I think I just got a r**e threat from my boyfriend?

[Anonymous]

My boyfriend and i were joking around on Snapchat and somehow the topic turned sexual, wherein he asked me to come visit him. I said no and he said, "Who's even asking u? Whenever i feel like having s*x we'll do it. " Was that basically a r**e threat? Or I'm just overthinking?

[OlderAndWiser]

I would not view that as a threat but as a disrespectful statement and a reason to find a new boyfriend.

[Smoke-n-Growls]

Nope, that's a rape threat.

Screenshot it, double check he wasn't joking, and consider leaving if you feel unsafe.

Withdraw sexually and begin distancing yourself, then dump him. When he asks why, show the threat.

If he makes it clear it's a threat he intends to act on, immediately and pre-emptively go to the police, your parents, the school, and your friends with that screenshot.

[Spotifyplaylist]

Back it up turbo...

There's two ways this could go...

1. He's kidding aka he said that dumb shit to make it sound 'sexy' and 'dominant' and didn't mean it that way.

OR

2. He was seriously saying that he might do something or in a way about how he 'owns' you or maybe now I'm over thinking. Also, you have to think has he ever said something like this before or shown some kind of aggressiveness.

[Th3ft]

keyword you said there was joking. Chill. And if you can’t trust your boyfriend then you need to get out of that relationship ASAP either because you are a time bomb waiting to go off or because he is.

[Th3ft]

Thanks!

[Yu-Mi]

Depends on the tone he said it. But since u guys were joking so don't take it too seriously. Some men likes to dom for absolutely no reason, ig it makes them feel good. But u r too young n if u don't knw the guy that well dont go there

[Gent207]

Your boyfriend sounds entitled and like he only wants you for your body

[Shamalien]

Like another guy said it’s probs some dumb shit he read online that he thinks will make you hot or something. Tell him you aren’t into it. This is a good time to get mad tbh, he really crossed a line

[Asker]

I meant that we were doing random chats, but when he asked me to come over and i said no, he said this. I don't know if he was trying to be sexy or was actually serious

[boggboss]

Overthinking on him essentially trying ro be dominating

[Asker]

I'm not trying to be dominating

[spartan55]

You are overthinking, but your boyfriend is a major dick.

[Fireguy17]

That's not a good thing, it sounds like he isn't respecting you and your decisions when it comes to having sex.

[DarkWinterNights]

Probably following some dumb dating advice he found online. Put some boundaries down and dump him if he can’t accept your terms.

[fonduegirl]

What an arrogant prick. It's okay to say it even as a joke. Who the fuck does he think he is?

[Bmories99]

Odd that he doesn't care about your feelings or desires. I would say you have seen his true colors.

[TheBigGuy9]

I wouldn’t go over there if I were you. That’s over the top. I wouldn’t take it as a threat, but I would drop him quick.

[JohnK123]

Under 18….. don’t date until ur like 16-17 MAYBEEE

[Asker]

I'm 17 lol

[JohnK123]

And how old is he

[Alcoholic_Wannabe]

What's this pedantic crap?

[Asker]

He's 17 too

[Alcoholic_Wannabe]

He's trying to Dom without having the slightest clue of what it means.

[Lottifan]

He could have been joking or he could have been serious. It’s not worth taking the risk.

[Anonymous]

Sounds rapey to me, Defiantly a red flag. Honestly I would avoid this person

[slatyb]

Take literally that was a threat. Dump him.

[Asker]

A r... Threat?

[Celticwolf78]

Yes time to get rid of the crazy ass

[Anonymous]

You are over thinking

[In_Trance]

overthinking

[enocheli]

hhahaha lol

[Anonymous]

Overthinking