Why do we always go after people who satisfy our ego?

[sofia444]

Tbh i feel like most people date or get in a relationship to get the validation they seek subconsciously.

[Kaneki05]

Huh? What person would get with someone who don't validate them in someway? Wouldn't that be illogical as you would just get with someone who never makes you feel good.
There is a extreme end of problems that come from seeking to much validation to the point of unhealthy relationships and putting yourself into them but a healthy amount of validation never hurt anyone.
Most people seek relationships for affection and validation that's kinda the point of it, that does make it automatically unhealthy.

[Kaneki05]

doesn't*

[Smoke-n-Growls]

That seems pretty normal.

I mean, I don't know about other people, but I like when my partners make me feel good?

I seek validation from my friends occasionally if I feel I need it, but I also listen to their feedback if they tell me something isn't right.

If someone's got an unhealthy ego, tho, I see how that's a problem.

While I value receiving validation, I value receiving honesty more.

[TallAnon]

Cuz they smart 😁