If you girlfriend damaged your car what would you do and say? was what I said ok?

I let my girlfriend borrow my car and she came back with the front damaged. Somehow she hit a pole while attempting to park. I got mad and call her a stupid blonde that shouldn't drive and then she got all emotional and saying sorry many times. I don't know what to do now. She said she will try to find the money to fix it but im getting an estimate tomorrow for it. I'm just dissapointed in her.

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  • I think you should apologize.
    And look this may make your relationship stronger if you can get through this bro. I mean I would make up with her. Cars are replaceable people aren't. I mean she obviously feels and and you do to. Seem a like a good guy. If I were you...
    Well it's like this if you show her you love her still and are still nice to her and stuff bro she already feels bad. I mean ya a few thousand dollars. Use charity money for it. I mean a broken heart irepearable. A broken fender that you can fix. If I were you I would take her out to dinner and stuff
    Cuz she is already upset about and I wonder if in a way she is more upset about than you are.
    Look bro this is your chance to shine. True love glows in the dark. And if you get through this... you can get through anything good luck

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    • i already apologized 3 times. I really am sorry. seeing her cry made me sad after the fact i got mad. She promised to pay for the damages. i will treat her to dinner tomorrow

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    • I mean happily ever after

    • Oh ok lol. thanks

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  • What you said wasn't really ok. I mean tell her you're sorry but make sure she pays for at least half the price. What car is it?

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    • I guess i can and a 2009 335i coupe

    • ohhh my :$ yeah that might be like $1000+ about, if it is bad. I hope she does at least pay for half or 3/4... work something out with her :) Goodluck bro!!!

    • At least $1000 to just replace the bumper. Are you reporting it to insurance? What's your deductible?

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  • I'd pay for the damages and then dump you. I hope she has the sense to do the same. You shouldn't speak to someone you care about like that. It's just a fucking car. She didn't run over your mom.

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    • Good at least he would a new car.

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    • No. Look at my comment on this.

    • @KramivViolin @cankles @kakrahiri I realized i made a mistake by saying that and i said i was sorry 3 times. I was really mad and i understand the mistake i have done.

  • You shouldn't EVER insult someone on a personal level. You can show her that you're upset at her because of her ACTIONS, but by getting down to a personal level you make it seem like she is the problem... put yourself in her shoes and realize that she is trying to help and that she is seriously sorry. Let her pay for half of it and apologize.

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    • i already apologized 3 times. I really am sorry. seeing her cry made me sad after the fact i got mad. She promised to pay for the damages

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    • yes i will for sure. What i did was an asshole move. She is more important

    • Listen, in a relationship we all have our ups and downs and when you're able to resolve those problems and put them behind it shows how healthy, strong, and good your relationship is :)

  • It was a dick move of her to damage your car, I'd be pissed unless it was an accident.
    But it was also a dick move of you to call her a stupid blonde.
    I'd definitely pay the damages if I was the one that did that, but I think the relationship would go downhill because I won't be spoken too like that by anyone.

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    • i already apologized 3 times. I really am sorry. seeing her cry made me sad after the fact i got mad. She promised to pay for the damages. I was mad and never should of said that

    • Good on you :) Shitty situation for both of you to be in :P

  • As a girl who LOVES cars, I can totally understand your anger and frustration. HOWEVER, dude its just a car, and I'm sure it was hard enough on her to mess it up. Saying what you did was a bit harsh, and I recommend telling her sorry once your anger has passed. Now you as a guy, I know y'all cherish your cars and tell her any help to make it better is appreciated just like she is. I'm sure it can all be worked out.

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    • I did say sorry to her today and i will make it up to her (that i said she was a dumb blonde). She said she would pay for it also.

    • Good good :) I'm glad all worked out for you. Best of luck to you guys in the future.

  • Of course you would get mad. Maybe its too harsh to call her stupid blonde. Should apologise and say i went out of line, i got mad etc. If she didn't get upset or didn't say sorry too many times, she doesn't care.
    Apologise and say you were disappointed. Don't know what to say about the bill being paid. How long you two been together? I believe the 'you break it, you pay for it.'

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    • she was crying. I did also say sorry today. I told her to try and pay it full and she said yes

  • Insulting someone is never the right thing to do. Instead of asking her if she was okay you were more worried about your car. Material things are always replaceable

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    • She was ok and I did also say sorry today. I told her to try and pay it full and she said yes

    • As are humans, so your logic is inaccurate.

