I've been thinking about my friends with benefits and I'm starting to wonder if I'm just being used (yes I know that's kind of what a friends with benefits relationship is, using each other for sex). I don't expect anything from him other than what we have right now because I would never ask him for something I can't give in return. So my expectations for us are not high but I still wonder what or if I mean anything to him. I know we are friends and it's great (we weren't friends until after we started sleeping together though) but it confuses me because he tells me he misses me and he texts me everyday, even just to ask how I'm doing. He tells me we need to have more movie nights but we usually only meet for an hour or two and it's late because he doesn't get off work until 1am. When he wants to see me he isn't afraid to ask and I almost always say yes. When we have plans he tells me how excited he is and how he can't wait to see me but that doesn't necessarily mean anything, it could simply mean he wants to get laid.
Do guys that just want sex actually say things like that to a girl?
Should I just ask him? If so, how should I ask him?
It would be nice to know whether or not I'm just a place to stick his dick..
Do guys that just want sex actually say things like that to a girl?
Should I just ask him? If so, how should I ask him?
It would be nice to know whether or not I'm just a place to stick his dick..
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