So there’s this girl i never even spoke too before. I heard she likes me and she has stared at me before. She has a boyfriend tho and i havnt heard her talk about it but she seems comfortable hugging her boyfriend around me.
One time i just saw her near my perphial visión just hugging her boyfriend for like a long time and she seemed to be looking at my direction while smiling i think. I don't know if she was actually looking at me tho.
I also had a similar experience with another girl who liked me and she had a boyfriend and she would filrt with him around me. I don’t get this tho? Why would they do that if they got a crush on someone and i know it’s a bad thing to do. i’m just curious. Like some might say they’re trying to make me jealous but how can i be jealous if they don’t know if i even have interest
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That is pretty weird man. Some girls are just messy like that I guess. A couple possibilities for what could be going on:
- She might like the attention and thrill of flirting around even if she has a boyfriend. Some people just crave that validation.
- Could be she's looking to make you jealous or interested without actually breaking up with her guy. Like testing the waters to see if you make a move so she can dump him for you if you do.
- Might just be one of those chicks who wants what she can't have. Likes the idea of you because you don't pay attention to her, but plays it safe sticking with her boyfriend.
- Or she could just really be a touchy person in general and doesn't mean anything flirty by it. Some people are just naturally affectionate.
Either way bro, I'd say don't even bother with that mess. She's got a dude already so nothing good will come of hooking up with her or getting involved. Nothing but drama. Just play it cool and don't give her the attention she wants. Find a single girl who won't play games, you feel me? This one ain't worth the headache.
yeah she doesn’t seem worth it also for the second one i heard of this before but never understood it cuz like why does the girl think it’ll make a guy interested by showing that they’re in a relationship cuz wouldn’t that just make the guy not make a move at all
Yeah for real dude, I don't get what those girls are thinking either. Flirting with other guys in front of their boyfriend is just weird. Like you said, all that would do is make the other guy not even want to bother cuz she's obviously taken already. I can only think of a couple reasons why a girl might do that:
1. She likes the attention and getting guys interested in her even if she's not available. Like it just boosts her ego or something to know other dudes would be into her.
2. She's trying to make her boyfriend jealous on purpose and start drama in their relationship. Some chicks are just drama queens I guess.
3. Maybe deep down she wants out of the relationship with her boyfriend but is too scared to break up, so she's hoping he'll dump her instead after catching her flirting.
Who even knows with girls man, they're confusing! Either way, I wouldn't waste my time trying to figure it out if I were you. Any girl messing around like that while taken obviously isn't worth getting mixed up with. Find somebody who's actually single and you won't have to deal with all the game playing. Not worth the headache, you know?
oh wait I don't know if you got confused i meant like the girl flirts with there boyfriend infront of a guy that the girl likes but yeah you’re right about those things It’s not good that they do this
Whoa my bad dude, I totally misunderstood the situation you were describing. Let me think this through again...
So the girl flirts with her boyfriend in front of the other guy that she likes, not flirting with you directly. Hmm that is a weird move too.
I guess maybe she's trying to make the other guy jealous? Like seeing her all over her boyfriend makes him want her more since he can't have her. It's like a game or challenge type thing.
Or she might be doing it to get the other guy to actually make a move on her, since flirting with her boyfriend shows she's available but taken. So the guy would have to steal her away or something.
Either way, it still seems like messy playing with people's emotions just for attention or thrills. I don't know if it would actually work to get the guy she likes interested in the long run.
But some girls are just catty like that I s'pose. Like the drama of it all. Best to just smile and wave at those kinds of situations bro, and keep your distance from all that he-said she-said high school stuff. Not worth investing in if you ask me!
You know why she's doing this, don't you? Because she wants to make you jealous as hell of her boyfriend. Personally, I absolutely love it when a beautiful woman teases me in this fiendishly effective manner.
yeah but why do girls try to make a guy jealous when the guy never showed interest. It doesn’t make sense since like if i didn’t like her then i wouldn’t be jealous at all.
Because, number one, the guy is an absolute stud, and she wants to show him off, and two, women love to rub it in on the other guys in the general area, who aren't getting any pussy, and in all likelihood, won't be getting any in the foreseeable future. When she kisses him passionately and gently touches his VIP, every guy in the room shifts his weight uncomfortably and adjusts his own non VIP in frustration at not being able to get his dick inside the gorgeous woman who is teasing him so relentlessly.
he doesn’t look like a stud to me but yeah some girls can be assholes like that
Yes, assholes is the correct term, and I wish there were a lot more assholes like her ❤️
why lol they’re terrible people
But, are they really? She's having fun teasing you, and all you're going to do is go home and masturbate, right? What's so bad about that?
I mean it’s not known that she was hugging her boyfriend to tease me. It’s possible tho
Men have to stop thinking eye contact has to mean something.
That isn’t the only reason i think she likes me lol. Like i said I heard she likes me. Her friends were saying “don’t you like him” and i quickly glanced at them and they were pointing at me