  • You only care about your stupid car, and only preoccupied about making sure she pays you back for the damage. You can apologize all you want, but you can't take your words back, and the way you keep badgering her about paying for it really says a lot about you. She sounds really sweet, but I hope she sees you for what you are, now, and exits the relationship as soon as she settles up with you. You really don't deserve her.

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    • i seen your above comment and i wanted to say i already apologized 3 times. I really am sorry. seeing her cry made me sad after the fact i got mad. She promised to pay for the damages. I also said i would take her out for dinner. I was mad and that go too me. She is a sweet girl and it would such if she ever did leave me. I love my car but she is more important than a material object

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    • Just one more thing: Forgive her. REALLY forgive her.

    • i did, i feel ok with myself and calm now. I do feel bad i said those things to her. i won't ever do it again

  • Ok, well, you probably shouldn't have said what you did, and you know it. It's certainly understandable though, and I'd be furious too. You said something nasty in anger, and that's pretty normal. You didn't hit her, or get violent, so an apology should be all that is required for that.
    It was obviously an accident, so I do hope you can forgive her. She does need to pay to repair the damage though. At least most of it, if not all of it. It was her fault, after all.

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    • i already apologized 3 times. I really am sorry. seeing her cry made me sad after the fact i got mad. She promised to pay for the damages

  • This is why i don't drive his car lol my car is nothing compare to him so he can drive anytime and damage it lol i'd be more concerned if he got hurt from the damage he made. But that's just me lol people value material goods differently. But my man comes first.

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    • I told her i was sorry 3 times and that she meant more to me then my car and i should of not acted that way

  • That was super douchie. Are you telling me you've never made a mistake? What if someone called you a stupid pile of cum gather and told you that you shouldn't be living? You should have taken it better and told her that you love her clumsiness but she would have to pay for it, but not at once. That you understand mistakes happen. She's only human. Let her pay it in payments. I did this to my boyfriends F250 and he treated me just as I've described and I payed for it and everything went well. It would've just made things worse if he started being really mean. A dinted car can be fixed, you hurting her like that can never be taken back.

    Good luck. Just watch your words. They can hurt.

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    • it's a bit more than a dent, I told her i was sorry for the blonde joke and sorry for making her cry more yesterday. She said she would pay for full and i'm really surprised caused she was like "are you going to break up with me?" Why would she say that? This isn't to the point of breaking up,

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    • well you have no right to call her a stupid blonde

    • @Bea123 @Sdavis2604 I will make it up to her because i called her a dumb blonde. Seeing her cry really made me sad. I will forsure say sorry again tomorrow.

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  • I'd tell her "I can always buy a new car, but I can't buy a new you. I'm glad you're okay".

    You verbally attacked someone you care about because they ACCIDENTALLY damaged a material possession of yours.

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  • I would've been upset too, but insulting the person you love is uncalled for. Accidents happen, and getting angry and calling her names was both unnecessary and disrespectful.

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  • I certainly wouldn't berate her like you've done. That's a dick head move on your part.

    I'm a relaxed person and I understand that accidents happen. Also, I'd care more about HER well being than my car - - a material possession.

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  • I would shout at her, but i wouldn't call her names. Although if she got bitchy and say she wouldn't pay the damages then i would have to sue her.

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    • I told her i was sorry 3 times and that she meant more to me then my car and i should of not acted that way

    • @Asker Well if it makes you feel happy. I wouldn't do that until she would pay for the damages.

  • It happened to my wife and to me. It never got any of us mad.

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    • I told her i was sorry 3 times and that she meant more to me then my car and i should of not acted that way

  • if she was my girlfriend... she'd be the kinda person offer to pay/help out w/o me asking.

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  • you're kind of a douche...

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  • She won't pay to fix it. Shit happens and it's only money but women sure love to destroy a man's vehicles.

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    • LOL... no we don't, but we feel really bad when we do. He was wrong to berate her, though. If it were my situation, I would offer to pay the deductible, then I would get out of the relationship and leave him to be alone with his precious car, which he obviously cares more for than me. Only girls and douchebags drive BMW's, anyway.

    • @cankles Ha Beamers are nice ass cars. Yeah I would and have numerous times had girlfriends wreck my car and I never freaked out too bad or called the idiots idiots although I wanted to. I guarantee you she won't pay anything or much on this guys car.

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