This guy I met on a dating site took me on a couple dates but was extremely inconsistent so I told him about it. He just left me on read. He asked for a second chance months and tried to change his behavior and he did change. It was great. He took me to hang w his friends and he said he had a great time. We later went to have dinner w his sister and brother in law. Things were going well. He soon went back to being inconsistent. It was better than it was the first time but I can tell he was not going to stay that way. I felt the change and I mentioned it in a kind and loving way, telling him I really just want to get to know him and he felt like I was pressuring him. I don’t need to hang around him all the time, I’m a very busy woman but I make sure i stay consistent while dating but I would like the same. Instead of understanding he just gets upset. I feel we don’t even know each other, he seemed so interested to learn me and then stopped caring. He invited me to a party he had but I didn’t show and told him that I couldn’t go, I felt like it wasn’t a good idea how things were going. He sent me a mean text. We acted like nothing happened after. One day he texted me good morning after a long while of inconsistent text and saying he would call and not doing it, so I said “what’s up” hours later. It was my first day at a new job so I was very busy. He just laughed at it and I never heard from him again. He posted on Instagram that he wants to find someone who is not a distraction and I was just so hurt. I told him the only thing I ever wanted from you was just to get to know you, i let you back in bc you promised me changed behavior. He didn’t respond. I just don’t know if it’s me, I want to know so I don’t run anyone away. I want to be a wife and mother so badly in the future.
Did I run him away?
