How do you know your being used? ?

[Juicyred921]

[oldawg]

Usually by the way your treated but if you are asking because you think that you might be being used I would have to know more about the relationship and for your sake I really hope that you are not being used because nobody deserves that. I would start by nonchalantly look into his/her past.

[Rockstarrrrr]

Most of the time you only give... They don't go out of their way to please you or look after you... they get affectionate only when they need something... a lot of excuses and promises but no consistency...

[loveslongnails]

You're being used when you make someone a priority and you are still their option. Not to sound overly cruel, but if you really can't tell if that's happening, you might be too naive to be dating or getting into a relationship.

[FilmGuy93]

You kinda need to take a tally of things in relationship, but I would say you can tell you're being used when interacting with the person doesn't bring you joy.

[Heolurt]

When any female comes up to me and is being nice to me, it's normally followed with a favour of some sort. Or they are a prostitute and they want me to spend my hard earned money on gross sex, like get out of my way and leave me alone.

[Massageman]

When someone alludes to the "fact" that you are NOT being used.

[Juicyred921]

So if someone were to have a conversation about it and reflect saying, “ I’ve thought about if I’m using you but I think about if you weren’t helping me at all would I feel the same. And I would still love you. So I don’t think I’m using you”

[Massageman]

If they didn't feel they weren't using someone, why would they have to mention that they "didn't think I'm using you" ?

[Wubs3000]

When you feel like they aren't making sacrifices and the same efforts that you are

[Andres77]

When you pour out your heart and receive nothing in return

[Guardian45]

This is going to need some elaboration (context) in order for me to give a proper (appropriate) answer.

[OnTheLevel]

When you are the one who is always accommodating the other and they don't ever accommodate your needs, you are being used.

[Iron_Man]

When you put out and the guy doesn’t come around anymore

[jasco]

Its just something you can tell after a while

[maximumpower]

>50% of total effort being shouldered by you?
If so, you're being used.

[Fuentes]

When I don't care about you, but you give me everything I want.

[Jltakk]

If I'm giving everything and my sacrifices aren't reciprocated with at least a "thanks".

[Bklynbadboy12]

When you're putting you all into it and you're getting nothing in return

[Zygum]

When you give something and don't get return

[Hotboy_booblover]

When ur giving exceeds ur taking by a very big margin

[eagle1951]

causes they don't really care what they do to you

[Lizzyglizeto2]

That's quite hard to say

[chocomilk99]

Well miss pay some attention to the guys they r nailing it lol

[Lizzyglizeto2]

Lol 🤣 you must be a very fun guy

[chocomilk99]

I am lol.. but what i meant is that guys on this post nailing it with their answers ...

[SomeJokeTeeth]

You are constantly defending them

[In_Trance]

Need to give some context; used for what?

[Juicyred921]

Used in a relationship. If you pay all the bills. He lives rent free. He doesn’t do anything. Doesn’t work, doesn’t take you out on dates, doesn’t have sex with you, doesn’t support you financially, mentally or physically. But you support him 100%. Take care of him like a child but get nothing in return. The only thing you get is not feeling as lonely as if there were no one else in the house. Like having a dog.

[In_Trance]

You need to make a decision.

[Juicyred921]

What if that the only relationship I’m able to have. It always been like that. With my ex too. Maybe I’m just not meant to be loved.

[In_Trance]

I can assure you it doesn't have to be this way. You already know that too. You won't find the right one until you let go of the wrong one

[Juicyred921]

I’m too old to keep looking and I know I’m not attractive. I know he’s in a slump right now. Having mental issues that he needs to deal with. Maybe it’ll get better. If not. I’m done looking. I’m done with men. They only know how to hurt you. I’ll just live out the rest of my life alone.

[In_Trance]

Well, good luck