What do you think about a girl who doesn’t have a job and her boyfriend sends her money?

[Darine123]

I was wondering

[dynamicyandere]

It really depends on the context.


Stay at home wife? If they have a serious relationship and their love is real and he wants to take care of her and she wants to focus on giving him all her love and attention and helping him around the house to make life easier for him. If they BOTH want that, then that’s great for them. If they BOTH would enjoy that lifestyle, more power to them. I support it. 💯


Sugar baby? This is in between. As long as there is no deception going on, this is fine. They agree to exchange company for money, attention for money, other “favors” for money. But, as long as it’s upfront and both know EXACTLY what they’re signing up for, it’s cool. It’s a mutual agreement. It’s transactional. Nothing wrong here as long as everything is transparent. 🤙


Gold digger? This is f*cked up. This is where a woman PRETENDS to love a man so that she can take his money. It’s not love. It’s greed. It’s not transparency. It’s manipulation. It’s straight up wrong. ❌

[FinalFantasyBro]

It personally depends on the circumstances if the person you are dating just sending you money because you can't get a job yet but you been constantly trying to find a job and this is only a temporary situation than I don't mind if girls or guys get some money from girlfriends or boyfriends. I personally think it's nice knowing you have someone who wouldn't mind helping you out until you can feel ready to make your own money.

Now on the other hand if you can actually get a job, or ain't have no disability or any sort of but hate hard work and want the easy way out than yes it's kinda lazy and pathetic, like seriously what happened if you two break up I highly doubt your boyfriend who will be your ex won't think of still giving you money.

[Haha456]

no boyfriend will keep sending you money for free. Usually she is exchanging something to him. And most often it is sex

[GlassTop]

He was already getting sex though?

[Haha456]

@GlassTop

sex is the most sought after thing that all guys want.

[GlassTop]

Yea I’m saying he was already getting sex before sending hey money.

[Haha456]

@GlassTop

usually its sex and money being exchanged. nothing else.

[FreyaRed]

When her prime is over she will very likely regret her choice to become financially dependent.

[Guy13]

I do not have a problem with that given our relationship is a long-term conceived endeavor. I need to know “she loves me” and committed to me only. Make sense ⁉️

[Zolly99999]

Depends on the situation I guess.

If she is trying her best but is having trouble then I would do it too for her...

If she just sits around with no interest in even trying to do anything then it would be a lot different.

[xyzfdg]

Nobody's talking about motivation; why is he sending her money? If he's a millionaire & has massive disposable supplies this changes things massively. Is he expecting something in return? Is there an arranged mutual agreement? Is she leading him on, or he leading himself on (convinced there's a "prize" in store), or just trying to help someone in need? This is way too vague to even answer properly.

[padreflint]

I suppose that it would depend. Does she not have a job because she's going to school and is focused on her studies? Is she busy caring for a loved one? Is she raising a child?
Or does she just not want to work?
In the end it's their relationship, whatever works for them.

[FilmGuy93]

That sounds like a pretty typical relationship, honestly. A bit more extreme, in that most women will have some kind of job, but women get money from their boyfriends all the time.

[RavVid]

Well if the boyfriend is not me than it has got nothing to do with me. If I am the boyfriend then she better be earning it in the bedroom.

[AviatorTom]

That used to be called a "kept woman".

[Wubs3000]

If she is just using him to get money and isn't looking for a job I think thats a bad relationship and she is manipulative

If she is looking for a job while he is paying their rent and stuff then I think thats normal

[andreasderjuengere]

I'd expect her to return a number of non-monetary favours that reflect the magnitude of my contributions.

If I indeed ''send money'' - that's still my own voluntary decision.

[FunkyMonkee]

Well, ya gotta remember, Joe's in charge so, it's not like she can help it! If someone like Trump were in charge, I'd say she she go out and find a job; they''re practically falling out of the trees!!

[dustybiker]

Is she unable to work? Cause a decent woman would be writing down every cent in order to pay him back when she can work. Otherwise she’s dead weight.

[Smoke-n-Growls]

She's lazy, irresponsible, possibly incompetent.

I wouldn't want to hang out or be friends. I don't like people who aren't independent. Just a clash of values.

[JustiReno]

It’s just a 7 year long maternity leave

[Smoke-n-Growls]

🤮
My mother was a stay at home mom from a year before I was born to well after I graduated university and started working.

Some people just don't want to do anything with their lives but lay in bed and scroll Facebook.

I can't understand it.

