I can relate a lot with your words, I had some (failed) dates until I was 18, then I stopped for almost 10 years. I focused on school and work only, also because I’m introvert and I’ve difficulties at emotion expression so I’ve shielded myself in this situation. Nowadays I recovered and I had few dates this last year but I lastly decided to definitely stop to not have to suffer anymore. Sure I feel like I’ve jumped a whole decade of dating and fun. After 25/30 years old people have to focus on work and to make a living, there’s more mental maturity and there’s sure less time for fun than in 20’s.
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Dating for fun (hook ups or short term relationships) doesn't necessarily lead to happiness. Many men made that mistake in their teens or early 20s and then had child support to pay throughout their whole 20s and most of their 30s too. There are consequences to people's actions.
It is best to think of long term when making decisions in life that matter and can affect you for a long time instead of just thinking of short term fun.
In my opinion, finding someone for an exclusive long term relationship with some common interests to enjoy together, and share in life's experiences together would be more fun than some short term casual stuff.
Dating as an adult can be super fun too. There are pros and cons to both dating in your teens/early 20s vs dating as a proper adult. Even as an adult in your late 20s you can still date as if like you were teenagers.
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A man can never miss the boat, it is women that have their eggs expire by the age of 30, something women know very little about.
A lot of people feel that way unfortunately
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