What do you believe makes a high value man and a high value woman?

[ShadezMcgee]

Feel free to define what you think makes men or women high value, no restrictions on staying to your gender alone.

[DizzyDesii]

High value to me is just meeting what I want in a guy. I learn the hard way that everytime I try to make exceptions, I’m unhappy. If they’re not fully what I’m looking for, I’m not gonna stay with em. And i’d rather be single than settle.

Straight/male-born male (not bi/trans), Close in age (preferably 0-3 years), 5’7-6’3, Lean to average build, Shaved or Low-cut hair, Little to no Facial Hair (unless goatee), Cute face, No hairy chest/hands, Goofy, Respectful, Sweet, Nurturing, Caring, Determined, Driven, Talkative, Good listener, Courageous, Protective, Faithful, Humble, Believes in God, Doesn't smoke ANYTHING, Hardly drinks, No piercings (unless eyebrow), No tats (but small and meaningful if so), Casual/Street/Sporty Dress Style, Nice smirk/smile, Wants kids, Virgin OR Body count under 5, Fluent in English, No interest in anal, All-genre movie/music lover, Not a huge gamer, Hardly talks politics, Not gun-crazy, Rarely sarcastic, Creative Thinker, Hopeless Romantic, doesn't have No Indoor Pets, Theme Park EnthusiastTo sum it up, I want someone with similar morals, values and interests. But I also need him to be what I find attractive in terms of both looks and personality. And I need someone knows what he wants and who has my back because I’d have his. Thats quality right there

Then again, its not hard to find these types. But its hard for them to stay what they claim to be. Maybe I should pray for someone who doesn’t pretend to be the things above just so he can keep me. Because I definitely meet a lot of fakes who eventually can't pretend anymore and their true colors start to show. I don’t exactly need an “honest” man but I need someone who is himself at all times. And if we’re not for eachother, lets part ways cause its too many options out here ya feel me

[LazerBean]

Being reliable, and kind. Everything else rests on those two things.

[anon1903]

Very very important!!

[NathanDavis]

I don't believe in such nonsense...

I am not into grading people and then label them as more or less worthy than others

and if I ever started to do that to others then I would have to do it with myself as well, and I would end up being miserable and alone, and going into all kinds of insecurity rooted issues and problems

so, nope... no thanks lol

[Avicenna]

Having no big dealbreakers and offering a lot in a relationship- great personality, being interesting, having a stable income with low debt, being in good shape.

[jennifer_bloom]

I think high value is when you combine sacrifice with compassion.

[anon1903]

I don't believe in high value people. They are just the ones raising unreasonable heights of behaviour bars that normal person can't reach. I'm not sure I wanna participate on that.

Some of my mom's friends would even call me high value or whatever. Cringe.