If a guy has a good job, is nice, mature and honest, lots of hobbies & friends, he should easily get many dates & find a good girlfriend?

[Anonymous]

True

False

[Anonymous]

Not necessarily. Especially these days when people are so quick to dismiss a person without really getting to know them at all (often on appearance alone). And if the guy is shy and doesn't approach (because most women don't), he may very well be single.

[HighValue]

Not necessarily. You can be very good and a great catch, but the only people you find IRL are low quality and undesirable. It also depends on what YOUR standards are for what kind of person you are willing to accept.

[Asker]

Why is this?

[HighValue]

Because the majority of people are average by definition, and many are low quality, so that means if you are high quality there will be far less people that match on your level.

[WhitneySnow]

Not necessarily. He also needs to be cute (or hot) and charming and good with girls (though if he’s really hot a certain type of girl might hit on him anyway even if he wasn’t super charming).

[Asker]

How does a guy be good with girls?

[WhitneySnow]

I don't know. Just like be good at talking to them. But all the stuff you mentioned helps too.

[FictionalCharacter]

If a guy has too friends, he wouldn’t go out looking for a relationship.

[Asker]

What do you mean?

[FictionalCharacter]

“Bros before hos”

[SlothySlob]

Define being nice.
You can be honest and mature, but you can still come across as a dick.
You can be mature at life, but you can be a complete kluts when it comes to relationships.
You can be a good friend, but a shit lover.

[exitseven]

not necessarily. he could just rub people the wrong way.

[clampfan101]

Should? Absolutely.
Would? Not easily. 😥

[Asker]

What do you mean?

[jahaims]

It takes more than just checking those boxes.

[Asker]

What else is needed?

[whiskeyontherocks]

No
Well not in my experience

[TacosRAwesome]

Should help.