Yeah, I've lived this all throughout my 20s. Besides ONE good girl, all I dealt with were these kinds of women. Only difference is, $60K a year wasn't good enough; they wanted $72K+ a year. Which is earning $34.60 an hour, by the way.
Although men love harder and appreciate women far, FAR more than women appreciate us, ultimately, it is women who need us more than we need them. Especially when the power dynamic shifts in your 30s. Women's physical attractiveness peaks at 23 and they lose most of their looks by 30. Men don't reach their prime until 35-40, bare minimum. So when women turn 35, their dating prospects are all but over. When men turn 35, they're just barely now earning enough to fall into women's minimum financial criteria.
So while it can be VERY depressing for us short, less-than-Chad guys, just remember this... In the end, it's men who have the last laugh! Men age like wine, women age like milk.
So cheer up, play your video games, make your money, and learn to be happy on your own, while all the women who used to reject you will whine "Where have all the good men gone?" as their last egg drops somewhere between the ages of 38 and 43.
I’ve been following this trend for years. Men have been struggling for decades in almost all aspects of their lives. A third of men under 30 are virgins and that spread is expanding. 40 Year Old Virgin was a comedy, but it could be the norm in the not-so-distant future. The reality is the overwhelming majority of men and women will never find love and everything is going to suffer as a result. I can’t see any situation where anything changes for the better within the next generation or two. Birth rates, careers and industries, social cohesion, increase in crime and violence, etc. On the plus side, we're living through some unique and turbulent times that will be studied by historians hundreds of years from now. The sad part is most of us won’t have descendants alive then.
So are you saying women should settle for whatever’s out there? It goes both ways. Men have also standards: big tits, women below 25, 36-24-36, submissive, etc!
@Pinay_ako There's an in-between in wanting literally perfect men and settling for an unemployed loser who leeches off of you. I find it ironic that women are the ones always claiming "personality matters" the most, but then only want to end up with Chris Hemsworth and Michel B. Jorden type men, despite them as women being average-at-best looking.
In the natural world Alpha chimp pretty much does all the fucking and the sneaky ones sneak it in there on the DL. Well, that's the world we're stepping into when a woman no longer has to worry about where the money is coming from to feed herself and the babies. If the welfare or other socialist systems goes away... she's not going to be fucking around just for a good lay. But those systems ARE in play boys! She lives in a world where the basic necessities are met no matter what... the food grows on trees that are not really trees for her! So guess what? It's back to being bigger, faster, tougher, stronger, and smarter. Flex the muscles boys, and fuck that bullshit of caring about stupid feelings. You'll be the guy that gets all the pussy if you at least flex one of your abs... Yeah the standards are not that high because the bitches are all mostly big fat hog beasts. Those of you that want that emotional bond and love forever... you'll get her... eventually (after she hits the wall or when we hurt her stupid mother fucking feelings)... after we're done with her and you'll pay her bills and raise our kids with a chance of having one of your own. Congratul-fucking-lations beta bucks (cucks). You work hard and pay hard for that opportunity. You'll most likely get cheated on. One of those hog monsters might try to call me out but she's a hog monster and I didn't fuck her anyways... her high morality of never cheating is only there because she is a hog monster and never had that kind of opportunity like a average basic chick that isn't fat and looks like she took a bath.
Oh yeah that's right... I fuck super model chicks, but yeah I'll fuck a four eyed dork until her glasses fall off as long as she ain't too fat ass well. Not my fault they slam their mouth on my penis while all these dudes with jobs complain about not getting attention. Don't hate the player, hate the game.
Be smart and just know the social dynamics of the current social situation. I'm in America now where women are way overvalued just for being a woman... even though they have half the brain size of a man. Equality? She can't bench even 200lbs so fuck off with that... and cripples can't climb stairs. NOT MY PROBLEM.
Just get real or else you'll be getting played just like all these other stupid mother fuckers.
It's not a raising of standards. I think most women for a very long time have wanted an attractive, strong, competent, responsible man.
