Would you give a chance for physical attraction to grow in someone you are not very attracted to?

[Anonymous]

I started dating someone and I really like them a lot as a person, we’re compatible, great conversation, have fun, just a wonderful human. I am not particularly attracted to him and I really wish I was. I want to see if the attraction can grow but I also don’t want to break both our hearts if it can’t…

what would you do?

[Anonymous]

Yep. With my last boyfriend I wasn’t really attracted to him initially. I thought he was cute and okay looking but I wouldn’t jump into bed at the sight of him. His personality made me fall for him but tbh I wasn’t really sexually attracted to him. Sometimes it gets frustrating bc I felt like such a shitty shallow person even though he’s the best boyfriend I’ve ever had. I think I hurt his feelings when I asked him to start gaining some more weight by going to the gym with me (he was super skinny, underweight) and I started buying him clothes that I usually find attractive in a guy…

[defnotraemie]

I did this once before, it didn’t end well. He became suicidal and I blamed myself for it all the time. If I could go back, I would’ve loved him in every way other than romantically.

[Guy13]

Yes. I have a 3 date rule before I can substantiate Friend. At the very least from Friend it will either go friend zone or relationship zone. I’m no expert BUT it seems to be a common sense sort of outlook. 🤷🏻‍♂️🤷🏻‍♂️🤷🏻‍♂️ No Expert…

[Rockstarrrrr]

I don't think that's possible... It's probably forced... You either find them physically attractive from the get go or not...

[Jamie05rhs]

Just be honest and tell him you're not attracted but you're giving him a chance, and that there are no guarantees.

[Anonymous]

Have a secret sexual relationship who feel your needs in sex...

[Moonshae]

no. its a whole package for me.