Is this guy I’m seeing a boyfriend or just a friends with benefits?

[Anonymous]

I meet this guy on a dating website. He took me out to a really expensive restaurant. We had sex after. Everything seemed to be going good. He mentioned he kinda just wanted a physical relationship because he didn’t think he would be good enough for anyone. He had too much going on in his life. He takes me out all the time. Wherever I want to go he’ll take me. I spend the night with him and wants to cuddle with me. He cooks for me. He does anything to make me happy. He told me he kinda liked what we have going on and that he’s not seeing anyone else.

[OlderAndWiser]

He sounds like a guy who is afraid to commit himself with his words but does so with his actions.

[AviatorTom]

You are his friends with benefits and he's apparently happy with that. He's probably financially secure, may have been involved in bad relationship (s) in the past, and isn't interested in getting serious. If that's okay with you, enjoy it.

[RuthlessAggression]

Isn't a "friend, with benefits", really just like saying a "boyfriend". I mean you take away the label of "friends with benefits" and what you do you have, a friend, you have sex with. A "boyfriend". Just because he might be doing it to others, doesn't mean he's not a boyfriend

[Guy13]

He sounds like he enjoys serving you in whatever capacity you will allow him. He seems committed 🤷🏻‍♂️

[Sugar100]

I thought having sex with guy was being easy? I hear all girls say they have a lot of sex with bfs but I’m confused , is sex what gets you a boyfriend? Is that the secret to get a boyfriend?

[Guy13]

Not for me… I do not find it attractive when a woman comes on too strong. How about keep your legs closed and enjoy time with one another. Keep it Simple.

[RHK36]

friends with benefits that could turn into something else. For now he's liking the arrangement since it's less effort than a real relationship.

[Twalli]

I see friends with benefits relationships as a relationship that people don't want to call a relationship.

[Jamie05rhs]

If you haven't had the Talk, then he's not your boyfriend.

[fireforeffect]

You should not be having sex with him until you are married.

[Anonymous]

I think he wants more, but he is very confused.