That's what those traits generally come with, but not always.
It's just that most men of dating age today have grown up not needing to care for themselves. Their mothers, sisters, and previous girlfriends have essentially raised them.
They're helpless on their own.
I don't agree on height requirements (that's not something someone can change or control effectively), but requiring a partner have a job, life skills, and lived experience is more than fair.
If men have slept on their lives and done nothing to contribute to or uplift the lives of those around them, that's on the men.
There's so many men - even on here - who don't have a job, or a hobby, or even an idea of what they want out of life.
It isn't women's fault if most men aren't capable of being a grown ass adult on their own. That's squarely with the men.
I really think you nailed pretty much hence it´s a generation of guys I´m part of that was raised without challenges in many cases, growing up in front of a screen not knowing what life is about.
I dont think the problem are the high standards by women. They need to be high since otherwise there wouldn't be a competition for men. And men are competitive creatures by nature. Somethings gotta keep the drive going after all. I believe it just appears to be high standards because the rules of the dating game became ambiguous to an extreme. I see a lot of young men struggeling to determine what is ok and what not. Of course one can simply ask but then the game is not fun anymore and most women lose interest. In addition what is ok varies drastically which is super unsetteling for men. On top of that there is a huge pressure society wise in the way topics like rape/sexual assault/uncomfortable touch or just how to treat a women in general, are talked about. Men feel this preassure and alongside the many uncertainties that come along with todays flirting/dating I can Imagine a lot of them giving up. For them it isn't fun or worth the risk anymore. For them it feels impossible to do it right and thus they get the impression of high standards. But high standards would'nt be as problematic if the rules where clear. Alright this is my take on this. as for why it became like that is a different issue. Personally, I find this development worrying as a lot of men aren't developing a deeper understanding of one of their deepest and most powerful desires. Ugly things are guranteed to surface sooner or later if they dont manage to master them and theirself.
If we don't have a surplus of men, how the hell are the number of lonely single men increasing without the number of lonely single women also increasing?
What am I missing here? Are all women living in Harems with giga chads now? Is that why they're not "lonely" while men are?
USA, Germany, and UK have *less* males than females, at least as far as I know.
And what does this mean? "Men need to address skills deficit to meet healthier relationship expectarions".
And women shouldn't? Women are perfect now? Since when?
"If we don't have a surplus of men, how the hell are the number of lonely single men increasing without the number of lonely single women also increasing?"
The top 5% of men are going though the majority of women. But because these are the few wanted men in society that women will accept (and the fact that most of these women are trash and not date worthy, let alone wifey material), these men do not stay with them. So really, the number of single women ARE increasing, long term. Eventually, they'll get old enough to where they'll "run out of top quality men" who want to date them.
Also, women are far more likely to be happy being single (up until a certain age) where as men are less happy being single. Women are all single by choice (until a certain age), while most men are not single by choice.
You're also not taking into account just how many women are queer/bisexual (lesbians, gay, dykes, etc) nowadays.
"Women are perfect now? Since when?"
Since 2015 corporate wokeness was a thing and pushed fourth wave feminism onto the masses. "All women are perfect. All women do no wrong. All women are meant to be worshipped by men. And anyone who disagrees is a misogynist/incel and we WILL cancel them."
But yeah, the TL;DR is, the top 5% of men are dating most of the women. If a guy is under six feet, he's SOL. If a guy doesn't have a gym body, he's SOL. If a guy isn't otherwise a 10/10 for some 4/10 female, he's SOL.
Do you see why MGTOW, the Red Pill, and other "manosphere" movements are a huge thing now?
So you're both basically saying women are living in harems with Chads. Marvin (was that your name, cheetah?) Basically says women are "dating" them or living with many of them occasionally throughout their youth until they "hit the wall" and become unhappy and lonely. (Did I get it?)
