Do you ever feel like everyone is undateable?

[Anonymous]

I do a lot. No one is perfect. But every pretty girl I meet has some kind of red flag. The nicest girls I’ve met always are taken.

I got turned off a lot from first glance by what women wear. A lot of girls these days wear really revealing/slutty clothing with their boobs popping out etc. It’s rare to find a classy girl

Pic for example

Yes I feel similar

No I don’t relate

[SueShe]

Yes, that is the impression I get. The reason is that in my age group, men tend to only think of the one thing and that is a huge turn-off to me.

I am not dating nor am I interested in dating because of that problem. I don't say that men in general are undateable but their mind is. To me, a person that has a nice character, good intellect and an honest personality would be the person that I would want to date. Unfortunately, I have made the experience that those men in the age group 16-30 are usually ruled by their hormones and it shows.

When you have a casual conversation, somehow, the topic invariably starts revolving around lewd topics that are on their mind, about dirty jokes, cursing and swearing. It seems to me that people in general have lost the decency that was so highly praised in the 60s and 70s of the last century.

It is a shame and those kind of behaviors are the reason why I don't want to date. It is unfortunate that youth has taken the wrong turn. Now, I am again not pretending that all people fit that description but unfortunately a very high majority of them.

[mmaaaa]

no one is perfect, but there are girls out there who fit your standard. she'll come along eventually

[Anonymous]

Maybe in a sense. I don't think they're undateable per se. I think most women really want a relationship bad enough to put forth the effort REQUIRED to have a healthy relationship. I think most women are parasites. They move from guy to guy. Get what they feel they need. And them move on to another guy.

[IAteTwoFullHams]

Nah. Everyone's kinda fucked up, but then again, so am I. Love is just fucked up people doing a little better because they're together.

And I like it when women look sexy, because, y'know, it's pleasing to the eye.

[Avicenna]

Well, you're not going to find the perfect woman in all likelihood. Just make sure the dealbreakers you have are realistic ones.

[In_Trance]

No I don't