What u think I should do?

[vj0090]

There is a female friend of my girlfriend who is in big trouble. She is pregnant and her boyfriend is totally asshole. He has left her. She has no job, abandoned from her family, all of her friends including my girlfriend has left her.. We have met couple of times in presence of my girlfriend offcourse and i somehow want to help her I any possible way. Just for the sake that i know her. But my girlfriend is asking me not to step in and keep my own business. That girl has even reached out me for some favours. I really really feel bad for her as she in on the edge of loosing everything.. What should I do.. Should I help her or try to convince my girlfriend to help her.. But she get angry the moment I talk about her..

[Adam1978]

She needs to take responsibility for her actions she decided to breed with a poor candidate. It's not your problem or your girlfriends. So you should do nothing. If we go save everyone from their mistakes no one will take responsibility.

[vj0090]

Hmmm. Agree to the fact that she did a wrong thing and with a wrong guy.. He has totally dumped her..

[LaneHale42]

Did the boyfriend leave because it isn't his baby? Is that also why everyone else is abandoning her?

I guess it's important to be a good friend if you feel the need to. Try to avoid supporting this woman forever, try to help her get set up with some kind of public assistance like welfare or whatever is available for people in desperate situations.

[vj0090]

Boyfriend left because he is a Casanova.. Who enjoys sleeping with any random girl.. He knows it's his he has accepted that but not coming forward to marry her or take her responsibility.. He has now gone abroad for some work.

[LaneHale42]

He must be trying to skip out on paying child support.
This is an unfortunate consequence of having sex with bad people.

[slatyb]

Your girlfriend is right. You can't fix this. What is the root of it? An abusive childhood? Substance abuse? Both? The best you can do is direct her to organizations that support struggling pregnant women.

[Guy13]

Stay out the way…

[vj0090]

That's what my girlfriend says..

[Guy13]

She is a smart woman. Ultimately, you are not their savior and it is none of your Business. And in this unstable and violent world who needs another possibility of unforeseen violent actions. Make sense? Sound like your woman again. ;-)

[vj0090]

I know m not the savior.. Haha. But it makes me think how unpredictable is human nature these days.. It's like being with your friends only in good time but showing them your back in ther bad phase.. I guess that's the world we live in..

[Guy13]

Exactly... unpredictable in all tings... violence !!!

[Jennz6]

Nothing you can do really 🤷‍♀️

[vj0090]

Yeah I think so

[Anonymous]

Convince her to to go to a woman's shelter.

[vj0090]

But that's so terrible... I mean till last month we were partying together and now we are asking her to go a women shelter... So sad. People change themselves 😔😒

[Opinion Owner]

Yeah, but what else can you do?

[vj0090]

I can in many senses.. I want to do it as well.. But my girlfriend.. She is just getting crazy if I even take her name.. So i dont talk about her but i think sometimes what she must b going through all alone