I lived in a certain bubble in my entire life and I don't pretend to know much about the dating world outside of it. My family is basically the same as it was after the second world war. Girls grow up to marry and they marry young and within their own social circles. Boys aren't unhappy either. They fuck outside their social circles a lot more than the girls, but end up with their own. I don't like it to change either.
So yeah, I can't pretend I know all about today's dating world.
But again, I can't exactly believe this is happening in the scale you are talking about. The sociey is chaotic I know, but it would be far more of a disaster if that was true. Unless, again, I'm living in a way that makes me blinded to the approaching disaster.
I'm not optimistic about my own gender at all, since I've seen and interacted with them a lot and I have to keep myself in check sometimes. But this is too grim.
@Mia-Wallace Well, I was specifically referring to the culture of the United States. And for the record, there are no actual harems; I was being facetious. (Well, for the most part. There ARE some harems in traphouses and some college dormitories as well as several roommate shared-house living situations.) I was basically referring to virtual "harems," wherein a lot of girls have sex with one popular guy (but not necessarily at the same time).
@Mia-Wallace Well, go on Tinder under a male profile and see what the average 3/10 woman is asking for on there, if you think it's not that bad.
And before you mention it's online dating, just remember that these are real women on there; they're not just bots or only live on dating apps. So these same women are in real life as well, asking for the same foolishness.
Yes, the only men (most) women are dating nowadays are the Chads. They then get "used up" by the Chads, and then come here to GAG to cry and complain about "being used and cheated on" after rejecting 400 good men in a row because they were all under six feet tall or less than an 8 out of 10 with an eight-pack Marine's body. And then we're supposed to "feel bad" for these women only picking the most elite of elite men, as if it's zero percent their fault or anything (although with women, accountability and self-blame is rarely ever present. Not to sound "sexist," but it's true.)
If you think dating is grim just from reading that, you have no idea how bad it really is for men. We're living some real life "Children of Men" extinction level sh*t with how awful dating is nowadays. Women being entitled and immature AF, and men being ball-less simps and hyper emasculated to the point they're even afraid to say hello for fear of being arrested for sexual harassment.
Again, MGTOW and other Manosphere movements are growing for a reason. Women tend to complain when things don't go their way. Men tend to just quietly quit and stop engaging, and those movements is them doing that.
@Jamie05rhs Yeah. That happens. Both men and women have "popular individuals" who can fuck more and have more options. Can't say that makes your claim that now that's the norm true.
Are the average American women truly like this? Seriously? The majority are like this? Again, I can't confirm on my own, so I just pretend it's being blown out of proportion here.
Women who think like that exist, but they are dumb as diarrhea. Can't say most women I met were THIS dumb. If they truly are, then most of them will end up as very unhappy spinsters.
@Mia-Wallace Well, it's hard to know how many women are truly like this in a country with 330+ million people in it (although Canada, England, and Australia are identical to the US in terms of culture and "quality of women)." But one thing I can ASSURE YOU, is that the typical 18-30 year old, inner city woman, is definitely like this. I'd say two-thirds of all of them are like this, if not three-quarters.
Rural and country women are another thing, but they're usually off the market before they hit 20 anyway.
And I hate to break it to you, but most PEOPLE are actually this dumb. I'm not into men, but men make stupid mistakes thinking with their dicks every single day. And seemingly learn nothing until they get burned in divorce court, or get a false rape accusation on them, or something. THAT'S when they end up joining the Manosphere.
As far as the Spinsters part, give it time. These are Millennial and some Zoomer women, who are like this. Most Millennial women are still in their late twenties to mid thirties. Although "The Wall", the point women become invisible to average men due to their fading looks and old age (relative to men), is somewhere between 34 to 39.
So I think in the next few years, yeah, we'll be seeing a LOT of bitter feminist ladies complaining. Sad thing is, society is fail-proof for women. Literally fail-proof. They'll always be some balding, 5'6" overweight, George Constanza-like simp to marry these awful women, even after karma and their biological clock smacks them in the face. Men get no such luck. MAYBE a few of them will end up with some 20-something Zoomer women who haven't joined OnlyFans yet, but probably not many men.
