But from men's side though, modern women's standards are insanely high and it seems like many modern women severely overestimate their own value and worth, and severely underestimate men's value and worth. Even hideous, smelly, obese, or horrible women seem to think they have a platinum coochie and are entitled to perfect 9s and 10s for men who make seven figures or more.
But on women's side (at least here on GAG), so many women claim that they don't have ludicrously high standards and that they just want a man in the real world who can treat them well, and that they all aren't asking for Michael B Jordans or Jason Momoas out there.
So men think women ask for way too much and give very little in return, and women think they have reasonable, realistic standards in men.
So women: Here's your chance to prove us wrong.
What do you REALLY want in a man? A long-term partner and lover.
If you give a laundry list of crap that only 0.01% of men in any given town can exist as, I will respond to your answer with the bullsh*t icon (🐂💩), and you'd only be proving men right. This one time, I'll even leave the anonymous comments on (don't make me regret it).
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Well for me it should be kindness, they should be respectful not only towards me but to also other people, he should be funny cause I love to laugh and smile plus I also have a bit of sense of humor myself. He should also be sweet and kindhearted and gentle. He should also have passion. And loves children, I would love to be with someone that wants kids as much as I do and wants to settle down and have stability.
When we go on our first date it doesn't have to be fancy. Ideal first date I would love to go to a lovely cafe or on a picnic and go for a walk afterwards. He doesn't have to go full blown dress up, I'm ok with him being casual on the first day. But I might wear maybe a cute dress and some heels or ballet flats and have my hair and makeup all together.
When it comes to sex I prefer the gentleness of a man. I would prefer he would be gentle and loving. The next time I have sex will be on my wedding night and I would love for the love making to be gentle and sweet. Some women do like it rough, but I prefer it to be gentle, slow, sweet, and romantic.
When it comes to physical, to be honest I don't want someone overly fit. I'm ok with him having a "dad bod" to be honest I prefer that. His teeth don't have to be perfect. But he has to have a beard (I love a man with a beard or goatee). Height I would prefer him to be taller than cause I am short in stature. Doesn't need to have muscles either but if he can open pickle jar and give me a piggy back ride on the occasion then I'll be a happy like chipmunk.
I am naturally like this and it was hard sustaining it in a cruel world. Most women dont think like you though. You have the integrity to sustain your own mind and not to be ruled by what tv shows.