What should l do?

[RitiSen]

Okay, so l told this guy, who was a very good friend of mine, that l don't reciprocate his feelings (as he later confessed that he wanna be more than friends) and now he completely ignores me and like I don't know, maybe even talk shit about me behind my back, l feel bad cause we were very very good friends and l didn't wanna lose him, but this is so not justified, l can't force this thing, was l wrong for clearing myself?

[Minnow21]

You're not wrong for clearing yourself. As for this person, there's a lot of possibilities, but if he is a good and kind person at heart, I highly doubt he would talk bad about you. Maybe he's gotten over you, but feels weird about talking to you as often as he did because he doesn't want to give you the wrong idea, even if that wouldn't happen. Maybe he doesn't feel a pull to converse with you as he once did, and doesn't mean to ignore you. I'm not sure what this guy is like, but if you want accurate answers, I would suggest contacting him through an app you can dm or text him on, or if you see him in person talk to him then.

[RitiSen]

It's only been like 3 days... so l am confused, and he was in love with me fr

[Billlewis]

No, you weren't, because if you hadn't let him know that you're not interested in him romantically, he would have continued to pester you.

[Tim2nice]

No. You’ve done nothing wrong. Your ex friend couldn’t handle rejection but that’s his problem

[boggboss]

Do u even know if he is talking bad about u

[boggboss]

And the same way u don't have feelings might be the same way he can't deal with just being friends i don't think it's unjustified not being able to be friends with u

[BLP11520]

You were not wrong. You won more you didn’t..

[roy_ricky09]

Bong?