@MCheetah That's too damn grim man. Where the fuck am I living then? Maybe I' actually living in a parallel universe and found a way to yours when I was having too much fun with myself.
I've always been protective of my family, but this kind od crap makes me want to double down on the efforts.
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Well no wonder, get off the dang dating apps and get out there and meet women in the open. We keep telling people these dating apps just aren't great for getting to know and communicate with people on a deeper level.
I'm also convinced the younger men are listening to to to many whiny alpha male, mgtow with lonely, angry, men. My husband is 5'7, average size (men are about 5 inches.. which is normal) and isn't making 60k a year but he's definitely a hard worker and still makes a bit more than me. Stop listening to these whiny, Effeminate, bitchy men online and start surrounding yourself with real men who will teach you how it is to be a man. Geez if that was that was the case, I wouldn't exist cause my dad was 5'4...
I dont think the standards of women have changed at all. They've been the same since forever. It's in a woman's nature to want to find the best mate that can protect and provide for her and he future offspring. A woman has a lot to loose when she picks carelessly. Just look how men and society view women that choose wrong. You end up with a man that leaves you a single mother, it's our fault. He's cheater? Why you pick him? He's financially unstable and can't take care of his kids? You chose him. Men will excuse a lot shitty behavior from other men by putting the blame on us and this is why women HAVE to be selective. You prove yourself to be a worthy, trusting parting and vice versa he/she will pick you. Just look at the male animal kingdom, they aren't online making podcast whining about not getting laid. They understand if they want to mate they have to compete and prove themselves to the females. It just seems today's men want shit handed over to them easily, and we see what happens when a woman is to easy. Men often don't respect nor take those type of women seriously. She's seen as pass around and easy lay. How often do we hear men saying this or complaining about women like that? A lot. But at the same time these are the men who want us to drop our standards to near dirt. It's embarrassing.
I´m rather worried though I don´t think the problem that the height or dick size are the real issues but growing inability in young men to communicate and show social skills. It´s also the problem that modern young men have other priorities than the older guys had meaning they´re not that hard working and probably won´t be equally fit. Masculinity today is totally subjective what for one defines manhood is for the other criteria. So I think it´s gonna be harder in the future to find a partner and I don´t like the development.
Edit: Like physical attribute play a role because I don´t think it´s the key role. The biggest problem is that many guys don´t understand women like we are clueless when it comes to bodylanguage and goals of a relationship. But we are also clueless who we could and should be.
6ft plus tall, 7” dick, 60K per year or higher salary, funny and handsome.
My husband is only 5'9 and somewhere between 5.5 to 6.5 cause max size can change based on how turned on he is, and he doesn't make 60k either, he is under that... he is handsome though and can be funny.
Personality all the way, is what matters most to me. Things like being responsible and all that.
If what you say is true, which it doesn't seem to be in rural America here cause 80% of people get married right out of high school. I know cities are different though... then that means lots of single women too.
It means that men are the prize and the few that are good enough have a bunch of options and only a high quality woman will be able to attract and keep that man by standing out above the rest of the women who want him.
I'm not sure if it's to do with social skills though, as I did answer a similar question on here the other day.
Women having high standards also means they'll be lonely too, unless they settle, because a bunch of guys pursuing them that aren't good enough for their standards doesn't make them 'options', because they won't even be taken into consideration.
The men who are good enough have the leverage over the women.
You’ve oversimplified a fairly complex issue here. Women’s expectations are only half of the issue, at most. Men’s expectations are also a concern. The biggest problem though is that men aren’t allowed to connect intimately with each other or even female friends and relatives the way women are. Intimidate relationships with women are our only permissible emotional outlets. So men suffer more from being single than most women. Women can kiss, hug, cuddle each other and talk about anything with each other. So they don’t depend on men to meet all of their emotional needs. If we could meaningfully destigmatize male intimacy, we’d be a lot better off for our own sakes as well as for the women we love.