[JustiReno]

Hey, but cmon who’s gonna do diapers? You don’t want their creepy weirdo poor people raising your child do you?

[jennyPuss]

being a stay at home mother IS a job. that's not what the asker said. they said just being given money for basically being alive. that's being a mooch. or a hooker if she's trading snatch for script. i support a woman's desire to choose working in the home. it should not be looked down on in any way. but there's women who totally abuse it. a friend's wife is a good example. sometimes the kids don't even get fed and she's supposed to be "home schooling" them. but she's barking at my friend to get her a new laptop. yeah- i think the problem is too much laptop already.

[JustiReno]

@jennyPuss she didn’t say that either, she just said doesn’t have a job and boyfriend sends them money. Sure there are lazy people, and there are hard working people, I knew a girl who worked right up until she gave birth, and went to work a week later, if I had to choose id be a lazy person tbh 😭

[Hanrej]

I would wonder more what she thinks about that. Burdening her partner like that I would assume she tries her best to become more. Plenty of women are very comfortable like that though.

[MrPickles13]

Honestly doesn't seem like a real relationship. And well the term parasitic does come to mind. I get if it was short term due to losing a job or injury. But if this was a constant/long term thing with refusal to get a job then we'll yeah definitely parasitic.

[JustiReno]

Never, ever, ever, complain about feminism if you tell your woman to get a job

[Rania05]

Exactly 💯

[242plusInfinity]

Nothing wrong with that. People want different things in life. We shouldn't make fun of them because they re different. You might wanna do something different in your life someday and might be scared because people will judge you.

[ethanallen]

The polite way of putting it would be to say she is a whore.

[Wise4myage]

Unless she's has a legit reason, then she is a moocher.

[JustiReno]

She’d break her nails

[Neilbud]

The same if the situation was flipped. Manipulative. She had a boyfriend because she needs one, or does not want to get a job herself.

[Subarugirl]

That's making the assumption that she manipulated him into doing it... it could be perfectly consensual

[Agagagagaga]

@Subarugirl Giving consent does not mean the absence of manipulation. In fact the two go hand in hand.

[Neilbud]

The odds are she is only dating him cause he pays. It's no different than a guy dating a girl just for sex.

[Subarugirl]

And if they are both okay with that arrangement , who are you to judge

[Kaneki05]

I don't think much about, longs if both of you are okay with it.

[FlowerChild94]

Exactly!!

[Noodle_fan]

indifferent , i mean it is their money , it is not my business

[AsaKyo]

I don't know, I'd rather just suck it up and have panic attacks on a job, I guess

[Raaj4you]

She is dependant on her boyfriend. She can't make money with her own efforts. It's fine to ask money if she is married to him. But she can't force him to make more money alone. They have to work together to make more money.

[slatyb]

My wife doesn't have an outside job. I'm happy with that. She takes care of almost everything else.

[FlowerChild94]

I don’t think about it why would I be so interested in someone else money?

[FlowerChild94]

Also soo funnnnny the girls on here are big mad I love it ❤️😂 I think she should have her own money for security and safety purposes. Save it. And STILL have her boyfriend send her money. Yeah I said it !

[jennyPuss]

so when guys don't want to be married because they are tired of being used by women like you- don't come crying because you're old and can't find a man to take care of you. men don't like the whole "his money is our money, and her money is her money". this attitude hurts women overall. and sure, a few women here and they might be lucky and get married, but even the government recently said that we have fewer marriages now than since the civil war. that means MOST young women can't find a husband. yeah there might be some girls out there who say they don't need no man- but the majority of girls want a husband. you can go be a loser who uses men if you want to but you'll pay for it someday. karma

[FlowerChild94]

@jennyPuss and let me guess you’re married?

[FlowerChild94]

@jennyPuss lmfao don’t tell me what I can/can’t have or find in life you have no right you’re not me and you’re not GOD.

[FlowerChild94]

@jennyPuss and believe me for anything does wrong in my life I won’t be crying to you that’s for damn sure so why tf are you so pressed about me and what I’m doing. How does it affect you? Riddle me that?

[jennyPuss]

because you're making us all look bad. that's why it matters to me. i want my daughters to have husbands and i want to have grandkids. yes i'm married. but just cause i'm married doesn't mean that i don't have an interest in how other women behave. you can act a fool when you're young and think you get away with it but the bible says a person reaps what they sow. that means if you plant corn, you're going to get corn. if you plant beans, you're going to get beans. and if you plant foolish things in your life, you're going to get foolish rewards. but if you plant good and wise things in your life, you will get good and wise rewards.

you should be thinking about the future. you haven't even made it through the first half of your life. you realize we will spend the other half of our lives old and ugly right? you need to get the best man you can while you're young and pretty to fall in love with you and make memories with you, because when a man is old- that love and those memories are what's going to keep him by your side. not your spoiled brat narcissism.

