I’m scared to sleep with him because all his ex’s were fit and I’m 30lbs overweight. Should I leave him?

[Anonymous]

[KBird]

No! I mean... unless he makes remarks and makes you feel bad about yourself.

30lbs overweight is not bad, means you got some womanly curves. he's lucky to be with you! If he doesn't like it then he can get lost. But if he is making advances and is attracted to you, then rock his world! (if you want). :)

[finesxed_j]

nah because if y'all wanted to sleep with eachother in the first place means he is aware of ur weight n if he still wants to sleep with u means he doesn't care about that and he should weight, height, race etc shouldn't matter if you truly like/love someone n plus those r his exes dont gaf u r better than his exes hence y ur his girl n they aren't

[Anonymous]

Yes, do him a favor. He likes you but you are considering dumping him over your own security, so get lost and allow him to find a better, confident woman.

[Asker]

I mean I know I shouldn’t make that choice for him as in if he’s attracted to me there’s no need for me to leave but I’m not convinced. He’s fit we actually met in a gym but he did tell me his ex’s were raging alcoholics and drug users despite looking thin maybe he just doesn’t go for girls bc of their body types anymore

[Jessica405]

Think! Exe's! Fit! But they are EXE's!

You may be just what he wants!

[Sparkie460]

If he likes you why would you leave him? He apparently doesn't care about the excess weight. He likes you for who you are

[USLegionary]

Yes. Obesity is immoral and bad for the environment

[In_Trance]

This is retarded

[Anonymous]

Were all your ex the same physically? Confidence is sexy!

[Jamie05rhs]

Extreme impulsive action: break up.

OR

Simple solution: go on a diet.

[Jamie05rhs]

Go ahead and downvote me. But that isn't going to help you or improve your situation.

I'm telling you the truth. I'm just trying to help you here.

[EaterPeter]

He is with you for now, isn't he? Enjoy the journey. F*** the exes. I mean don't. 🙃

[dudeinohio]

You do not leave him. You pursue a relationship.

[Wise4myage]

That makes no sense.

[Anonymous]

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