This is something a lot of frustrated guys would post. I have been seeing a lot of rhetoric similar to this being posted/shared.
While I haven't had any luck in my dating life, and sometimes just want to scream, I refuse to believe there is no hope. The second you succumb to this kind of negativity is the second you let yourself go and stop trying to self-improve.
Go get in shape and be the best version of yourself, and some day, you'll be told by a pretty girl that you actually are worth her time, and that will be the best feeling.
I'm not giving up, and niether should any of you guys. Rally! You deserve good things in life.
Did you even read the article? Men aren't lonely because they don't fit the bill physically. They are lonely because they have to actually try and be a good partner in order to keep a relationship. The article discusses men going to couples therapy in order to better themselves.
Regardless, there's nothing wrong with having standards. It's better to be alone and happy, than to be in a relationship and miserable.
Nah, there's plenty of good men who are capable partners.. Plenty of women who are sh! t partners.. It's the gynocentric society we love in That's dividing men and women with a lot of women trying to compete with men.
It is the women who suffer in the end. By being unwilling to "settle" for a good man and only tolerating a Giga-chad (who will never settle with them), these women hit the wall and end up alone.
If you party away your youth, beauty, and fertility; that's on you. Let's add being tatted, pierced, ran-through, having kids out of wedlock; is not attractive to good men.
Fortunately for women there are Simp providers who will pay for female mistakes, but these women will always hate them.
The points you made literally have nothing to do with the article you screenshotted. It’s saying that men go about dating in an unrealistic way because most dating apps consist of men. Basically saying that men lack proper social skills to date in this day and age.
Women find a mate and leave the dating apps which is why more men are on there now because they don’t get picked up so they just stack upon more single men.
@captain-obvious no dating apps are stacked with men because they think it’s an easy out to dodge necessary social skills to pick up women. I have downloaded tinder before and the amount of men that lack social skills on there is actually insane
Can you give an example? I feel like you’re keeping this as vague as possible but you just wanna put the blame on men for the reason why there’s so many single men today.
It’s super simple. A lot of guys talk about sex on there and comment about looks rather than actually talk about common interests. I don’t need to be super specific with this when not every woman wants what you specified. You screenshotted an article and literally tried to manipulate it to make your reasoning seem correct when the article doesn’t specify anything you said.
So I just wanna make sure I understand you clearly. The reason for more single money men today is due to their own fault? Women don’t have high expectations?
Not every woman has the same expectations so by default you can’t even be correct. Women may have higher standards in terms of getting away from social media from finding their significant other and I understand why. My abusive ex boyfriend was met off of social media, so to be honest with you I’m sure a lot of women are tired of ending up with shitty men and it’s easy to find your way to a shitty man on social media because it’s easy to cover up a shitty personality via social media. The most genuine men I have met in my life are the ones I met in person first
I agree with her. Shitty men hide behind text messages, you meet them and theyre total weirdos. But to your point, women have high expecations like a coke addict can't enjoy a cup of coffee. Im in the top 3% of men, and even I give out attention to whales. Man-whales have no shot
The only point I’ll agree with him with is the income because cost of living is higher and honestly it is HARD to raise kids if both people in the relationship make less than 60k BUT even then I can name several women in my life that have boyfriends that make WAY less and they don’t care.
Those men met those girls through some social circle. Something like 1/2 men actually have a close friend... you know what the cause of all this is. Shitty diets! No one likes being friends with fat food addicts. I can't tell you the number of looks I get from women just because I look like a real man
@randomguy1030 I mean there’s some women that don’t care but honestly a man that takes care of himself is a huge turn on. I just think the issue with men that use social media as dating apps is they usually have really bad issues that make them need to search for women through social media because they scared their in person choices away or just lack social skills to actually make connections in real life.
