I would forgive her, she's worth way more than a car, can i hug my car? Can i kiss my car? Can i make love to a machine? No! I wish someday i get a girlfriend so i can treat her like royalty
Nope. Girlfriend in her place and car in her place. Both are priorities for me. But depending on the girl, I will change them. By default, the car will be my priority. Because she would never betray me. I maintain her, overlook her maintenance carefully. Everything. She would never betray me.
@Agape93 You are straightforward and practical! Very good parameters! Much needed today.
But what you said is exactly what I was about to write again. The 80 20 insurance ratio. 20% needs to be paid by the owners.
Her boyfriend should make her pay for it. People need to pay the price for them to not do the same deed again.
In her case, she ignored the planned evening and went on her alone. You should stick to what you say. Plus, her boyfriend would have gotten the hang of it once he saw the distance later.
Well his first reaction should be to make sure you’re okay. A car is material can always be replaced. Of course would be bummed which is expected but you’re more important.
First off. If it is not your don't take it. I don't even like borrowing stuff. I would just tell him the whole story. He will be pissed but he'll get over it. It could have happened to him just as easy.
She totaled my first 1967 Mustang and then lied about how it happened (NO ONE flips a car and takes out 6 steal fence posts doing 30 miles an hour).
We were engaged at the time. We were not that next day.
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This wouldn't happen because I would never let her drive my car. Having said that this what insurance is for. Please tell me you're insured. Then I would say "what's done is done and at least you're alright".
You probably shouldn't make those assumptions. I've had my car run into by 3 different women 3 times in one year. That wouldn't be so weird except that my car was parked (yes normally and legally). So IF I was saying women can't drive I'd have a good reason for saying that based on experience. But no I wasn't saying that. No one drives my car but me. It has nothing to do with the fact that she's a woman.
That depends entirely on how sorry she looks, whether it was her fault and how she's planning to pay for it. I would also want her to bring up the payment right away.
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I would forgive her, she's worth way more than a car, can i hug my car? Can i kiss my car? Can i make love to a machine? No! I wish someday i get a girlfriend so i can treat her like royalty
Nope. Girlfriend in her place and car in her place.
Both are priorities for me. But depending on the girl, I will change them. By default, the car will be my priority. Because she would never betray me.
I maintain her, overlook her maintenance carefully. Everything. She would never betray me.
Insurance will handle it but she be paying the extra needed to cover the rate increase
Gosh
Gosh what?
No cash
Then she best get the money.
You're mean
Your point?
Think forgiveness
I'll forgive once she pays for the higher rates she now made me have after ruining my car.
@Agape93
You are straightforward and practical! Very good parameters! Much needed today.
But what you said is exactly what I was about to write again. The 80 20 insurance ratio. 20% needs to be paid by the owners.
Her boyfriend should make her pay for it. People need to pay the price for them to not do the same deed again.
In her case, she ignored the planned evening and went on her alone. You should stick to what you say.
Plus, her boyfriend would have gotten the hang of it once he saw the distance later.
Exactly
just a vehicle no big deal are you ok great
Good I’ll need your car for the next month lol
If that happened I‘d blame myself for being stupid enough to let a woman drive my car.
Like a woman can't drive? What an insult
Says the woman who just crashed a car lol.
I didn't crash it. It was parked. Some idiot jammed it. Gosh
Ah ok, so you didn’t ruin it then, someone else did.
Whatever
Well his first reaction should be to make sure you’re okay. A car is material can always be replaced. Of course would be bummed which is expected but you’re more important.
First off. If it is not your don't take it. I don't even like borrowing stuff. I would just tell him the whole story. He will be pissed but he'll get over it. It could have happened to him just as easy.
Thanks
Expect the worst. Damaging a man's car is worse than kicking him in the nuts. This is the exact reason why I never let anyone drive my car.
apparently im not supposed to answer questions anymore, because "i get yelled at for my answers", when i know im right, and they're wrong
Lolz. Please speak your mind
Righttttt
She totaled my first 1967 Mustang and then lied about how it happened (NO ONE flips a car and takes out 6 steal fence posts doing 30 miles an hour).
We were engaged at the time. We were not that next day.
This wouldn't happen because I would never let her drive my car. Having said that this what insurance is for. Please tell me you're insured. Then I would say "what's done is done and at least you're alright".
Like a woman can't drive? that's insulting
You probably shouldn't make those assumptions. I've had my car run into by 3 different women 3 times in one year. That wouldn't be so weird except that my car was parked (yes normally and legally). So IF I was saying women can't drive I'd have a good reason for saying that based on experience. But no I wasn't saying that. No one drives my car but me. It has nothing to do with the fact that she's a woman.
I would be more concerned about the way you handled the accident. Hard to believe the whole story without a police report.
I would be worried more if she got injured in the process. If it really was so important to me I would not let her drive it in the first place.
If it is insured and someone hit you, you don't have to pay for it.
That depends entirely on how sorry she looks, whether it was her fault and how she's planning to pay for it. I would also want her to bring up the payment right away.
Won't his insurance cover it? Or are you not meant to be driving it?
What is a "priced car"? You mean high-priced?
Yea. Exactly
No matter what anyone says here that they'll say if you are alright not worry etc...
Trust me the guy will be pissed as hell. Honest opinion
I'd be confused as to why I had a pricey car to begin with.
It was the worst feeling... I paid for my car bills.. Hospital bills.. Etc. I was so so angry. It happened last month
You have more problems (that's plural) than just a damaged car.
Start with insurance. Be prepared for empty wallet and ended relationship.