[FlowerChild94]

@jennyPuss so with all that being said. your advice is? don't take a man's money unless you have his ring on your finger? You can teach your daughters that perfectly fine but I’m not your daughter and I will never be.

& I know plenty of MARRIED woman who are like me and have been before they got married. So you’re saying “don’t use guys “ “let them use you.”


Work and pay bills for you and them and still do housework cook and clean and pay to keep yourself up provide love support and nurturing and not to mention sex. And until you have a ring then and only then can he pay for anything?
Sounds like a fucking set up you can miss me with that bullshit. Sounds like you’re setting me up. m and I’m not with that. And if you’re so concerned with other woman there’s plenty worst than me worry about them.

Byeeeee and please I’m done talking to you. You can respond but I won’t.

[ethanallen]

@jennyPuss Thank you for this.

[jennyPuss]

it's not a setup. don't use a guy- and don't let him use you either. it's pretty easy. you find a guy. you like him- he likes you. fall in love. get married. and then he can buy you stuff and you do special favors for him. that's how it's worked for thousands of years. now all of a sudden everyone wants it to change? it's worked for thousands of years because that's HOW IT WORKS. other mating strategies don't work. if they did- then people would do that instead. marriage is the best system because it is what has survived with humanity.

[ce-rose]

that's weird? there's also the chance she is with him only because of that

[Rania05]

Financial independence is such a wonderful feeling, hope she makes the discovery of how great it's

[Mart10]

It's hard to find job these days. It's normal. But yeah, if the girl is not trying to find a job than it's wrong.

[Keepitreal007]

Is there a reason she doesn’t have a job? Because you can literally go anywhere and get a job nowadays. Either lazy or mooching unless legitimately can’t work.

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

It's fine if she's looking for work but needs help.

[JustiReno]

What if she just really really wants you to cum in her pussy and take 5 years off

[Guardian45]

Lucky HER! I wish I could stay home and someone send me money!

[Dargil]

There may be a back story. Maybe we hear it before we cast judgment.

[SwimmerMuscle2000]

She’s probably using him for his money and that’s all. It won’t end well for her. At some point she’ll lose her looks and men won’t be so eager to pay her way. It’s sad

[Phoenix98]

Going off what you’ve told us I’d say she’s a bum.

[Danny_dan92]

A worthless moocher




Or a glorified prostitute

[Mangospacho]

I would definitely date a girl whose ex-boyfriend still sends her money. I wouldn’t have to spend a dime on her. That sounds like a good deal.

[ZenoZoldyck]

As far as she doesn't leave her house, a good girl

[Čiadas]

Depends. Is she looking for a job? Can he support her? Is she pulling her weight in other areas?

No? A golddigger.

[Fromdusktilldawn]

I'd ll end bad for him. She'll take more and more advantage off him

[Bklynbadboy12]

I don't think anything is wrong with that if he's got it like that and their both okay with it I don't see a problem

[Anonymous]

I don’t mind taking care of my woman. It wouldn’t bother me much if I made the money to support us. I do that now already.

[Lunatic1]

Depends on if she is trying to get a job or not, but I wouldn't be that kind of boyfriend.

[TonightYouu]

she better intend on marrying that man or else she is wasting his time and hers

[Subarugirl]

thats called a sugar baby

[Anonymous]

Pathetic honestly because once he dumps her what will she have? She sounds like a lazy unambitious, depressed bum

[Bratsondanielle]

Sounds like me. Oh wait... that is me lmao

[burlen]

I think of nothing about her.

[jennyPuss]

she belongs to the streets!

[JustiReno]

Omg @jennyPuss she’s in college and a straight A student, girl get a masters degree and become a professor or some shit

[JosyJosy]

I hope she pays it back in a way that she can.

[Light909090]

Oh she knows How to Pay it back 😉 😉

[TacosRAwesome]

It's his money and therefore his problem

[jennyPuss]

how about- integrity? don't take a man's money unless you have his ring on your finger?

[FlowerChild94]

@jennyPuss lmfaoooooo

[TacosRAwesome]

@jennyPuss I have integrity. But again it's their choice not mine.

[jennyPuss]

@FlowerChild94 what's so funny about being respectable?