Ok so lets substract the 30 to 40% of guys on there who dont have social skills. There is still another 40% who do... but are too poor, or dont measure up to the top tier guys who are giving away all this top tier attention
@captain-obvious if you can’t find any women at all, then you are definitely at fault. It means you are aiming towards women that wouldn’t find you attractive or are out of your league , don’t have necessary social skills, don’t look like you take care of yourself, or have issues that you yourself need to figure out on your own and take accountability for.
I have given up on women entirely and have resorted to just saving my money for when I hit 30 years old, I could bang the 20 year old girls I couldn’t when I was younger
@captain-obvious girls won’t bang you just because you have a big savings. If you are interested in gold diggers, gold diggers usually go for the men that have high social status and Investments
Yeah, those are my plans. Just to get stabilized enough to where I can have fun in my 30s and 40s. My dating life sucks now but will only be temporary.
@captain-obvious in my opinion dating apps are a terrible way to guage actual relationship statistics. They're used because they are one of the only places where you can track actual data however they're not very reflective of society and the numbers are a bit skewed. For starters there will always be more men than women on dating aps because men typically pursue women. Secondly because it's a visual platform women are going to gain more attention as they are valued for their beauty. Finally most women only use dating sites as a way to gain attention validation, in reality actual beautiful women are rarely going to he on dating apps. It's going to mostly be a lot of left over women.
@Mcheetah I never said women don’t have flaws, but if you are using an app with intentions to catch a serious relationship, you most likely lack great communication skills and lack authenticity
"if you are using an app with intentions to catch a serious relationship, you most likely lack great communication skills and lack authenticity"
That is such complete BS and troll/feminist logic. So ALL of the women on there looking for love also "most likely lack great communication skills and lack authenticity" too? What if, like me, you lived someplace that's just complete sh*t when it comes to singles, like Philly was? Does that mean someone like that is only on there because they can't talk to people in real life, even if there's no one single to talk to, in real life?
If anything, to be successful, you have to have GREATER-than-average communication skills, since it's harder to keep someone's attention online than in person.
I don't even know what to say to such an opinion. I guarantee you I have better social skills and communication skills than you and probably 95% of the people on GAG. Ultimately, it means nothing though since both dating apps and in-real-life dating is almost entirely reliant on looks and flash, and very little substance or communication skills, whatsoever. Especially since communication skills can easily be learned, but height and a good looking face can't.
@MCheetah you may not like my opinion but he literally posted an article that nearly states what I am saying. I’m not going back and fourth with you on this one. You are just offended and your ego shot down most likely because you use dating apps
@kylee2437 Call it whatever BS you want. Saying it over and over again doesn't make you correct. It just makes you desperate. And if you think I need to "prove" my communication skills to some randos on GAG, then that's even more desperate.
@Mcheetah the fact that your fragile masculinity kicked in because I said an actual truth that can be proven via article the poster actually linked says pretty much all we need to know about you lol if you don’t need to prove yourself, then quit for man child whining about the lack of communication skills going on in this generation.
It doesn't seem like it will end up good. Historically as well as in some current societies, situations like those lead to better violence towards everyone but also towards women. Women, for the most part, dont date a man who they think aren't at least on their same level.
6ft plus tall as a minimum is a bit much. 5’7+ Please. 7” dick is prettyyy but minimum can be 5+ inches. 60K is the ideal salary I want to make so until I make that, I can't expect him to. Funny and Handsome are the basic musthaves. Otherwise he can get tf on
The reason why men are single nowadays is because a lot don’t know how to approach women in fear of ‘being called a creep’ we’ve all seen the gym videos of women recording just to catch men looking for 2.2 seconds. It’s things like these than contribute to the statics. Not to mention the modern man nowadays can cook and clean so if you aren’t coming with any value to that man then he’s going to stay single. Stay blessed kings and queens
Y’all always act like men don’t have high standards themselves lol
If you have confidence and a chill personality, I promise you can bag any woman you want. sitting there crying about “I’m not 6 ft tall, women don’t want me boo boo :(“ isn’t making you anymore attractive
I don´t know you so I can´t tell. But from an average looking guy´s perspective that fits into the category of the article I have made different experiences, I don´t think they´re lower in than ever they might not have risen though.
