I believe the reason why they stopped approaching them is because sometimes it's all but a game till either see if he can woo and wow her or to see if she can reject him the hardest because she has so many more options to choose from that she prefers. But overall I think it's just a mid fact of either one the feminist movement which means guys need to stay in place and wait for the woman to approach them as to not be Hawking and stalking and hovering over them or could be just a mere fact guys have honestly grown intimidated and it's not from a lack of trying but the constant trying and getting rejected hard like scares many
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If she’s on her own it’s not a good idea to approach a woman.
which means if she’s not with friends a lot, then guys may not be approaching her.
personally I tend to only chat to women if in a group or it’s obvious there is an offer to chat there.I've never been that thirsty for women in the first place. I know a lot of guys who have been through crazy girlfriends & wives, and they honestly can't trust a woman again. Some guys are afraid of being rejected, which I don't quite understand.
They discover they are gay, some get discouraged by bad experiences (this applies to everyone), some are purely just afraid of committing social suicide for just approaching a female.
If men as a group are avoiding you as an individual, you need to give some serious consideration to your role as the common denominator.
We have priorities too. We don't have all the time to chase women. For me, I stop approaching at the very first sign she doesn't seem interested or the very first red flag.
I stopped in my teens. It got to the point it was just "why bother?" when I've literally been rejected EVERY single time. I'll stay single, no problem! It has many advantages.
My case is usually not getting/understanding hints/signs and not knowing if they are just being nice or if she is actually attracted to me... plus i suck at starting conversations...
Rejection or disinterest
Especially after never having to chase
Listen to nothing else I say but resist getting old
Become invisible and feel less worthyWomen seem to take pleasure in destroying a man’s confidence these days
Risk vs. Reward. I know most women don't want to hear this but there reaches a point where guys realize how few today are worth the effort.
Because the juice has ceased to be worth the squeeze.
Because a lot of women have really shitty attitudes when you try to approach them. Most men who've approached enough women are tired of them being bitchy for no reason.
Girls are either unattractive or too hot 100% of the time. On the plus side for you, girls, you dont need to be super hot for me to think you are.
Feminist and society ruined the approach game
Because they're losers.
Too many crash and burns
They aren’t worth the trouble.
Court order to stop.
Feminist.
Some men are weak.
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