Are all engineer boyfriends like this?

[Anonymous]

Hello everyone. So I just dated this guy for almost four months now. We met online, from the first and second month we're talking everyday consistently. Yet from third to fourth month, he only messaged me ONCE A WEEK saying he's busy traveling.

He's an engineer consultant by the way. I just wanted to ask if this is normal for an engineering consultant to be so busy that he forgets me all week? Does he really see me as someone important in his life if he do this?

[IAteTwoFullHams]

No, they're not all like that.

But guys multitask less than women do. A lot of the time, when we're working, we're working. We aren't flirting, we aren't socializing, we're working.

So even if we technically have the time to message, it's not where our head's at. This is work time.

[Ironic_Method]

Not all, but certain jobs do require a LOT of traveling. Like consulting.

[In_Trance]

I don't think it has anything to do with his job per se; he just doesn't feel the way you do

[Guy13]

I do not know. What does your gut tell you?

[Avicenna]

It’s possible