?

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Bklynbadboy12 Follow
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That all depends how long has she been liking him and have you told her about it yet

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  No I haven’t told her yet 🤦🏿‍♀️🫣I’m the worst I know
  
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- Bklynbadboy12
  
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  You not the worst thing happen. How do you honestly think she'd react when you tell her
  
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Maybe talk to your sister about it, if you have a good relationship?

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LimitedBenefits101 Follow
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share with her, the weeks for her and the weekend for you, just dont tell her!

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007kingifrit Follow
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you do nothing, guys come and go but you need your sister you only have one

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UniquelyBasic Follow
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Take what you deserve. 😈

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- Badgirltings
  
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  Omg😅😂😂
  
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- UniquelyBasic
  
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  Do you want him?
  
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- Badgirltings
  
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  Well…. I think so… but I had no idea my sister even liked him till yesterday and since she came out with it first I should probably just leave it alone
  
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- UniquelyBasic
  
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  Yeah, that might be the best option.
  
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Talk to your sister about it?

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  I will
  
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zagor Follow
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Offer him a threesome.

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- Badgirltings
  
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  I would never have a threesome with my sister ewww 🤣🤣
  
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hornyguyyyyuy Follow
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A threesome would be good

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- Badgirltings
  
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  Ewww not with her lmao
  
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- hornyguyyyyuy
  
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  😂😂
  
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clemdenim Follow
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What do you want to do

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- Badgirltings
  
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  I will talk to her about it and him
  
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- clemdenim
  
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  Good luck
  
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WhitneySnow Follow
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Talk to your sis

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- Badgirltings
  
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  Okay
  
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jjj101010 Follow
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It’s easier to ask for forgiveness than permission

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sheikalana Follow
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Expose him.

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- Badgirltings
  
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  I mean is it really exposing she likes him but he likes me so like I don't know 🤷🏿‍♀️ lol
  
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Sharing is caring 👍

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Take a shower 🚿 you'd feel refreshed

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Have a 3 some

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