Why is this woman letting this happen? Why isn’t her boyfriend doing much it seems?

[Anonymous]

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It’s clear that the boyfriend didn’t like what was going on and that this guy talking to the girlfriend wasn’t just trying to be friendly or innocent.

I’m not sure why this woman just let this go on despite seeing that the whole situation wasn’t having a positive effect on her boyfriend and that she is taken and the guy is clearly trying to hit on her.

These are precisely the type of women you would want to avoid if you’re ever wondering.

[OlderAndWiser]

If I was the boyfriend, I wold have told her that she needed to make a choice between being loyal or flirting with the little play toy. And if she had not immediately answered with something indicating loyalty, I would have stood up, told her to find another guy to fuck over, and walked out.

This is the writing on the wall, the red flag, the sign that should never be ignored or minimized.

[Asker]

As always, I agree with you.

[Smartgirl_hey]

Just because she was letting the other man talk with her doesn't mean she is bad. She is trying to figure him out and his behaviour but she may stand on her morals when he tries to cross the limits with her. Her boyfriend reaction is perfect too and he didn't like it. And when he stood up for himself and his relationship, she was supporting her boyfriend only. This is love of her and there is nothing wrong in her response. She is an open minded girl who respects humans but that doesn't mean she is gonna cheat on her boyfriend. When it comes to cheating, she will definitely stand up for her boyfriend and not to this guy

[Asker]

You say you’re smart, but you really think he was just “talking” with her?

Come on now

[Smartgirl_hey]

Also there's a possibility that the guy is doing prank on her boyfriend to see his reaction and his girlfriend might already know it so she might be taking it easy

[Asker]

Okay, we’re done here..

[SaartjieJane]

He’s definitely not just having conversation and being friendly. If I was that boyfriend I’d put my girlfriends number into his phone and tell the guy he can have her.
She was entertaining him lol… the second a guy tries to flirt and be disrespectful to your partner and your relationship, tell them to leave.
Sorry but he wasn’t just there to have conversation or be friends. His girlfriend he needs to drop because just by looking at her you can tell if her boyfriend wasn’t there she’d gladly give that guy her number and who knows what would happen then.

[Smartgirl_hey]

She might just be thinking he's funny and entertaining him doesn't harm as long as she stands up for her boyfriend finally and as long as he doesn't cheat him behind his back

[Smartgirl_hey]

* She might just be thinking he's funny and entertaining him doesn't harm as long as she stands up for her boyfriend finally and as long as she doesn't cheat him behind his back

[SaartjieJane]

You’re thick as two bricks if you think it’s fine entertaining someone while you’re dating. You’re probably also the type of person to say it’s fine to flirt with other people as long as she stands up for her boyfriend or it’s fine to sleep with someone else as long as she stands up for her boyfriend. Girl please 😂🤚🏼

[Smartgirl_hey]

It's never fine to sleep with someone else while being in a relationship or dating. I never said that. If she's entertaining him just for attention and not more than the intention of cheating, she might just be playing with this new guy's feelings and not in the intention to deceive her boyfriend but she might be liking the attention that she is getting from him but whatever, she was supporting her boyfriend when her boyfriend interrupted the conversation by speaking up in between. There also might be a possibility that this she and this new guy might be just pranking on her boyfriend to notice his reactions as these days many people are interested in doing prank videos for creating contents on YouTube. You can check out YouTube for prank videos like this. You will find many. It might be similar to that. If that's the reason, we can't consider the girl or boy wrong but it's never suggested to play with someone's feelings or to make her boyfriend insecure too. I agree with that

[SaartjieJane]

You’re done lol. If you try justifying any of that then I don’t need to know anything more from you.
If you don’t know how most guys operate then I don't know

[Smartgirl_hey]

I actually wonder if it's a video recorded for the purpose of a prank video or else a real one. If it's a real situation, I agree with whatever you said that even flirting while being in relationship with someone else might not be a good idea. But if this video is recorded for the purpose of making it as a prank videos such as the videos that you watch for fun on YouTube, then it might be acceptable but still it makes her boyfriend uncomfortable so it can be avoided.

[Jamie05rhs]

I don't blame the woman or her boyfriend. I blame the guy who's being rude and hitting on someone who is taken.

But he better watch his back. Because he doesn't know who he's messing with. Something could possibly "happen" to him later. If you catch my drift.

[Asker]

Why wouldn’t you blame the woman?

She is actively letting this happen when she can reject/decline the man?

[Jamie05rhs]

@EmbraceThePain She was just being polite. The random dude was being obnoxious, but she was being classy.

[Smartgirl_hey]

@Jamie05rhs I agree with that. She is just trying to be polite if it's a real scenario

[Jamie05rhs]

@Smartgirl_hey Thank you!

[Jamie05rhs]

After watching the video again, my opinion has changed. That girl shouldn't have given the guy her number. That was inappropriate.

[Smartgirl_hey]

I agree that too @Jamie05rhs

[Jamie05rhs]

Thanks

[Blackcosmo]

The guys behaviour is NOT ok and neither is the girl. He's better off without her anyways because she was never loyal. How disrespectful.

[Asker]

Agreed.

[UnknownGagsUser]

Because she was an attention whore..