[FlowerChild94]

@jennyPuss stop trying to put your beliefs on people it’s never gonna work 😂😂😂 you're wasting your time.

[JustiReno]

Sounds … old school

[MikeInHawaii]

I call that “implicit prostitution.”

[Juxtapose]

Gold digger and a sucker.

[dudeinohio]

She needs to get a job and support herself.

[motownplayer2000]

Lazy asf!!! Red flag, stay away

[zagor]

Isn't that what a housewife is?

[monkeynutts]

She got a sugar daddy.

[msc545]

Sugar baby.

[Aiko_E_Lara]

It depends on what she does for her boyfriend.

[Aiko_E_Lara]

Overall, I wouldn't mind if she is really helpful with the households.

[Haha456]

usually its sex.

[Aiko_E_Lara]

I don't think sex is the only things that can keep a guy from sending her money when hook up culture is a thing.

[Haha456]

I can tell you don't get out much. Hookup culture is a thing but there are also plenty of guys with no game. Plus, guys care wayy more about sex than housework.

[Aiko_E_Lara]

@Haha456 Then i can also say I can tell you don't go out as much because you assume that guys generally would only keep her for sex. If you say you've met most guys in the world, you're lying. If you say you're basing it on your experience, you think guys you met are comparable to the majority of the whole male population?

[Haha456]

Because people who go out into the real world know things that you do not.

[Gavin_Rowe]

Agreed

[Aiko_E_Lara]

@Haha456 Then how come you didn't know lots of things you need to know?

[Haha456]

I knew things you didn't know. Now you're pissed about it.

[Aiko_E_Lara]

@Haha456 You know, i can easily say the same thing. I knew things you didn't know. Now you're pissed about it.

[Haha456]

@Aiko_E_Lara

I can also tell you don't get laid very often.

Certain things experienced people can tell right off the bat

[Aiko_E_Lara]

Then I can also tell you that you don't get laid very often. Easy to make assumptions than to prove anything

[Haha456]

@Aiko_E_Lara

I got laid yesterday. you don't know who you're talking to

[Aiko_E_Lara]

@Haha456 Then I can also say I got laid yesterday and you don't know what you're talking about

[Aiko_E_Lara]

@Haha456 Also funny that you claim i don't know who i'm talking to when you're making assumptions about anyone.

[Haha456]

@Aiko_E_Lara

whatever you say doesn't persuade me that its the truth. because you've already proven to me you have a lack of knowledge about dating

[Aiko_E_Lara]

@Haha456 And you know, i'm also speaking the truth here. How you like to assume thing proves you know nothing about dating

[Haha456]

because everyone knows sex is the most sought after thing by men. Nobody cares about housework. thats how i know that you do not know anything

[Aiko_E_Lara]

@Haha456 Also because everything knows you've never met most men in the world. And that's how I know you know nothing

[Haha456]

you sure sound mad.

[Aiko_E_Lara]

@Haha456 And you don't think you're mad when you actually are.

[Haha456]

i have proof you don't have a dating life. you dont have any prooof that i don't have a dating life.
lets get that straight.

[Aiko_E_Lara]

@Haha456 Hypocrite. How about if I say you don't have proof while i have proof? I am getting that straight. I don't see how anyone can date a hypocrite like you.

[Haha456]

because everyone knows sex is the first number 1 most sought after thing, not maids. you wouldn't know cuz you dont get out much.

[Aiko_E_Lara]

@Haha456 And everyone knows that supporting doesn't necessarily be like a "maid" but it's more to that. So wouldn't know cuz you dont get out much.

[Haha456]

you're so desperate to prove that i don't know everything that you can't even form a grammatically correct coherent sentence that makes any sense.

nice try... but you failed

[Aiko_E_Lara]

@Haha456 And you're so desperate to prove i don't know everything that you can't even form a grammatically correct coherent sentence that makes any sense.

nice try... but you failed

[Haha456]

you're really immature, petty, and lack decent character. no wonder why you're so bitter and on a site like this

[Aiko_E_Lara]

@Haha456 And you don't think you're being immature when you are actually are. No wonder why you're so bitter just making assumptions on anyone.

[Haha456]

is that the best you got? repeating the same things im telling you?

[Haha456]

maybe if you can actually get laid, you wouldn't be so bitter

[Aiko_E_Lara]

Is that the best you got? Making stories up? Maybe if you can actually get laid then you wouldn't be so bitter

[maximumpower]

They call that a "mooch."

[Fuentes]

She a bum and ripping that boy off