I think the problem is that a number of us have TERRIBLE judgement of character. Like, if you're dating someone for only few months, or are already having sex after the 3rd date, then you are a moron.
Besides, I think there is a rise in lonely women, too. Particularly those over 35. And I imagine it's for the same goddamn reason.
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The overwhelming majority of women know it’s much easier to meet a guy IRL and don’t rely on apps to actually find a partner (the ones on there are almost always there for something else). Why guys go looking in the wrong places for a girlfriend is beyond me.
It has nothing to do with high standards. Women just aren't settling for crap anymore. The days where you left school and grabbed a husband, any husband, because it was shameful not to be married are long gone.
I think its a complete BS excuse to shift blame on women having a certain standard.
Those men can just find a woman with a lower standard but these men also typically only desire beautiful women to be with while they are subpar physical looking themselves.
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Let's see... 10% of men are 6' or over. Less than 2% are 7" or over. 10% are considered handsome. And I'd say probably 40% make 60k annually. Put those together and you're talking about 8 out of every thousand men who are good enough for your average woman who does online dating. But men are stupid simps who just can't help themselves. Online dating for men should be considered a form of self-harm. Seriously, guys. Stop putting up with this bullshit.
A woman on "Family Feud" listed her six-sixes: 6ft tall, 6inches, 6pack, 6figure salary... and I don't remember the rest. It was funny, but it extremely limits who she would date, and also limits who she could be happy with.
Honestly it is often their own fault. I often see guys turn down perfectly acceptable ladies because they think they can get the beauty queen - who is really just the product of makeup, Spanx, and a pushup bra anyway.
Because the numbers of men and women are about equal, the number of single men and women is also about equal until quite late in life when the male mortality rate becomes significantly higher.
When one sex outnumbers the other, they will have a hard time finding a partner. Men are in surplus online. Women have more choice, so the least attractive will not be able to find a partner online. In much of the country there are more women with college degrees than men. Professional women who delayed marrying into their 30's and are looking for a professional man may have a hard time.
Not all women are attracted to those men. There are women who prefer smaller men. There are women who do not care about the penis size. Just like how there are men that are attracted to small tits.
@MCheetah I don't really approach guys, they approach me and you know, I'm nice to them and get to know them, but it's like eventually they get over on me, which I know is technically my fault for being kind of a push over, so um.. I guess it's ultimately my fault for not standing up for myself
Makes sense. You need to see The Wizard to get some confidence. Not too much, but enough to not be a push-over. If you have that, you can then filter out the bad guys and go after the good guys without being entitled about it like so many other women are.
From my understanding, you're a tall white (or Asian) girl, so at least looks aren't a problem for you.
Women raised men who don't meet the bill for the daughters they raised.
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Not relevant. You shouldn't rely on someone else for your happiness. I'm going to be happy whether I'm single or not. Because life is too short to be anything but.
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Men brought it on themselves by believing garbage like this.
Guys are usually aholes. I learned long ago to listen to women about women. Guys know nothing. That's from a female friend of mine. She's given me a lot of great advice. I think that the male population is mostly boys and not men and the same for the female population. Being girls and not women. I've met a lot of girls on my life but when I meet a woman it's rare and I remember them. I know that men and women both do bad things to each other so it's not a case of men bad women good. I want a loving relationship , sex is part of that but it's not the most important thing. To boys sex is everything and they just move onto the next girl when the one he's with won't go down on him. Men want to cuddle and do loving things for women. Men appreciate what they have and strive to perfect themselves in order to be one a better mate. Boys don't think that way at all. But females need to take a good long look at they guys they go out with. A guy who's in and out of prison and has a drug addiction isn't going to be a great partner or father. A guy who busted his ass to get through college and seeks to improve himself would be a much better choice.
@Hellraiser1984 A self-loathing male feminist has entered the chat. (No one tell him that women hate and disrespect white knights even more than men do.)
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