Why do I not want relationships with women?

[blissinanarchy1]

Years ago… I used to be desperate, Any female who paid attention I was like a kicked puppy coming back for me. I’d let any girl treat me like shit. Now, years later, I got high self confidence, I’m in great shape, I take care of my self, I’m making good money. And I’ll be honest, I’m starting to be an asshole when it comes to dating. My standards are pretty high. I want loyalty, honesty, effort, open communication, and no contact with anyone you slept with in the past. If I sense any attitude, sense of entitlement, or that you’re just a little kid in your head, I cut you off instantly. My standards are too high to be in a relationship, and it don’t got anything to do with looks. I get along great with women as friends, but honestly I just cut off any possibility of a relationship with damn near everyone.

[Anonymous]

The 'ok enjoy your hand' comment' notice how it's never 'ok enjoy missing out on all that personality...' That comment suggests that all they / she has to offer is sex... ironically she's shown her hand.

You've just seen through the sales speech about relationships and realize they aren't all that. Never lower standards. But you realize that having even the most basic ones removes about 98% of your options. Men lowering standards is part of why women have been able to continue on this downward path.

[Anonymous]

You gotta leave the country. Look for western women to not be Greedy Jezebel is a needle in a hay stack.

In the mean time just fly to other country and use your wealth on those women

[Ukrainianbuddafly]

Sounds like you found your worth and developed standards. What's wrong with that.

[slatyb]

So what's the problem?

[blissinanarchy1]

I don't know. Ig I’m asking if I should keep my high standards, or commit to lower standards

[slatyb]

You sound a bit negative. That's not attractive. Be more understanding of people who have not been as fortunate as you have. You don't have to date them, but don't judge them. They are mostly doing the best they can with what they have. You are just fortunate enough to have more.

Maybe you should widen your dating circle. Consider some charitable activity, they tend to attract high quality people. It might also make you a bit more understanding of others struggles.

[Anonymous]

OK, enjoy your hand.

[blissinanarchy1]

Brave of you to post anonymously. Hands don’t cheat on you, gaslight you, gold dig, or anything at least