Do you like when people make eye contact with you?

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Fvghtlxght · Accepted Answer

Yes and no. I'm a 90s kid and in elementary school I was taught to always make eye contact with the person you are talking to it shows you respect them. People don't really do that anymore I noticed. In fact they find it creepy if your eyes aren't wandering around while you talk to them. I'm ok with straight eye contact and not looking away because I'm paying attention to what they're saying and it doesn't feel weird to me. If there is anyone out there who knows that feeling I'm talking about. It's like your staring into their eyes but your mainly hearing and processing what they're saying so it almost feels like your not really staring deeply into their eyes even though you are lol. But I don't like eye contact if the person makes me feel uncomfortable. Like for example, my boss right now makes me feel uncomfortable. My boss hit on me and basically asked me inappropriate questions. Before he crossed that line, he would make straight eye contact with me and I would make straight eye contact with him back and not look away. He's old school I can see he's from the time where you make eye contact and not look away or shy away. But ever since he crossed that line it's hard for me to make eye contact with him regardless. I stare at the floor or anywhere but his eyes when he talks to me. I try to make sure the conversation is a few seconds long because I'm too uncomfortable to talk to him longer than that. If I have to talk to him longer it's unbearable.

Cynicaldreamer · Accepted Answer

Not particularly. I assume if someone's staring at me something's wrong, they need something, they're talking about me, or I look weird, ugly, or off.

In return, I typically try to avoid eye contact with people unless I'm speaking to them, and it's not for long; just to acknowledge, "Hey, I'm talking to you..." But that's just me; obviously some people take eye contact as a sign of "interest."

... yeah, not always.

Depends on who it is and why they're looking at you. My coworkers look at me all the time, but that sure doesn't mean they like me. It usually means I did something to annoy them, or they need me to do something for them (usually the latter, LOL)

zeitgeist057 · Accepted Answer

Yes, though there is a limit and a time and a place. Eye contact is a wonderful thing, but it can get creepy or weird if it's too much or too long.

Do you like when people make eye contact with you?

I especially enjoy eye contact during sex, and for the longest time I was not very good at having eye contact. But now I love it!

I'm pretty sure there's some kind of psychological, physiological, psychosomatic, or some kind of response that happens when your eyes meet another person's eyes. I've heard that two people can cause each other's eyes to dilate or constrict, and there's also a feeling for me if I'm looking into the eyes of an attractive girl, like I'm falling into her, falling in love maybe, just mesmerized. I also feel like it's mutual, when I feel something and I'm feeling this thing, it's communicated to her as well and she feels it. That's what I mean by psychological/physiological connection response. You get connected to the other person. That's why I say I love to have eye contact during sex, because that feeling growing while you are feeling so good with your bodies at the same time, it's literally better than the best. Like if you were getting a treat, that you thought was a great treat, but all of a sudden it got that much better!

Joker_ · Accepted Answer

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Turtlewax1994 · Answer

Yes I do it shows your interested in the person if it’s a convo your having or just in general Mine please?

Sour-rose · Answer

Seeing I've been called both genders... No. I don't at all think I'm fr-... okay well I am different in a way but don't like it when people make eye contact. Because I'm either concentrated on where I'm going or mindlessly walking... so I'm glancing everywhere. And then I make eye contact with someone super hot... or a karen. Either way gets the feelings stirred up

Blackcosmo · Answer

Minimal eye contact from "guys" is fine but I don't like too much eye contact especially if they're like staring me down like I'll literally have sweat running down my face if it's a guy lmao.

Secret6620 · Answer

Only when we are engaged in some sort of interaction.  It's unnerving when someone makes eye contact but doesn't speak or make an attempt to interact with you.

Anonymous · Answer

Eye contact makes me uncomfortable. As I don't know what level is inag and I'm always thinking is it to much and creepy or is it to little. Should I even make eye contact.

Or even shit j just made eye contact with that random person what do I do. Or I made eye contact with that beautiful woman and smiled I bet I looked like a sociopath.

TommyMountainFigure · Answer

For me it is paramount.. I can't bear having a conversation with anyone who can't maintain eye contact!

Ευδεμονια · Answer

I feel usually embarrassed or nervous because I feel like I’m in defect and I’m invading the privacy of the other person.

EmmaMary · Answer

I much prefer eye to eye contact, rather than eye to bust contact.

talka20 · Answer

Mosstly yea but still depend that when or where... but yes mostly im okay n fine with that... not like or dislike

IJhonnyI · Answer

Nope, unless it's that girl on the profile picture other then that nope sorry as cold as ice 🧊

IsoUser · Answer

I personally prefer girls who make eye contact with me because you can always judge a woman's character by looking deep inside her eyes.

Wise4myage · Answer

Yes, of course. Especially if I am attracted to the girl.

Anonymous · Answer

I mean I don't get offended by lack of eye contact. Not everyone is comfortable with it. But I do like it because it makes me feel like they're truly engaged in the conversation.

Jamie05rhs · Answer

Not if I don't know them. Because that makes me nervous.

EnglishEuropean · Answer

If I'm talking with them, yes. If they decided to stare at me out of the blue, I'd find it creepy.

lazermazer · Answer

Absolutely i do, unless it's midnight, all alone in gay bar, with 6 dudes staring me in the eye

ZenoZoldyck · Answer

It make me laugh and my face turn red because I am shy

serious · Answer

Yes of course. That shows respect.

Flower7 · Answer

Not really. It can be awkward.

Whatever2929292 · Answer

It can be awkward sometimes depends on the person

SeekingVirginWife · Answer

As long it's the Sanya Stare.

TallnBig · Answer

Can't trust someone that doesn't

Sparkie460 · Answer

I always make eye contact when I look at people.

Curiouslad123 · Answer

Yeah it makes me feel valued and respected

ElvenMr · Answer

Yea, it's a very nice thing.

more_than_a_guy · Answer

Depends on the context and attitude.

WhiteBoyChill · Answer

If its a girl giving me a blowjob sure

Iron_Man · Answer

Women

JohnK123 · Answer

Ofc lol

siseñor · Answer

don't care

KostasKouvalis · Answer

It depends

LavLavLuv · Answer

Yeah👁👄👁

Fuentes · Answer

Barely

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