Would you be embarrassed if your old car wouldn't start? Would you girls still like a guy if this happened?

[Anonymous]

I really like this girl and offered her a ride home but my car took some time to start. I was quite emabrrsed but she didn't say anything, the only thing is i think she seen me a bit worrried and she said "aww it's ok". I feel like i dont want to drive her home cause this will happen again and i don't have the money to fix it for now.

She's a very cute girl and i was wondering if my car is crap will that not attract her? i'm shy but i got the courage to talk to her and this car this is an obsticle right now.

[Johnson123]

Hey man,

If she truly loves you she won't care about your car. Do try and fix it because the problems might get worse haha, (i know from personal experience). But she won't care about your car, you can even try and turn it into a laugh or maybe get her to help you ;)

Try and make it seem like it's not a big deal (which it isn't). Look if she stills like you for you and wants to be with you, dont worry about the car, if she doesn't bring it up you have nothing to worry about man. Hope this helps.

[Asker]

thanks man i needed that :)

[detlef]

If she's worth it as a long-term partner, then no, the car don't mean shit. This kind of situation is ALWAYS embarrassing, though, totally. Just gotta laugh it off.

And keep in mind, it happens to everyone at some point, whether you're driving a Hooptie or a Lexus.

Good opportunity for a mood-lightening remark. "I planned this actually. Now we'll have to spend the night here, I guess. I mean, if that's okay with you. Here in the car. It's the alternator. Very easy to disable."

[Asker]

thanks, maybe i could say something like that

[complicated_soul]

Lol, I find it cute and funny.

Yeah, I would still like him.❤

[Asker]

thanks :) i'm shy and this made me self contous. But hearing this for you and the other people made me feel a bit better.

I was trying to impress her and I don't know if she noticed me getting nervous but i said "i'm so sorry about this", then she was like "awww it's ok". How would you find it cute and funny if you dont mind me asking?

[complicated_soul]

Because of your nervousness.

I don't know how to explain. Sorry 💔

I just find it really cute.

Apologizing afterwards is even more cute😊

[Asker]

it's ok. i even texted her again to say sorry that my car is so crap then she was like "awww, no worries, i'm going to nickname your car "the little engine that could" <3 " Is that a ok text by her? do you still find this cute lol? I mean my face got kinda red when my car wouldn't start and again cause i wanted to get her home with no issues.

[complicated_soul]

Haha, dude relax. Yes that was a great text from her.

Don't apologize anymore.

:)

Just smile at the memory.😊😊

And yes! I still find it cute, lol💕

[Asker]

Ok, thanks for all your help :)

[complicated_soul]

Thank you for MHO😊

[Asker]

np :)

[lifes_curve_ball]

If she truly likes you then it won't matter, if she was just using you for rides it would. I wouldn't be embarrassed though, just laugh it off and don't let it burden you. For the future though you can carry a small battery to jump it, unless it's a more serious problem of course. You can save money by fixing it yourself.

You can offer her a ride again, don't be worried.

[Asker]

i'm guess spark plugs or something, it gets worse everyday lol, but i don't have the money now cause i'm not working and away from home. But i will have to get it fixed soon

[lifes_curve_ball]

Oh, well especially for an easy fix pay attention if you see anyone with the same car as you that they're junking cause of a bad accident or anything. Then just go ask if you can take that small piece since it's going junk anyways or offer them like $5 lol

[Asker]

yeah i try to find the cheapest way lol, i got some other parts from a junkyard at the start, my alternator went and i got a used one from there