What are 35+ women's choices when dating?

[Anonymous]

I'm curious for all the 35-45 single women who want a committed relationship what are our choices in the dating game? I've been single for 5 years, haven't even found another to date longer than a month because most don't want to commit. Also both people have to choose eachother I'm the dating game. I'm at a loss. Off n on dating apps for many years, finally quit that. What type of quality men will want to settle down with a 35+ single women, who has NO Kids either.

[Fireguy17]

They are out there.
Being a former single guy, in and out of relationships most of my life, I was married at a young age, divorced shortly after, then spent most of my adult life single, I met someone on line, we were both on e harmony, and it worked.
We have a bit of an age difference, she is 9 years younger, something that was not a prerequisite, I did also date women older than myself, and we have been married now for not quite 4 years.
It took a lot of looking, many bad first dates, but we found each other.
My suggestion would be to try 1 of the better dating sites that you have to pay to be on.
I found that most people are more serious about being in a relationship than just hooking up.
Other sites like its just lunch, I think it's called silver singles, sites like that.
Let your intentions be known that you are looking to be in a relationship, and ask them the same thing.
We are adults.
You shouldn't be afraid to answer questions like that.
If they are, or tend to hedge about it, time to move on.
Find the right person is a lot of work, almost like a job.
It rarely happens like a hallmark movie.
Good luck, he is out there somewhere.

[likelyOK]

Agreed and my partner is 10 years younger

[Avicenna]

Since you don't have any kids, you should have lots of options as long as you don't have huge student debts. Consider guys 45 and older who are in good shape and active- that will widen your dating pool, and quality guys my age are more than happy to settle down with a quality woman still in her 30s. Quality men in their 30s can easily date women in their 20s, so they are less likely to settle down with a woman in her late 30s.

[Asker]

Thank you!!! I agree. No Student debt either. I'm curvy fit and attractive I'm just more introverted and shy. I want a high quality man that wants to build together ❤️

[Avicenna]

You should not have any trouble at all, but I do think a somewhat older guy would appreciate you more.

[Avicenna]

It's good that you know what you want.

[Asker]

Thanks.😃

[likelyOK]

It may depend on the guys ur going for and sorry to say looks play into it a lot. Plus if he wants kids he may feel like you’re a bad gamble women are having kids older now but it could be a gamble. Usually more financially stable he is the more likely he’ll be o to a relationship.

[Asker]

Thank you. Yes some guys like curves some don't. Being healthy is more important than being thin.😍

[FriendlyDrugDealer]

Well, I think they are still desired but I think they need to define what they want from life. If they want a family or a career, they should just chase what makes them happy internally


I personally prefer to date women who are my age or older but I love a woman with a purpose regardless of age.

[Berethor]

It's when women hit the wall, good that she not a single mom but she might not have kids ever.

[Anonymous]

It's really all dependent on her and how picky she is. @35+ there's a lot of wear on them tires. But so many women today @35+ still demand showroom treatment 🤣.