Girlfriend said please don't hurt me ?

[Anonymous]

Been dating this girl for a month and at the end of our very fun evenings and conversations she says please don't hurt me what does this mean, I have heard her say this in three separate conversations, meaning?

[Anonymous]

well it can mean two things one emotionally and other physically.

physical hurting: if she is asking you not to hurt her and if she is talking physically then it can possibly mean that she was earlier in an abusive relationship. if she haven't talked about it to you then most probably she haven't been in one and she is asking you not to hurt her emotionally.

ok first and foremost, you guys generally treat girls as trash you guys even don't know how ro keep your girl happy. physically hurting someone stands no where in front of hurting someone emotionally. might be she is an emotional girl who trusts people easily that's why only dating you for one month she is trying to finding emotional satisfaction with you. somewhere she is emotionally attached with you and only want you to love her and not hurt her feelings by anyways(cheating and stuff small fights are ok). so now its your call to decide what type of "HURT" she was talking about.

[Anonymous]

she's afraid you might hurt her: physically or emotionally...or both

it could mean a number of things:

1) she's falling for you and is afraid you're not having the same feelings. so, if you break up or whatever she'll feel pretty bad.

2) she's been in an abusive relationship: her ex treated her like sh** and even maybe physically hurt her. a way of telling is if she flinches/tenses up when you get close to her, you know, people usually become tense when they feel threatened/in danger. you'll have to go with your gut there

my advice: next time she says 'plz don't hurt me', reassure her and ask her exactly what she means.

hope this helped!

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tks!

[Anonymous]

I don't think she means physically. She has probably gotten close to guys before and then they break her heart so she may have some trust issues. She is worried you will be the same way.

[madhatters4]

it means she's afraid (particularly has she feels more and more emotionally close to you) you may break her heart. She's probably been hurt in the past. It's fair for her to make this request although at some point she has to take the leap of faith and not repeat this phrase forever.

you should just let her know you have no intentions of hurting her but that she also doesn't not need to bring this up over and over again

[KingsOfleon88]

It means that she doesn't want you to throw her away like yesterday's trash.

[KingsOfleon88]

or hurt her, as in being unfaithful. Because it sounds like she is starting to fall for you.

[Anonymous]

Means she's really starting to like you and is afraid of getting hurt.