Is it rude to ask someone that your dating to stop at the store and get a 2 liter of coke or a bottle of wine?

[annie6815]

He told me this is rude and he also told me that I should have dinner ready and people should not have to wait an hour

[BullShark]

Honestly, it's him who's being the rude one here, not you. If my girlfriend and I were meeting at her place for a movie date night, I'd naturally bring some Pepsi or Coke or whatever other soda she likes and some munchies before she'd even have to ask me to, or just surprise her. Even if she had dinner already planned and ready, it's not like she doesn't have a fridge where we can keep the stuff for later.

And on the flipside, if it were my place and she would ask me if we needed anything else and she could bring it on her way over, normally I'd already have it under control but if for some reason I forgot or had my hands tied, I'd let her and I'm pretty sure she wouldn't mind either. That's how a healthy relationship works. These are the tiny little unsaid things you do that make all the difference.

The fact that he said something like this proves what sort of a toxic and selfish person this guy is and how he doesn't really care about you to be saying such hurtful things. A relationship is meant to be a two-way thing. Maybe have a talk with him and sort things out.

@anon1903 would you like to add something to this, love? You'd probably have some good points too.

[MTC29]

You're at home and cooking dinner and find nothing to drink is in the house. He's on his way home, so asking him to pickup beverages seems perfectly normal to me.

[Aerissa_Jade]

Say what? My man when dating would stop and bring me home tequila, rum, or whatever... and COKE to go with the rum. He'd have to make multiple stops for all of that.

I do not think that is rude at all, if he loves and cares about you.

[kylee2437]

If he has the expectation of you making dinner- he definitely shouldn’t be coming empty handed. He sounds like a free loader - run while you can.

[Shayyyy1]

Girl, he ain't looking for dating he looking for a servant to boss around. It's a simple request its nothing hard or he has to go that much out of the way. He thinks food just materialises like that out of nowhere if he can't wait he makes it himself.

[fonduegirl]

This 💯

[Anonymous]

Lol get rid of him red flags everywhere. POS should at least bring something to the dinner besides his entitlement. It’s only rude to a dipshit.

[annie6815]

Even if he's taken me out numerous times and paid?

[Opinion Owner]

He doesn’t sound like a good person. I mean if he can’t even stop to get a bottle of soda than what else isn’t he willing to do when it comes to bigger things. How many dates have you been on w this person? Also to tell you that people shouldn’t wait for an hour for their food. Unless you’re working in a restaurant people should wait if it takes a little while to cook. I mean damn you’re cooking he should be glad, rather than giving you lip about it.

[fonduegirl]

The question details imply he's a sexist pig

[annie6815]

I think I agree, can you explain why?

[fonduegirl]

The dinner part mostly ticked me off

[TrueConfection]

I'd be sure to leave for the store just as he's arriving. 👿

[Drumlin2001]

Asking him to pick something up from store is reasonable. He has a point bout dinner, unless you've specified it would be ready later in.

[Avicenna]

No, it's normal to bring something like that when you're a guest for dinner

[Anonymous]

No. This guy sounds like a walking red flag. I’d dump him.

[worldscolide]

Guy sounds like a dick head. I'd happily do that, it is not rude.

[Waldoe]

he sounds like a jerk, what does he think you are? his "Maid"?

[zagor]

No, not if he is coming over anyway. Sounds like time to reconsider.

[Anonymous]

Well if it is, he's being just as rude if not more so.

[Chazmatazz269]

It’s not rude to ask, but it is rude to expect.

[annie6815]

So... he took me out and paid for dinner a few times. I told him it's my turn to pay for dinner and it cost 84$.. and then I also made 2 home cooked meals for him... I wanted to be nice and I don't really think most girls would do this, I could be wrong

[spartan55]

How would he be waiting an hour?

[annie6815]

I started dinner right before he arrived and it was done in an hour so , he watched tv while I was cooking it

[spartan55]

What a dick... smh

[annie6815]

I agree

[Wise4myage]

Only if they are rude in the way they asked.

[annie6815]

No I wasn't rude

[slatyb]

Not at all. He’s an ass. Dump him.

[FunkyMonkee]

No, but him bitching about it is (so to speak)!

[TheSpaceGnome]

Fighting over trivial shit is stupid.

[ArtemisSilver]

He sounds like a cunt.

[Jamie05rhs]

No; it's not rude at all.

[nawtee_me]

find someone else

[EaterPeter]

Depends. It can be rude.

[EaterPeter]

Thanks for like!

[Slim57]

Nah lol I've been asked that it's no problem

[Charliefretz329]

Not at all rude

[panamared1]

he is an ass